Caitlin

One direction Larry & Ziam, ot5 Stan, Can't change at 🤣🤣💀

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Niall Horan

I just want to say something that gets ignored and brushed off, acting as if Niall has so much more control than anyone else(Louis,Liam, Zayn, Harry). Niall is still with modest management. They're still the same old company that they've always been. They're an enemy who's tactics we already know. People were so mad at Niall for defending modest, but just a reminder of the one direction days: MODEST CONTROLLED THEIR TWITTERS. Modest still controls their artists twitter accounts. They've tweeted pretending to be the boys before and Niall used to help expose them. Now Niall's the only one left under their control. Who's best interest would it benefit to defend modest on Twitter? Not Niall, he's the biggest directioner their is, he knows how horrible things were. Modest? Oh, it's absolutely in their best interest!! Clear their name and destroy Niall at the same time!! Why not destroy the image of the biggest directioner their is? Maybe he'll loose loyal fans over it, that won't support a one direction reunion. There's been a clear plot to destroy Zayn, Liam, and Louis' images, same with Harry. So why can't they have a smear campaign against Niall? Niall already hinted at their abusive behavior, all throughout the band he was the absolute most vocal about them not getting paid a cent of the money everyone kept mentioning they were making. He even suggested that someone was clearly hiding money on them, if it was really the case that they made a billion dollars in 2013. This is the same management company, who gave Niall fake girlfriends after fake girlfriends, usually giving the stunt to Niall over Harry. Why wouldn't they use their power, with unlimited access to tweeting as "Niall", to smear/destroy him, as "himself"? The answer: They absolutely would and they are, Niall hasn't had time to do a single Instagram live, and he was doing those frequently. Why would Niall be tweeting constantly, when he's not even doing lives, which he seemed to really enjoy? I think you know the answer to that and if you don't, I can't help you see the light.

[larry-and-ziam-are-real]

I can’t believe they’re trying to pull off a Zigi baby. Zigi is literally the most obvious PR stunt of all time. Gigi and Bella are only as famous as they are because of stunt relationships. My inbox is open if anyone wants to share their thoughts.

[bakagamieru]

Do you still believe in Ziam?

Of course.  

1) Everything fake that’s been pointed out about Zayn and Gigi’s relationship is still valid.

2) Everything real about Liam and Zayn’s relationship is still valid.

3) The addition of a child that belongs to someone somewhere (but not to Zayn and Gigi as a couple) isn’t even shocking considering we’ve seen this done twice already.

Plus, I’m not sure there’s even confirmation yet.  As far as I know, this was reported through TMZ which isn’t exactly the most trustworthy source.

[ziamminds]

Seems like some people forgot that Zigi's "love story" started like a week after her "love story" with Joe Jonas ended.

Like remember how many times they were papped around her apartments? Don't you dare to say that it's not celebrities buying paps for a promo. It's 2020, for a fucking sake, stop being that blind and stupid.

Remember that it's always Zayn's fault after their breakup? Zayn's "issues", Zayn's "toxic behaviour", Zayn's "problematic behaviour"?

It's so sad that people calling this "love" when it's nothing but promo for Gigi since 2016. For her and for her shit family.

Zayn deserves so much better. And i hate that people believes that he is with someone like her.

FREE ZAYN.

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YES!! AND don't forget the basket that Joe gave Liam after Zigi was publicly dating 😉😏🙃

[tpwk-wlw]

i rarely ever comment on “ “ “ drama ” ” ” on here because for the most part i do not have the energy to participate in that but honestly today has been a real eye-opener for me in terms of the double standards in this fandom and how transparent some people are in how they treat the other members of one direction when it’s not harry or louis. i know some of you think it’s not that deep but really it’s definitely a culture that i’ve been noticing in this fandom for a long time 

like really are we going to believe a TMZ article???? y’all?????? c’mon????? what’s the difference between a TMZ article about louis and one about zayn? why is one automatically true, yet we can be critical about anything related to what’s published surrounding louis or harry?? not only has this happened with zayn, but by god has this happened with liam as well (cannot even explain the full extent of this). everyone is ready to believe that liam and zayn (and sometimes even niall) are complete monsters and that they make all the decisions themselves and are not affected by the same structural and power issues that harry and louis have gone through. 

i’m not saying you can’t be critical of zayn, liam, and niall, but i find it really interesting that everyone was only fine with not hating liam when he began to speak about how his mental health had deteriorated significantly and his issues with alcohol. so what, he wasn’t deserving of that empathy before that? could the concepts of what we think has happened to louis and harry also not be applied to the rest of the boys? one of the biggest things that i have always admired about being a larrie and following larries is that we think critically!! we never have taken anything at face value and we are able to identify when something isn’t right. it really is a punch in the gut to see some larries unable to even think for a moment that the other boys might be going through the same stunt cycles, same stupid PR articles that paint these men in a terrible light. why can we afford louis and harry this well deserved empathy and ability for critical thinking, but not the others?

and tbh some people in this fandom don’t like one direction and they don’t care about the other boys, and you know whatever that’s fine, but damn y’all if you don’t care about one direction as ot5 then stop pretending that you do!!! there is no obligation to like them, you just have to deal with the fact that your faves will always love one direction and you can’t change that. if people don’t care about the other boys, i cannot see what the need is to make jokes at their expense, or to provide commentary on gossip articles that would be COMPLETELY ignored if they were about louis or harry (and i’m not just talking about today or yesterday depending on time zones). 

also ?????? umm?????? the number of antis posts on my dash and posts from het harries i saw today??????? i cannot believe what i had to read, including posts that basically referred to louis as a father, or blogs that talked about having s*x with harry like two posts down from the post being reblogged by larries ????? funny how quick some of y’all are to call out people reblogging antis posts when it’s referring to louis or harry, but it’s suddenly ok to reblog from people because they made a ‘funny’ post about zayn???? the standards on here are so messed up, and normally i would be like ‘tumblr standards? non-existent’ but they only exist because the fandom has made them and if we’re sticking by them as best we can, why couldn’t that have been done today - oh wait yeah, it’s fine because it’s about zayn, and who cares, right?

i don’t do this often but i’ve gotten to the point where i don’t care. i care about five boys and i came on tumblr to join a fandom that respected those five boys. with everything that we’ve gone through as larries (which has been a LOT), i was hoping and expecting that a little bit more empathy would be extended to the members that aren’t harry and louis. some of y’all really just need to think about who it is you’re really supporting here and just stick to supporting those people. if you can take everything at face value regarding niall, liam, and zayn, then honestly you might as well be commenting on facebook on TMZ or the sun and have your fun there.

i love louis, harry, liam, niall, and zayn with my whole heart and it’s ok if you don’t but don’t forget to use your brain

[inreallife-updates]

You're beautiful just the way you are!

Saw some stuff on social media & I just wanted to say that you're beautiful just the way you are. Don't let the social media, the industry or "aesthetics" or anyone for that matter, make you feel less than perfect or beautiful!! You're beautiful inside and outside, no matter what!! Don't hesitate to block anyone that you feel is toxic and making you feel less than perfect!! Love & hugs to all of you!! 😊💖

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Random

I was singing crazy af in my head & then I started to think of a one direction song that was similar. Five minutes later, finally remembered!! Just can't let her go, it was a song that got leaked. Was just driving me crazy for a few minutes there, now I can sleep 😂😂.

[maybemegs]

y’all seeing this

[boyband-adventure]

Cowboy Brady

[dailytomlinson]

Our hearts go out to Louis, his family and Fizzy’s loved ones during this horrible time. We’re so deeply sorry for their loss.

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Streaming hacks for Spotify 😊

If you want to stream it at night, on a computer or device, put headphones in & the volume on really low. Spotify will think you just fell asleep with it playing 😏 and count most of the streaming. (Volume has to be on, listening on mute doesn't count. That's why I would suggest headphones. & I've fallen asleep plenty of times playing other artists all night long.) Don't feel like you have to purchase premium just for streaming, and you're not less of a fan if you can't afford to purchase the song. I just wanted to make that known. You're not less of a fan if you don't stream the song. I just want to remind you, because you as a fan matter. However you're able to be a fan, that's all that matters.

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Crazy AF

I'm sorry, I've been so distracted with the Jonas Brothers coming back, like my childhood boyband!! My original favs, like they were my obsession, posters on the wall. They were that group for me. & then the tragedy this week for my 1D fandom. Anyway, just heard in Real life's crazy AF!! I'm shook that Hollywood records allowed swear words first of all (Disney affiliation & all), back when the jonas & Demi were on it, like Demi's one music video had to be edited to be less "sad". Her signing in the rain, in all black, playing a guitar was "too dark." I feel like every boy band has released this kind of love song, but there's is definitely on another level. This is like pillow talk level explicit!! I'm shocked. Go listen to crazy AF & also if you're not following him, go follow their photographer Thomas crane art on Instagram. They did an interview today, haven't seen it yet. He's always posting things about the boys.

[spacetaemin]

if you see this post you’re legally obligated to reply to it with your current favorite song

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Home by Liberty Deep Down!!

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Both of Sergio’s Grandfathers came to see his show in Livermore

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Aww, that's a really cute photo!! 😊

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ok harry did not invent that saying i REALLY think you need to calm down

I know, I agree, I totally over reacted to the guitar pick, but Harry Styles' tour also never came to where I am so I didn't know exactly what he had for merchandise. They did have official treat people with kindness guitar pick package. I'm trying very hard to be chill with this group, but I don't appreciate being attacked with HISTORY by 1D by In Real Life. Like you just don't understand, it's history, I was already attacked by one direction when they released that music video over INFINITY!! Okay?!! Like it's seriously a very big deal in the one direction fandom, I'm a hard core directioner first, and ZOUIS was my favorite bromance/ship!! That song reminds me of the music video for history, which has a cute moment for every single ship in one direction, and I was attacked by one direction with the cutest ZOUIS moment from 2011/2012!! (This is me being extremely extra and over exaggerating how I feel, this is me, I'm very sorry. Zouis was my favorite because they were sarcastic, witty, jokesters and pranksters.). It hurts me to hear that song, it hurts me right in my heart, and I didn't appreciate that kind of careless attack on my heart (more over exaggerating how I feel, it's what I do.)AND the WORST part is that they did it on One Direction's birthday Month!! How DARE they think it's okay to do such an attack on one direction's birthday month!! (Big brother 20 reference/over exaggeration/meme. If you're not watching bb20, I don't expect you to understand this meme, just know that it's very funny to me and I'm cracking up. HUGE Thank you to Rockstar for this wonderful meme!!)I'm sorry, I will try not to do any more posts without clarification on what's an exaggeration. I'm used to my own fandom who over reacts/looses our minds and gets over it by the end of the day. I'm sorry if I seem crazy, this is what happens when you stan a group, and are part of a fandom. I am crazy, I admit it, I don't know the truth from the lies!! I'm totally crazy after following one direction for 8 years, it's hard to be a fan and suffer the whiplash of everything. Imagine if you're fav has a girlfriend, and her name is Eleanor. You're like: I love Eleanor, she's so pretty and sweet. Then they break up and you're like: I never liked Eleanor to begin with, he's better off without her!! He deserves someone better!! They get back together: oh my god, she's back! He never stopped loving Eleanor, he couldn't stop thinking about her. FORGET about Danielle!! Who is that?! She's been Danielled!! And who's Brianna??!! She's irrelevant because he loves Eleanor and she's perfect even though she doesn't like his baby and doesn't believe it's actually his. (This is a fandom meme, this will either offend you to no end or make you crack up!! )That whiplash is enough to drive any sane person insane, now times that by five, times that by three and you get one direction fandoms life the past 8 years. That's for normal fans too!! That aren't twitter deep.I'm extra, like I'm trying to not let my own opinions on everything that happens out, but this time I just couldn't bite my tongue. (This is why I'm a LOUIE!! That's also a thing that Louis has said about his Twitter dragging.)Sorry if this was too long, but I just felt like I needed to clarify how I was feeling and what was going through my head. I was over it by the end of the day, I was onto the next out rage an hour later. Honestly I admit I'm a bit crazy, but you haven't met my family either and I wouldn't wish that crazy on anyone!! (I'm referring to my fandom family as a whole and also my entire real family. So take that anyway you want!!)

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More on them performing DMD

I'm keeping up with the current season of the X factor uk. Louis Tomlinson is on that show, Louis Tomlinson co wrote on more than half of their songs, and one of those songs is a song called Perfect. A contest chose perfect as their song, and it was played in a different way than the original, which I think is allowed even with all the copy right laws. Again, one direction isn't even allowed to play their own songs at their own shows with the original instrumental, and there's been a rumor that One direction might be in a lawsuit (lawsuit with industry=songs frozen/not allowed to be used by anyone until lawsuit is settled) for quite some time now. I don't know if that's true or not, but the rumor definitely exists. I'm just saying that if In Real life didn't get permission, they can be sued by both one direction and their label. Could also get into hot water if the lawsuit rumors are true, like this isn't a joke. They have to get permission, and if they don't, then they will face severe consequences. I just want all of you to be aware of the laws regarding copy rights. I don't know if abc has a blanket agreement with specific labels or what, but again...the potential /lawsuit rumors haven't stopped since before boy band started airing. I'm just saying that the last thing in Real life needs is a lawsuit, no matter what it's about, the rules are clear and the consequences are severe. If they break their own contracts, they'll get sued. If they try to leave, they'll get sued. There's already so many rules that they need to be careful about, all in their contract with label. They don't need Sony on their asses with a lawsuit for using/singing the song drag me down, in a live performance, without permission. Maybe I'm wrong and they do have permission, I really don't know because I'm not part of their team nor one direction's. Anyway, I really really want to believe that they got permission and aren't behaving illegally, but at the same time they are so innocent and brand new, that I don't think they even know this stuff.

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Proof: Sergio posted this on his story; This is HARRY Styles' trademark saying, I know it's got some kind of trademark due to the fact that it's on ALL of Harry's merchandise!! Didn't even tag Harry Styles in the picture!! My opinion: clear violation of Instagram's community guidelines and he is not going to be punished because he's verified. They're being too problematic for me, and I'm loosing my respect towards them as genuine human beings who are preaching to young children how they should behave and can't even respect the rules that the industry relies on so heavily to curb people stealing.