A lot of thoughts for no brain.

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[the-jellyfish-graves]

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any pronouns are fine | Pan/Bi | 30 | switch

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Asks only

You can use a variety of titles for me - just don't use any submissive ones (without permission) (don't use king, queen, or princess, in earnest either). Other than that, use whatever will be most comfortable for you - if I don't like it, I'll let you know. You can treat "Graves" as a last name. I don't want to give my name to everyone. Fuck, you can call me Jelly if you want. I'm not too bothered. Have fun with it - just don't be rude.

If you want to send moaning/whimpering/begging audios in response to something I post, feel free (but I can't guarantee that I'll listen, reply, and/or be into it).

Do Not

ask for pictures/videos unprompted

DM without permission (unless you're a mutual)

Try to flirt with me if you’re under 23

send me unsolicited lewd pictures (I will accept pictures of cats; nature - especially bodies of water, trees, mushrooms, flowers, and moss; interesting architecture; and cute things, though.)

demand my time, attention, or effort

take it personally if I don't reply in a timely manner or at all

degrade me without consent

randomly tell me to be nice to myself, or other kind gestures like that, aimed at self-care. (I likely don't need to hear it from someone if we're not close) It's sweet, I understand the urge, but it makes me uncomfortable and less likely to comply.

Unless you're given permission, do not call me yours.

Anons (feel free to claim a name or emoji not used)

anon rose, the boop anon, an enby sub anon

Maybe I'll give a proper kink+limits list at some point, but some turn ons that might come up in posts:

soft/gentle dom | being called mommy or daddy | voice kink |monsterfucker | mask kink (especially horror or pretty/artistic masks) | shibari/ropes (rigger) | other lighter bondage (cuffs, ribbon, chain - if used gently) | petplay | collars and leashes (both ends) | degradation (light; both sides) | somno (giving + receiving) | pegging | lingerie (mostly on others) | desperation (in others) | corruption (corrupter) | public teasing | begging (both ends) | marking - biting, scratching, scent (via perfume or soap) | cuckold (cucking a willing sub, especially with a switch) | blood (giving or receiving) | knives and other sharp weapons - especially unique and/or pretty ones (light; receiving; but also just seeing them kind of gets me turned on hush)

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[the-joyous-work-continues]

Reblogging because I don’t see people talking about Dom drop nearly enough!

[babiexmilk]

more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs

[stricatul]

the intimacy of “just wanted to hear your voice” actually means a lot

[the-jellyfish-graves]

Green light, ass fat.

[take-on-not-me-deactivated20231]

Normalise boys needing to be cuddled, held and have their hair played with pls

[fatplushie]

[the-jellyfish-graves]

I’m sorry I said I want to torture you until you cry. I thought we both knew that meant you’re cute.

[nagumoan]

Leave him two pairs of your used panties, please :(

When you only leave one for him, he's so so so torn on how to use them.

He either gets to bury his nose in them, lap at what you've left behind for him, and inhale your scent, while he jerks himself off, thinking about you...

Or he gets to use the fabric to fist his cock with them, feeling his achingly hard cock brush against the delicate lace over and over again, until he cums all over the delicate fabric and mixes your scents together.

And it's so tricky for him to decide what to do :(

[subbyruby-deactivated20221107]

Girls with praise kinks are so cute you call them cute and then they get all flustered and horny and then they’re even cuter

[eerie-discordant-archives]

I like ‘em kinda fucked in the head with big brown eyes

[the-jellyfish-graves]

I need to hook you onto my belt in public but moan that I’m yours in private.

[kisseism]

making each other somno bracelets so whenever one of us falls asleep wearing it the other knows it's ok to take complete advantage >>

[averagebiboy]

I’d fuck you in front of your friends if you asked me to

[blasphfemmeous]

i love being a yearner and a freak. like yes my heart aches and wants, but so does my cunt

[chloeheel]

i really wanna get high, and watch stuff, and do lots of gropey kissy stuff with you,,

[the-jellyfish-graves]

I need to be kissed until the world starts to melt away.

[seraphrain]

men don’t take ribbon bicep pics like they used to :/