EROS & PSYCHE - Compatibility
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In astrology, Eros represents sexual objectification, passion and desire, and creativity. Note that Eros is not always sexual, per se, as Eros represents creative passion as well. In the chart, it can point to areas into which we pour a lot of passion. Zodiac Psyche Sign describes the placement of the asteroid Psyche in your birth chart. This asteroid is also known as the Goddess of the Soul. This sign helps you understand yourself and know your soul, mind and self better. The position of Eros and Psyche in partners natal chart can help us to understand the synastry and chemsitry between the two. You can compare your Eros sign with your partnerâs Psyche sign, and vice versa to get an idea of how well you can get along with her/ him on a romantic and emotional scale.
EROS IN THE SIGNS
Eros in Aries: These people instinctively and quickly become infatuated. Their sexual attractions are formed quickly and they get off on the sensations of the moment in an intense manner. These lovers may seem a little erratic to others, simply because their passions rise and fall so quickly. They are not as giving and emotional in their sexual expression, but they are passionate while it lasts. Eros in Aries people are attached to the sensations of the moment and may see their partner as an object, or an extension of themselves. They often prefer to do the pursuing in relationships and may be addicted to the conquest. Eros in Taurus: These are highly sensual lovers who may seek to own their partners. Sexual possessiveness is often an issue with these lovers, and, unlike Eros in Aries, competition is not a turn-on. These lovers can be somewhat primitive in their desires and not as attracted to too much sexual intricacy. Plenty of masturbation is likely, although these lovers tend to be most unhappy without a steady partner. Their sexual natures are rooted in the senses. Eros in Gemini: These lovers are sexually curious and interested. They like to be knowledgeable in sexual matters, and often are turned on by the written and spoken word. They may write letters to their lover, or enjoy writing and reading erotica. Because it is difficult for these lovers to turn their minds off during sex, there is a voyeur within the person during sexual expression, and it may be difficult for these lovers to simply âlet goâ. Many Eros in Gemini individuals enjoy talking, and being talked to, during sex. Eros in Cancer: There is a need to infuse emotional care and nurture into the sex act. When the self-image is low, these lovers may use others as sexual objects, probably as a result of their fear of rejection. The breasts are a big turn-on, and many are orally fixated, and some may be attracted to a domination theme. When the self-image is stronger, intimacy and warmth are powerful stimulants. Eros in Cancer lovers seek to achieve psychic and emotional renewal through sex. They can be very intuitive bed partners. Sexual possessiveness is often an issue. Sometimes, these lovers want their partner to be relatively chaste, but they donât have the same standards for themselves. These lovers often fall in love with their sexual partners. Eros in Leo: Fantasies for Eros in Leo often revolve around their partnerâs desire for them. These lovers generally get off on what they believe their sex partner must be feeling about them. They can put a lot of time into autoerotic behavior, and are often given to much flirtation and many infatuations. Nevertheless, they can be more loyal than most. Eros in Leo lives for love and attraction. They are threatened when passion settles down in their relationships. They feel the need to keep passion alive, and when it settles in a relationship, they can be addicted to flirting with other people in order to feel alive and potent. Eros in Leo lovers have a big ego investment in their relationships. Eros in Virgo: Earthiness and intellectuality combine in Eros in Virgo. These lovers are sensual, especially when they are not thinking too much. Because of the tendency for Virgo to think and analyze, however, there can be a tendency to be oneâs own voyeur during sex. Vicarious enjoyment of sex is often highlighted with this placement. A meeting of minds is important to Eros in Virgo. These are somewhat moody lovers who may have distinct phases between promiscuity and celibacy. Virgo is very connected withâand aware ofâthe body and its functioning, and Eros in Virgo often seeks renewal through sex, with an attitude that sex is healthy and good for you. These are generally sensitive and tender lovers who do a lot to please their partners. Some awkwardness and shyness in terms of letting themselves go is often characteristic of this position. Virgoâs symbol is the Virgin. This should not be taken literally, although when Virgo is connected to the sexual nature, there is a sense of purity and independence. These lovers can be promiscuous at times, and quite kinky, but emerge from their experiences with a sense of purity nevertheless. Eros in Libra:This is a rather flirtatious and charming position of Eros. Libraâs tendency toward a âtit for tatâ attitude shows up as a desire for equality on a sexual level, but in practice, Eros in Libra lovers often forget their own sexual needs because they are focusing on those of their partner. Communication is sexy to these lovers. These people can be hopelessly addicted to all of the âtrappingsâ of falling in love, so much so that when a relationship settles, it may seem boring. Highly romantic and charming, Eros in Libra people enjoy the social âgameâ surrounding making connections with lovers, and they can be quite seductive. Eros in Scorpio:This is an especially erotic position of Eros. These lovers can be addicted to the thrill of getting to know a person inside and out, and to the power of love and sex. Intensity is important to these lovers. They donât just want their partnerâs body, they want a bit of their soul as well! This position suggests very little fear in the area of sexual intimacy, and these lovers will pretty much do anything and everything with a willing partner. They are passionate, and the more intense the relationship is, the better. Animal magnetism is high, probably because these people think about sex and intimacy a whole lot, and others may sense their intensity. They can easily get under your skin, tapping into othersâ desires. Eros in Sagittarius: These lovers have an enthusiastic and exuberant appeal. Sex is meant to be fun for Eros in Sagittarius, and some roughhousing and plenty of hearty laughs are turn-ons. Sexuality is sometimes viewed as if it were a sport by these people. They may surprise you with a very open and almost innocent attitude toward sex and intimacy. Sex is a bit of a game, and how this attitude is received will depend a lot on the audience! There can be a bit of an addiction to the chase, and avoidance of intimacy when it feels restricting in any way. Tenderness and romance are not the kinds of expressions that come as easily to these lovers. Laughter and fun are aphrodisiacs for this position of Eros. Sexual exploration and freedom are important, as well as a need for sexual honestyâsex without the frills and trappings that these lovers may find to be unnatural and even dishonest. Eros in Sagittarius can show up as passion for knowledge, hunger for new experiences, and a love of travel and exploring new lands and cultures. Eros in Capricorn:These natives are sensual and earthy in their sexual desires. The libido is strong, but controlled. Saturn-ruled Capricorn is a sign that likes to be in controlânot necessarily in control of others, but in control of themselves. Many Eros in Capricorn people channel much of their desire nature into accomplishing something significant. Eros in Aquarius:These lovers are intrigued by the unusual, finding variety exciting. The detachment of Aquarius can mean finding sensuality in non-contact scenarios in addition to contact ones. Sexual creativity is one of the strengths of this position. Their open minds with regards to sex can stimulate creativity in their partner. Eros in Pisces:There is a chameleon in this position of Eros, as these lovers are very adaptable to their partner. This is not to say these lovers donât have sexual preferences or possess a strong identity. Instead, the Pisces compassion, and ability to understand and accept virtually every color of the rainbow shows through in a sexual/romantic way. They tend to be most comfortable and at ease when their partner is expressing him or herself confidently. This position also suggests a passion for Pisces-ruled subjects.
PSYCHE IN THE SIGNS
Psyche in Aries: They possess very high energy levels and this keeps them on their toes and ready for the next challenge. They have a heightened sense of justice and are full of curiosity and vitality. An amazing romance will only work with them if you are strong enough to go toe to toe with them, whether itâs in the bedroom or the boardroom, you canât be weak and keep their attention. The Aries person feels most alive when they are leading others and have a sense of control over any given situation, you could be their soul mate if you are full of energy and adventure. Psyche in Aries is a fire sign, they often have the same characteristics as fire, they are warm, vibrant, vital and bright. They love the âhuntâ and will go to great lengths to get what they want in love, they will treat you well and bestow great compassion on you, be loyal to you and very generous. Psyche in Taurus: They can spot âfakeâ a mile off, you really need to be genuine in you intentions to make the grade as a friend or lover. All Earthly pleasures appeal to the psyche in Taurus, yet they can also do with less and often donât really want or need for anything. They sometimes do go for a more luxurious way of life, they are happy to work hard to achieve this. They are attracted to stability and are usually slow to anger but upset them and they will go off, this is why they need and crave good honest people in their lives. Once you get the psyche in Taurus to commit you will have them by your side for a long time, they are reliable and honest and make sturdy partners. It is hard for them to leave a relationship and will really drag their feet, but if they feel taken for granted or not appreciated for a length of time then they will be gone in a cloud of dust. Psyche in Gemini: They are multi sided and love to be surrounded by admirers, sharing concepts and ideas with others stimulates their minds and this leads to their bodies also following suit. Psyche in Gemini get depressed if they are on their own too much, their main desire is to be loved by many and communication is a real key into how they work. They love to attend parties, this gives them the opportunity to be the life and soul of the gathering, they can talk to anyone about anything, they also love to travel as this also allows them to meet new people and experience new things. The psyche in Gemini is an Air sign, this means they spend a lot of time in their heads and have light personalities, can be very bubbly and easily draw people in. Craving spiritual, emotional and intellectual stimulation makes them mongers for new experiences and can really push others around them to the limit. They love to dress in the latest fashion and are really very creative, masterful thinkers and amazing entrepreneurs, writers, developers and designers. As long as you can cope with their demands and have the energy to do so then this is the one for you. Psyche in Cancer:At the center of them is a deep well of emotions and sensitivity, coupled with their strong sexuality they make for dynamic partners indeed. This deep water sign also has a very interesting mysterious side to them, this makes them romantic and beautifully nurturing and quite sentimental. When the psyche in Cancer falls in love, watch out for a massive romantic explosion of flowers, love notes and special time together, these water signs want the works. Do be patient with them, as their over sensitivity often makes them act quite possessive and they tend to be jealous easily. Psyche in Leo:Psyche in Leo is truly a Lion at heart, they truly embody the characteristics of the big cat, they are proud, regal and always in charge, you can however, love them up and they will for a time roll on their backs for a tummy rub, but make sure you read the signs, if they have had enough of playing second they will stick their claws in, this is not malicious, just their nature. Love is ruler supreme for psyche in Leo, their main motivation is to love and be loved. It is too easy to hurt their feelings, they need to always come first and if you neglect them in any way you will hurt them deeply, this to them is betrayal. If the psyche in Leoâs efforts go unrecognized they feel underappreciated, they deal with this in two ways, they will walk off and sulk or strike out at you, so be prepared to appreciate everything they do for you as this is the key to their love. Relaxing somewhere warm and comfortable is such a great pleasure to the Leo, a trip to a warm destination is never over looked or passed over. Leo are not one to bother with the small stuff, they care about the big picture, so donât bother them with the small details, work it out then take to them the finished product, this will please them immensely. All in this fire sign is full of energy, they are bright and warm people, they draw people to them and have many admires, and this is just the way they like it too. Psyche in Virgo: Both Virgo in psyche woman and men are often very calm when you first meet them, but really they are a ball of activity in their own heads. Always assessing, analyzingâŚthinking constantly, they find it hard to shut this off. They care deeply for the Earth and are good at growing and making something from nothing. They are full of skills and very detail obsessed, they can produce very beautiful things indeed. As long as they know they are loved and needed then they are happy to spend time alone. They are very helpful and sympathetic when needed and good listeners. They are well considered when making a decision due to there fabulous analytic skills. Psyche in Libra:They love the ideal sexual fantasy of a mate, sometimes ignoring any flaws they may have, to indulge the relationship. They have a strong need to be partnered up and are very generous to all those they like to keep around them. Being alone makes them very unhappy indeed. It is not uncommon for them to marry too young to accommodate this need. Safety and comfort for the psyche in Libra is being in a committed relationship, who they often win arguments with because they refuse to give in. Ruled by Venus they are constantly judging the value of everything, weighing up their options is their prime skill. Psyche in Scorpio: You have to provoke them to get a strike from them, otherwise they are harmless. They are awesome at keeping secrets and can be reserved until they feel comfortable. They are attracted by others that have their own personal power, it keeps things interesting for them and ignites their sexual energy. A judgemental partner is not for them, they need someone open who can communicate with them on their level. Possessing mystical depths of emotion, provokes Scorpio to lust obsessively over the object of their desire, it is a powerful driving force for them. Psyche in Sagittarius:The psyche in Sagittarius is known for pursuing pleasure. The half horse half man, centaur from mythology, was always known as a straight shooter who desires their partner to be their physical and mental equal. They have a keen sense of loyalty and it is important that their partner be deserving of them, taking great lengths to no become possessive or boring. Donât make this mistake or you will be out on your ear. Psyche in Sagittarius yearns for their soul mate, someone as well read on Philosophy to sex as they are, they are not afraid to practice what they preach. Their love of travel and new things means they have a large number of friends, often all over the world, they are fun to be around and always the perfect party host. If you are someone who is philosophically-oriented, worldly, free-spirited and ethnically-diverse then the psyche in Sagittarius is waiting for you, with their help you can be the person you were always meant to be. Psyche in Capricorn:They are attracted to having fun and if possible, win! Once they have worked hard and long on making money by achieving a purposeful goal, the psyche in Capricorn will go on the lookout for a sexy, wealthy mate who has as many amazing stories of luxurious times as their own. They really do possess an amazing amount of self discipline and focus to achieve. Donât expect many PDAâs from them, it is hard for them to show physical affection. The psyche in Capricorn takes things in life very seriously and have no tolerance of those who do not, achieving is everything to them. They are skilled in mental parrying at high levels, making them natural leaders, diplomats and mathematicians. In conclusion, the psyche in Capricorn has their heart guarded well, but once opened you will understand that it was worth it. Psyche in Aquarius: They are often very generous with their time and resources, they care about others welfare and can be a true and loyal friend. The word connection is at the core of the psyche in Aquarius, they are challenged by emotional intimacy and the empathic aspect of love. They need this to be happy in love, without it they can not trust, achieve this and the sky is the limit on your love. Often on the surface psyche in Aquarius people donât show their emotions, but show them your authentic self and in time they will prove to you that with tolerance and patience that they are beautiful and emotional beings worth loving. Psyche in Pisces:  The psyche in Pisces person has a deeply caring nature, and hate to see others upset. Many of their relationships are based on, and can be characterized by big emotions, sensitivity and imagination. They are spiritual and combine the surreal with the real, this catapults their romance and love into a hyper state where almost anything can happen. Not everyone can understand the psyche in Pisces and their underlying passion and compassion, sometimes this makes them hard to get to know. Their emotions are strong and often quite erotic if you know how to release them. This water sign flows like a river and can be very alluring, if you can be aware to their feelings you can have a love that can transcend any boundaries.
