ADVANCE YOURSELF

Never remain on the same level for long always try to advance yourself spiritually, physically, mentally, financially and in other aspects too even if it is a little advancement per time. #DTOK

[iamdtok]

Funnel Conversation: the act of restricting the channels and time of conversations to the barest minimum.

E.g., She/he responds to your messages only twice a day and will never call or take calls, but you are fully aware that they are actively on their devices.

[iamdtok]

Some people decide when and how they can have a conversation with you, but expect you to always have that conversation at their convenience. They will leave you on read till they want to say something which might not relate to the conversation but they want you to never leave them on read.

[iamdtok]

I could observe your pattern and know how to relate to you, but if I caution you about a negative pattern and you still keep going at it because, in your mind, you have unlimited chances. You will be shocked someday.

Do not create a repulsive pattern!

[iamdtok]

Don't demand from me, what you cannot give!

[iamdtok]

The reasons why your messages are not responded to:

1. No purpose: Always add why you message someone in one go. Pleasantries + purpose of texting

2. DND and variations: Some people use this as a default, so no sound leaves their device. So it's ok to text/call more if it's urgent.

3. Forgotten: They forgot to respond, maybe because of their tasks at hand.

4. Location: too many groups or pin contact, yours will not be visible at a go.

5. IDK: they wouldn't text or respond to you till when they need something.

6. Hidden contact: your contact is hidden and they have to search archived to see your message

7. Anxiety: fear of your or people's messages

8. Etc

[thoughtkick]

“The less I know the better.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“Sometimes we need someone to simply be there. Not to say anything but to let us know they’re on our side and that they care for us.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“I want a bond so tight that even on bad terms u still run to me 1st.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“Dear mind, stop thinking so much. I need sleep.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“If you knew how hard it was, and how long it took, to rebuild my little universe of peace and happiness then you would understand why I’m so picky about who I allow in my life.”

— Weird People

[iamdtok]

It's my 8 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

Yippee 😁💥

[becherdireinen]

trust that everything will fall into place without you forcing it there.

[fantasticdreamnemesis-deactivat]

Note to self..

[remanence-of-love]

[iamdtok]

Bad times reàlly do test people. You will see people all around you. Like they need/love/want you, but when something bad happens to you and you need them to assist you, oya come and prove the love you said. PUFF! Like Avatar, they are gone when you need them and resurface when you are alright.

[iamdtok]

I want it that whenever you are done talking to me, you feel much better, alive, motivated, inspired, less höŕñy, new perspective and more because I was able to fill a gap while in the conversation.

It's not that I have all the time, you know I'm a very busy person but you are placed as a priority too (till you choose not to be one)

[iamdtok]

People may rank you lower than you think, only remembering you when others aren’t around. Ask your friends, “Honestly, where do I stand on your list?”

[iamdtok]

You can put someone first before others and they don't place you first before others. Leave you to attend to others without second thoughts but you put them as priority before other people.