Today a Hotwife in the making asked for advice on how to be successful in the lifestyle and immediately my first suggestion was to establish strong and sustainable rules. As a couple our relationship is the absolute TOP priority, which is why our rules are very important to us. With that being said I figured I’d share our rules to help any other couples or singles who are looking to establish some of their own 😊
1. Any potential playmate must be verified (video message etc) and agreed upon by both parties
2. We do not ever compromise on our standards, wants/needs or quality of playmates (quality over quantity).
3. No playing with someone that you have daily contact with (friend, colleague, gym partner etc)
4. No playing or messaging with a playmate if we aren’t in good standing (fighting, upset, sad etc) or you/us arent of sound mind (tired, drunk, high etc)
5. Don’t give too much personal information to playmates - family, friends, address, real name, workplace unless ABSOLUTELY certain they can be trusted.
6. Do not seek support of problems from playmates and/or talk about our relationship issues.
7. If a playmate starts to catch feelings or visa versa it’s over
8. The pace of daily communication with playmates should be managed by us. We should not feel obligated to respond to messages daily out of courtesy.
9. Let your partner (and/or someone else) know where you are when you go meet someone or host someone alone (Location name, address etc)
10. Text them when you arrive at the meeting/playdate and when leaving the meeting/playdate (or when they leave)
11. Be aware at all times with NEW playmates. Don’t drink from opened alcohol or take anything that could compromise your thought process or awareness (i.e. getting too drunk or high)
12. No bondage, handcuffs, or restraints of any kind with NEW playmates. You need to be able to leave whenever you want.
13. No pain, degradation, humiliation or disrespectful name calling EVER!
14. Take lots of pictures and/or videos when playing solo for your partner to enjoy so they can feel like they are involved even though they aren’t there. **ONLY USE OUR PERSONAL PHONES TO TAKE THEM**
15. If a playmate is looking for an on-going relationship, they should have that relationship/friendship with the both of us. If the playmate has a problem with that then there is an increased risk that they won’t respect these rules or arrangements
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