My thoughts on these placements
based on my last lover. PSA: this might be biased. donât take it TOO seriously, itâs mostly for me to purge this relationship. LETS GOOOOOOO !!
Have you ever felt hella special to someone and then you see them interact with someone else and youâre like âoh. iâm⌠iâm just another one of their friends.â this is what it feels to be around a gemini rising sometimes. most of the ones I know, are either extremely popular, know alot of people or at the very least just hang out regularly with a bunch of people (might just be colleagues and not necessarily friends but theyâre often surrounded). And they have this way of making you feel special, and funny and entertaining but most of the times, theyâre the ones controlling the discussion and the flow of it.
when it came to my ex, he knew so many people and every person he was interacting with, he knew a little detail about them, and it made the person care so much about him. Even though he didnât as much. Somewhat flimsy, itâs hard to know a Gemini risingâ true intentions with you.
Sags donât have the best reputation in my book, and he certainly didnât help the stereotypes. The thing with Sags sun that I find hard to understand is the constant lie they have between who they truly are and who they want to be. Itâs a constant battle of âdonât look too hard into my flaws bc soon enough Iâll be this grandiose super star and therefore you can forget about the awkward nerd you have in front of you.â Most of them are nerds, truly. But they hate it. As opposed to Aquarius sunâs desire to be different and their ability to stand on their two feet even tho theyâre being outcast, a Sag sunâs deepest fear is to be seen as the weirdo they are. (that unfortunately they associated with being a loser)
If youâve never been close with a Sag, youâll be the first to deny this claim. âWhat?? The Sag I met was THE life of the party! No weirdo here.â or âThe Sag I met was a boss ass btch, she had everything under control and very educated!!â
And that, my friends, is what we call a front. Sure, they can be the life of the party, usually very keen on getting their diplomas, but if you donât know them, thatâs the only part of them youâll get to see cause itâs the part they deem acceptable.
Iâm not even gonna comment on the commitment issues, cause yall⌠you know it already lmao.
Nobody hates an underdeveloped virgo moon more than they hate themselves. So critical, judgemental and harsh. They notice absolutely everything that you do and instead of going to you and confront you about the issue, theyâll keep it in, and throw it back to your face the minute itâs convenient for them (when they effed up). Very hard to love because they simply canât accept that you love and accept their own flaws. I remember my ex asking me litteraly all the time âHow can you love me if Iâm not as pretty as beforeâ (it was in his head, he was just as cute) âHow can you love me if I donât have a job?â (He had lost his job for only 2 months at that point) No matter what Iâd say, he couldnât believe that I loved him wholeheartedly, no matter what.
Sometimes, when I look at a virgo moon, unevolved ofc, all I can see is pain. Virgo is an already hard sign to have imo (sorry!) but in the moon placement, itâs just sad. These natives are so harsh on themselves and accept no help whatsoever. And if you do try, theyâll do everything to push you away and trust me, one thing Virgos do is succeed.
As a scorpio mars, libra mars is not my favorite placement. But as I checked my vedic chart and I do, in fact, have a libra mars, I hate that I understand why they act the way they do.
They care so much about everything being perfect, everyone getting along and most importantly being at peace with the ones they love. The cliches are true for a reason, they dislike conflict and yes, are passive agressive but itâs because they donât want to lose the people they love with petty drama.
So they donât say anything, and they accomodate even tho that one thing irritated them and then when you confront them about something, they bring you everything youâve done wrong for the past six months. Thatâs the part I hate, ofc, but I also hate that I get it.
I get it. Theyâre the biggest people pleasers and when they donât say anything about something that upsets them, they actually think theyâre doing it for the greater good. They obviously analyse everything youâre doing wrong, but they donât mind not saying it cause theyâd rather be at peace with you. So how dare you donât do the same for them?
Thatâs the mentality. Unfortunately for them, it brings bigger conflict because then you feel betrayed they never said anything to begin with. UGH.
SPEAK YOUR MIND, Libras of any placements actually <3
If you consider yourself soft, delicate, sensitive, do not date a Sag mercury. These people are ruthless. As friends, I find them hilarious and fun to be around, but as lovers I would never do that to myself again. Just never <3. They are very blunt (which doesnât mean they wonât lie! Weâre talking about a Jupiter ruled sign here yall), but in a way that wonât make you feel good about yourself. Theyâll often use humour to attack you and then use it as a shield the moment you call them out on it (i.e : It was just a jokeeeeee!)
Gives very good advice, Iâll give them that. I think sometimes I can have a little bit of tunnel vision and with Sag mercuries, theyâre able to tap you on the shoulder and be like âHave you consider this tho?â in the most casual way and youâre like âoh.. no. yes. youâre rightâ
If you love the friends to lovers trope, youâll just love dating an Aquarius venus because that friendship-like relationship will be the foundation of your dynamic. Everything feels fun, the complicity is at an all time high.
Now, Iâve read multiple times here that Aquarius venus is actually very committed to the person they love when they like you. Well, I guess I wasnât his person cause I only felt the commitment phobia.
Anyways, I still loved the dynamic of the relationship, but I canât lie, it didnât feel serious at all.
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Well thatâs all for me, today. Love yall!!
Remember, these are the big 6 of my ex so it is biased nothing to take too personal but if it applies and resonates, greatđ
