I Don't Know Her

♏ Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another. .

[sorrrowfull]

[pisces-core]

[whyenn-reader]

firm believer you can't be a ''good person''. too much niuance to life.

[whyenn-reader]

you can be good (adjective) but you cannot be good (identity)

[whyenn-reader]

if you think you are good (identity) you are more likely to cause harm as you don't consider yourself to be capable of it

[agwitow]

That's a good distinction.

I think it also works with other "positive" traits.

You can be nice (adjective), but "nice" people tend to be too afraid of offending anyone to step up when needed.

You can be honest (adjective), but people who make being "honest" a part of their personality use it as excuse to be blunt (at best) or downright rude

You can be smart (adjective), but those who view themselves as "smart" (identity) tend to look down on others who don't know the same things as them

You can be brave (adjective), but "brave" (identity) people are often reckless

Basically, if you pin your self-worth and identity on a single/few specific traits, you're more likely to embody the negative aspects

[multiplexion]

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[another-asianmale-blog]

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[gagapride]

Judas music video / 2011 

[newloverofbeauty]

新宿大番の風呂だよね。

Onsen Bath, Japan

[everyday-cutephoto]

[moniquill]

[topherchris]

[vexwerewolf]

"They go to SEX CLUBS and pretend to be DOGS!"

Yeah well you go to church every Sunday and pretend to be a good person

[gazehaven]

[the-toy-boy]

[neckkiss]

Unknown.

[randomfotos]

[djglory]

im well aware, but im also delusional as fuck so its a balance fr