change will come

sydney | 17

[maniacardigan]

ok im pissed why does fob ALWAAAAYYSSSSSS release their best songs as “bonus songs”/eps??? music or the misery? side effect? ginasfs? PAVLOVE? HELLO from now on we are enemies?????????? the ENTIRETY of lake effect kid ep???????????????? HELLO?

[jackawful]

ime bi people’s m/f relationships look Really Different from relationships between two straight people because bi folks have usually done a lot more questioning of heteropatriarchy and the Standard Straight Relationship Script. so like, for the most part, we handle gender roles differently, we handle sex differently (idk about hard science but I’ve read and heard a ton of anecdotes about bi folks being way less invested in piv than straight folks), we conduct our relationships in ways that work for us rather than conforming to the default heteronormative narrative b/c most of us have realized that that’s not the only option.

and the statistics from the CDC, the ones that reveal that bi men and women experience more intimate partner violence than straight or gay people in their gender groups, the ones that reveal that perpetrators of ipv against bi people are largely of the “opposite” gender…I think those do a lot to confirm that bi folks conduct their m/f relationships a lot differently than straight people, and are punished for it by straight partners who want them to conform to heteronormativity.

so please, please don’t dismiss these very significant differences by claiming that our m/f relationships are het/straight relationships or that we’re “het partnered” or anything else to imply that we’re the same as straight people in certain contexts because we’re really not.

[maniacardigan]

list of things fall out boy has done for the gays

no tears left to cry cover

last of the real ones (both studio and acoustic)

the entirety of srar

uma thurman mv

ginasfs

patrick

[illusionedlyrics]

Thnks Fr Th Mmrs - Fall Out Boy

[klaw]

implying pansexuality is the only sexuality that includes trans ppl is transphobic. implying pansexuality is the only sexuality that cares abt a persons personality rather than genitals is homophobic. implying pansexuality is an elevated/better version of bisexuality is biphobic. its fine to identify as pan but these mindsets specifically are still problematic and that needs to be recognized by the community.

[naughtynanzhu]

I wish I was pretty but like actually pretty, not “my friends and family think I’m pretty because they’re my friends and family” pretty

[alyisdead]

What was your dream job before Fall Out Boy; or Andy revealing Patrick’s real dream job (re-done)

[ebayfobfinds]

this is so sad alexa play jet pack blues

[thiswayemoloser]

Look how small and ahh

[peterick-queen]

Hot damn (?)

[neutralbacteria]

[alt-ered-st-ate]

Wow i cant believe humanity peaked in 2018 the year of our lord, Beyonce.

[ryoga-deactivated20231223]

[toucan-tea-deactivated20201108]

Lo-fi hip hop girl gave up

[hellsite-yano]

[marxpussy-deactivated20180726]

sorry but aces and bisexual people have no shared history, while bi people and gay people (ESPECIALLY lesbians and bi women) have rich, beautiful history, and to imply that ace/bi solidarity is stronger is to paint lesbians and gay men as oppressive and im sorry but that is homophobic.

[insomniac-arrest]

hey man, if you’re ace and going to pride, please be respectful, this was a space specifically created for free sexual expression and embracing the sexuality normally shamed and denied to us by social norms and government apparatus

Shaming sex in this space or bringing signs along the lines of ‘proud of being sex-free’ is highly tone deaf to the history of gay, trans, and bi spaces that are meant to help us feel proud and specifically un-shamed for our sexuality

[avatarmerida]

Happy pride month to the tiny cowboy and tiny Trojan man from Night at the Museum

[maniacardigan]

patricks a thot

[likaron]