To the person looking for their hypno partner,
Don’t worry. Don’t lose hope. They’re out there. They might even be looking for you, too.
The perfect partner for you.
The one who can get you deeper than ever before.
The one who allows you to reach your full and true potential.
You just need to be patient. Look in the right places. Pay attention to the right things. Instant gratification isn’t everything. It’s worth the wait, time, and energy.
Be on the lookout for red flags and act accordingly. You should never feel trapped in an abusive hypno relationship. If you do, reach out to someone else you trust. Get as far away from anyone who pushes your limits or boundaries without caring. That goes for hypnotists AND subjects.
Listen to one another. Communication is key. If someone isn’t willing to listen, they’re most likely not worth being with. You should never be afraid to say no, regardless of their relation to you or anything they’ve done to you.
All too often, I hear lamenting of folks not being able to find partners to play with. And to be fair, it can be a valid complaint. There are many, many more subjects in the community that hypnotists; there are bound to be some disappointed subs. That being said, YOU CAN HAVE A PART IN CHANGING THIS.
I know when looking at potential partners myself, a subject who gets to know me and treats me like a person, asking to hang out outside of hypnosis and get to know each other, is one that I want to spend time with. Is one I want to do things with. Is one I want to do hypnosis on.
Hypnosis has never been *hard* for me, by any stretch of the imagination. It’s always come quite naturally to me. But even so, it’s not always easy. It takes a lot of brain power to think on one’s feet. It’s not always easy to be creative and fun. It can be pretty draining sometimes. So when someone makes it clear they only care about hypnosis to me and take my talents for granted, it turns me away. A lot of hypnotists, like myself, prefer to be respected and treated like human beings.
The same goes for subjects. Respecting boundaries (unless previously negotiated) is essential. Hypnotists who violate any of their subjects’ wants or needs like that should be avoided. If you have a negative experience with a hypnotist on a website or in a server with some kind of moderation/administration team, this should be reported to them.
I’ve been part of this community since 2007. It’s gone through many transformations, evolving in different ways through the years. Different websites, discord servers, chatrooms, apps, and other places have been created and destroyed, members have joined and left for one reason or another, and the landscape of the community has morphed significantly. It’s not what it used to be, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.
Worthwhile people are still out there. Fun and ethical hypnotists exist still, as do respectful and intriguing subjects. Switches that want to switch are out there, as are people who just want to explore and are curious about what this world has to offer. Some folks are looking for intense and meaningful relationships. Others just want hypno hookups.
Anything people are looking for is valid and fine, as long as they communicate their desires. But if someone looking for a hookup tells a potential partner they’re wanting something deep and real and deceives them for a quick orgasm, they’re in the wrong. It’s disgusting to lie to someone like that.
Vouching and vetting play partners before doing anything can do so much. Listening and paying attention is also very important. And always keep in mind that not being compatible with one person isn’t a failure on anyone’s part.
There’s someone in the community for you.
And always remember that there is another human being on the other side of that pocket watch.
They may live in your hometown or be on the other side of the world.
Please treat them as such.
(Unless they ask you not to ;) )
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