i don't actually care about the argument being had in the post this is from, but i just find this interesting:
the "just" is doing a lot of work here. there's an implicit belief that feelings are immaterial, subjective and therefore less real and less meaningful (hyperobjectivity), and meant to be overpowered by the rational objective will. and therefore, if gender is "just" a feeling, then it shouldn't have such a strong impact on one's life that one is not able to simply repress out of existence. which means that because one CANNOT do that, gender must be objectively real and not emotionally or socially based.
if you do not start from this hyperobjective perspective, this line of logic starts to fall apart. feelings are not "just," and they can have a profound impact on someone's life while nonetheless being subjective. the same goes for social constructs and the influence of culture over our feelings and ways of making sense of our experiences; none of this is "just" anything, and there should be no expectation that one can simply (or should simply!) make experiences born out of feelings or society "go away." but hyperobjectivity is deeply ingrained in our culture, and if you do not have the skills or foundation to make meaning differently, you won't.
i don't doubt this person feels genuinely supported and seen by 4tran. but i also think a lot of that has more to do with their broader worldview and meaningmaking practices & not finding other trans perspectives as credally accessible from where they are right now.
#iiiiiii dont think it’s deeply ingrained into ‘our’ culture#it’s ingrained into a specific type of person that oop is/was
if you are talking about hyperobjectivity, it is very much a part of Western culture as a whole. oop's experience is just one specific expression of it.
here's my definition of the term (linked above):
Hyperobjectivity: a hierarchy of knowing that views objectivity as inherently more important, trustworthy, valid, and real than subjectivity Hyperobjectivity rarely denies subjective knowledge entirely, but it is treated as inferior, downplayed, ignored, and written off.
this is a central part of, amongst other things, European Enlightenment philosophy and politics and the idea of rational inquiry conquering irrational bodily feelings, Cartesian dualism, positivism, the idea that a dominant social group's subjective experience is simply objective reality, while the objective reality of subordinate/oppressed groups is entirely subjective and therefore less real and important. it's also more than explicitly thinking that feelings don't matter. it's a way of making meaning that is part of the foundation of the social worldview of Western culture.
White Western European culture is not universal



















