Getting someone horny is nice, but melting their heart - now that is a delight. What's better than being able to make someone's heart race and put it at ease - to make them both giddy and relaxed? It's so sweet and intimate, and it can come out in such small ways:
Slowing down your speech and intentionally giving every word the space and time to exist, as if to say We don't have to rush right now. I've made the time for you. You can enjoy this for as long you want. I'm here. I want to be here.
Adding Can you be good for me and. . . before making a request - especially something mundane, simple, and reasonable to follow through on. Eat today. Try to be gentle with yourself. Get cleaned up. Do one task. Allow them the opportunity to feel good just for being alive and continuing to move through their day because it is good of them.
Topping it off with more praise. Excellent job, sweetheart. You did exactly what I asked of you, and I'm so proud. Including a gentle, innocent, Good boy / Good girl / Good puppy / Good pet. You don't even have to add "my" before it. They can just be good on their own for right now.
Along those lines, reminding them that they are cute. sweet, precious, kind, thoughtful - all the positive things that you truly believe about them. I find you so charming when you act like that. You're adorable. It's fun to tease you; your reaction are endearing. I like hearing you talk, and your voice relaxes me; it's nice. Honestly, you're so sweet, I don't know what to do with you. Being as specific as you can be, and not lying about a compliment. If you don't feel it, how can you convince them it's true?
Making a genuine attempt to connect and understand them as a human - that for all their potential and perceived shortcomings, they're okay. It's simple validation and reassurance. You can think, feel, and be this way - especially while you're with me. There's little judgment - barring a playful jest - and no resentment. I have no expectations; I accept you in whatever state you arrive.
If I can make all these little acts and more come together to make someone melt, especially if I care about them outside of an agape type of love, then I'm perfectly content. And if it also gets them a little turned on when they hear these things coming from my lips, that's wonderful too.
