Tip Tuesday: Guest Etiquette Series #2: The Dos and Donâts
Weâre back with another Guest Etiquette Tip Tuesday! Today weâre covering just a few âDos and Donâtsâ of being a wedding guest. Being invited to a wedding can be exciting and confusing all in one. âWhat do I wear? Do I bring my present or mail it? Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?â These are just a few questions weâve heard through the years, and weâre here to give a few tips and tricks!
Do RSVP on Time- This is an important one! Vendors need a final guest count a few weeks before the wedding which means the bride and groom need to know if youâre coming or not a few weeks before as well. We suggest going ahead and sending your RSVP when you receive the invite. That way you wonât forget!Â
Do Buy From the Registry- Couples spend lots of time picking out items for their registry. They (usually) pick their registry items because they actually need or want them. So, do the couple a favor and actually buy wedding gifts from their registry.
Do Sign the Guestbook- Be sure to sign the coupleâs guest book so they can remember and reflect on their big day and the loved ones that celebrated with them.Â
Do Dress Appropriately- Weâll be making a separate Tip Tuesday on this subject!
Do Read the Invitation- Not all weddings are kid-friendly, so make sure to read the invitation. If the invite states âThe Smith Familyâ then itâs safe to assume children are allowed. If itâs only addressed to the parents then leave the kiddos at home. Also, check the invite for dress attire! Some invites might say what they prefer you wear.
Donât Bring a Large Gift- At the end of the night, worrying about where to pack a large gift in a car should be the last thing on the bridal partyâs minds. Save them- and you- the hassle by shipping the gift directly to the coupleâs home! This isnât limited to just large gifts either!
Donât Assume You Can Bring a Date- Read the invite envelope correctly and make sure it states âand guestâ before bringing a plus-one. Sometimes a guestâs guest isnât always in the budget for everyone.
Donât Get in the Photographerâs Way- Thereâs nothing worse than a couple getting their wedding photos back and Aunt Sally is leaning in the middle of the aisle with her iPad trying to get a blurry picture at the ceremony. Brides and Grooms pay lots of money for professional photographers to capture their big day. Leave the photo taking to them.
Donât Over Do It on the Alcohol- Just donât do it.Â
Donât Wear White- This rule is pretty well known, but just in case you havenât heard it before- donât wear white to a wedding. Try to stay away from light ivory and cream colors as well. This color is typically reserved for the bride. Avoid being that person that steals the brideâs spotlight on her special day!