âWhite âwiggersâ absorb hip hop; backpackers and vagabonds absorb so-called Third-World culture; male transvestites and drag queens absorb the woman; and âfemmesâ absorb the prostitute. The transgression of boundaries presupposes the preservation of boundaries. When whites play blacks and academics pretend they are âwhoresâ and âjunkiesâ, they deride the humanity of the black person, the junkie and the whore. Thereâs a slogan printed on T-shirts in Barcelona distributed by a âsex workerâ group: âYo tambĂŠ soc putaâ [âIâm a whore, tooâ.] This shirt is proudly worn by radical youths and other daring souls who believe that, by wearing this silkscreened T-shirt, they have transgressed the boundary that separates people. âWe are all whores,â they think. What they donât get is that the whore isnât just a whore. She is a person, just like they are...
This admiration of the whore is no vaccine against contemptâ it is exactly the opposite. It goes hand in hand with scorn, overt or covert, for her humanity and a lack of insight into her actual living conditions. A âfemmeâ can repeat all day long that she is a âslutâ and a âwhoreâ and simultaneously have a blasĂŠ attitude towards prostitution. A transsexual can demand that everyone call him a woman and at the same time have absolutely no understanding of womenâs issues. The vagabond wears a Mexican poncho but does not forget to haggle over the price. A man who romanticizes the working class applauds the physical laborer and hopes that he has some of those attributes, but it is stereotypical masculinity he admires, not a living person trying to survive under difficult conditions. The âwiggerâ feels like he is part of the black community, but is not upset about violence in the ghettoâin his mind, it is part of the draw! What he fails to understand is that by fetishizing someoneâs everyday life, he shows how distant he is from it. Living conditions become an identity, and then a fetish.â
- Kajsa Ekis Ekman, Being and Being Bought













