was it csa?
Sexual abuse is when someone with less power is tricked, trapped, coerced, or bribed into any type of sexual experience. Power imbalance may result from the perpetrator’s age, size, position, experience, or authority and includes kissing, fondling, being forced to touch the abuser’s genitals, anal, oral or vaginal sex, and non-contact acts such as exhibitionism, exposure to pornography, voyeurism or sexual comments or looks.
If, as a child, you experienced anything that felt sexual or yucky with someone who had more power than you, you were abused.
It was abuse:
• Even if you were never touched • Even if you didn’t say no • Even if it only happened once • Even if you only watched • Even if it felt good • Even if you participated • Even if it was a “game” • Even if you got something for it • Even if it was with another child • Even if it was suggestive comments • Even if there was something about it that you liked • Even if you didn’t tell
if you have more to add please do!!
Even if you didn’t know to categorise it as abuse at the time, but just as something you hated
Even if you “let” it keep happening because you didn’t know what else to do
- Even if you remembered years later.
-Even if you can’t remember your abuser.
-Even if you were to scared to cry for help.
Even if you didn’t know what was happening.
Even if you didn’t feel upset by it until later.
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maybe you’ll find this in your tags somewhere but
:)) thx cunt i hope u staple all ur fingers together
guess putting on porn and not changing it despite your 13 year old friend saying “hey could you change it its making me uncomfy” and asking me fucking weird as hell sexual questions abt myself was SOOOOO HARRRDDD to determine whether it was wrong or not just cause i didnt tell you directly after…
like honey i have no idea how you didnt know this was wrong but whatever
i seriously can’t forgive you and will sure as hell will never see you in a positive light.
thanks for throwing our potential friendship out the window, dude
>:/ yeah you always did give me a bad vibe like…once you asked me to guess what your kink was??? It was fucking weird. Jeez dude I’m 15 and I know that shit is wrong your fucking 18 you should know better than that. Sorry but you broke my trust and that hurts a lot. :)
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