Haiii, can I get a enha matchup?
I'm 171cm tall, with very expressive hazel brown eyes and light tan skin. I wear glasses.
I'm an ISFJ, I’m multiracial and my enneagram type is 9w1. I'm very shy around new people - I don't talk or look at them, I just look down and mind my own business. I sound like a mouse around new people, as I'm already a soft-spoken person, but with new people, no one can hear me at all.
I tend to come off as aloof or even rude. I'm told I have a resting bitch face, but I genuinely care about first impressions. However, I'm too much of a coward to talk to new people, which gives me an aloof look.
I enjoy having deep, meaningful conversations, as I see no point in wasting time on nonsense. I want to know everything about the people around me, so I try to find out more about them or observe how they react to things, in order to figure out what they like and dislike. This might make me seem like a creep, as I stare a lot at people and don't break eye contact unless I didn't look at them first.
I often get lost in my thoughts, and sometimes people talk to me during this, and I don't even realize they're there or that they've started talking. Other times, I realize but choose to ignore them for as long as I can.
I don't have many friends, maybe 2. But I'm very motherly - my love language is acts of service, and I'll do anything for my friends and family if they ask, or even if they don't. I can usually tell how someone is feeling without them saying anything, I don't know how, I just can. I’m really dramatic as-well I gasp a lot…
I hate when people don't voice their emotions or thoughts - it really annoys me. But I understand it's hard, so I straight up tell them they can just ask or tell me something. Or if I know what they want, I give it to them.
My favorite music artists are Laufey, Mitski, Wave to Earth, Rocco, Rhyu, LeeHeeSang, Kasper, Adrey, So Soo Bin, Jaehyun, LeeHi, and Lana Del Rey.
My ideal type is someone who is taller than me. I'm looking for someone who is kind, extroverted, sincere, considerate, with pretty eyes and dark hair. I want them to have a nice voice, and to like kids and be good with them. I would want their love language to be maybe physical touch or gift-giving. I'm also attracted to someone who is a bit mysterious and possessive.
Ideal date a classic picnic date or a night walk
- I enjoy listening to music
- I love instruments, as they are magical and necessary for this world
- I like sports like volleyball, basketball, figure skating, and fencing
- I prefer observing to talking
- I love my family and friends very much and would do anything for them
- I have a passion for making love poems
- I get bored easily when learning new things
- I often forget things because I want to do something else before finishing what I'm working on
- I really hate the idea of my family and friends getting hurt, so I'll try to protect them forever
- I love doing my makeup and skincare
- I love singing and am teaching myself music theory
I hope this makes sense, even though I was basically just rambling. I do tend to use the word "like" a lot.🤗
ooooooh this is so jay to me! he would totally teach you music theory and sing with you 🥺 and he’d love love love the fact that you like to observe and listen