Disclaimer: A lot of these notes are based on research but also what I know about commonalities among real-life people as well. Also, know that I physically CAN NOT cater to absolute perfection for everybody. I try my best, but don't try to fucking kill me if I don't categorize you 100% correctly.
Mars Signs: what kind of doms/subs they usually are
๐Mutable Mars Signs (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces): Typically vers/switches, it's pretty rare that they have a HEAVY preference for either dom or sub. Most of them tend to like both roles a fairly equal amount.
๐Cardinal Mars Signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn): Ah yes. The bratty subs and the doms who like to tease their partners an unholy amount. Tend to have a preference for either sub or dom, but aren't opposed to switching ever now and again.
๐Fixed Mars Signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, *Aquarius): As the name implies, they usually heavily favor either sub or dom and it's not very easy to get them to switch. Tend to prefer more strict/set power dynamics because of this.
*Aquarius Mars can sometimes be the odd one out with the fixed Mars club. This is because they are ruled by Uranus, which equates to unpredictability. I'd say half of them behave the same way as Mutable Mars signs do.
The kinks/fetishes scale:
green=well known and you'll probably try it at least once in your life
yellow=spicy but still socially accepted by the majority of people
orange=taboo (or just taboo-ish) and probably considered "freaky"
red=extra taboo, but I also know has the potential to be very upsetting for some people
This scale is not meant to shame anybody (as long as you aren't into anything illegal, then yes I'm shaming you) or perpetuate the idea that one color on the scale is superior to the other. I have them in these colors so people know what they are getting into. Green is not better than orange, orange is not better than green, etc.
Slight Aspects break down:
๐conjunctions/oppositions/squares= more likely (but not guaranteed) to enjoy things on the more extreme end of what I put on the spectrum
๐trines/sextiles= more likely (but not guaranteed) to enjoy things on the more tame end of what I put on the spectrum
Mars signs+aspects+houses and kinks/fetishes
Content Warning: If any specific kinks/fetishes/BDSM dynamics make you uncomfortable in any way, I HIGHLY encourage you to click away now. I mention a lot.
๐Mars-Ascendant aspects, Aries Mars, Mars in the 1st
general rough sex
"brat taming", hate fucking
face sitting/face fucking, degradation, impact play
cnc, primal sex
๐Explanation: Mars, Aries, and the 1st house are all connected to each other. They all influence the head (hence all the face stuff), aggression, and survivalist instincts (which is why we have 4 different types of aggressive kinks listed down below), degradation and impact play just seemed to be a commonality among many people with these placements/aspects that I know.
"brat taming", mirror sex, might like to record videos of themselves, wax play
petplay, body worship as well as titles like "god/goddess", "prince/princess" (anything that makes them feel special)
primal sex
๐ฅExplanation: The Sun, Leo, and the 5th house are all connected to each other. They all influence children, hence the mating press + breeding kink. Mirror sex + videoing +body worship because all of these are related to the ego which the Sun, 5th house, and Leo are connected to. Petplay because I've seen a lot of them like that lol. Primal+brat taming because a lot of them like the whole "fighting for dominance" thing and both those kinks incorporate that. Wax play because heat=warm...like the Sun. Hair pulling was just a commonality
๐ฉMars-Moon aspects, Cancer Mars, Mars in the 4th
Breeding kink (obviously), the types that will want to fuck at any place possible in your house ("bend me/you over the counter" type stuff)
...Mommy kink...but are you really surprised by that? Also overstimulation kink (being forced to cum multiple times with no break)
food play. yes, I fucking said it somebody had to (it usually involves eating stuff off somebody's body for those who don't know), Lactation (these all correlate to tits, okay?), dacryphilia, cum eating lol it's true
large (and I mean large) age gaps, mdlg or mdlb
๐ฉExplanation: The Moon, Cancer, and the 4th house are all connected to each other. Family, mother, and the home are all ruled by these things, so that's like half the list already gone for you. Overstim+dacryphilia because these kinks both involve strong emotions...and moon=~feelings~. Lactation I already explained, but both the eating kinks are because the Moon, Cancer, and the 4th house all affect eating habits
๐Mars-Mercury aspects, Gemini Mars, Mars in the 3rd
general dirty talk, 18+ asmr, "marking" (leaving hickeys/bite marks), choking
hand fetish, BDSM gags, probably making somebody gag in general lol, sensory deprivation (like blindfolding and stuff)
verbal degradation, car sex (tbh sex in any sort of moving vehicle), being watched while getting off, wearing/making somebody wear a collar or leash
"step bro/sis" type stuff
๐Explanation: Mercury, Gemini, and the 3rd house are all connected to each other. Gemini rules over the mouth, hands, and throat. Mercury is connected to speech and sensory processing (and I'm emphasizing sight). 3rd house connects to siblings and transportation.
๐ญMars-Venus aspects, Taurus Mars, Mars in the 2nd
choking, praise kink, romantic/sensual sex
using term(s) like and/or being called mommy/daddy, collaring
treating somebody or being treated like a possession (ie: "you're my personal fuck toy" and stuff like that)
๐ญExplanation: Venus, Taurus, and the 2nd house are all connected to each other. They all have influence over self-esteem (so praise kink), the throat (choking + collaring), and possession (collaring again + treating/being treated like a possession). The Mommy/Daddy thing is just a trend I picked up on. Also, I feel like the romantic sex one was MEGA obvious so I'm not explaining.
โ๏ธMars-Jupiter aspects, Sagittarius Mars, Mars in the 9th
xenophilia, size kink
humiliation (being forced to confess stuff mainly)
public sex, might be into a teacher x student, or prisoner x guard roleplay (they can get off on the power dynamic)
demon/monster fuckers (NOT literally they just fantasize about it at most), or fantasies that involve religion/religious themes in whatever way
โ๏ธExplanation: Jupiter, the 9th house, and Sagittarius are all connected. They all influence travel (hence exhibitionism), foreigners/foreign things, law + higher education + religion (which is why I mentioned those different roleplays), humiliation because these things influence honesty/truth, and size kink because Jupiter=big.
๐ฏMars-Saturn aspects, Capricorn Mars, Mars in the 10th
handcuffs, choking
shibari, edging, orgasm denial/orgasm control in general
public sex, "punishments" (not explaining this one, you either know what I mean or you don't), strict dom/sub dynamics, metal bondage, Chasity belts/cages
large (and I mean large) age gaps, ddlg or ddlb
๐ฏExplanation: Saturn, Capricorn, and the 10th house are all connected to each other. All of these things have a theme of restriction (hence the bondage/edging mention and strict dynamics), are connected to paternal/"fatherly" figures, and the 10th house specifically rules over public personas so I feel like public sex could kind of play into that??? Idk I might be reaching. All also have themes of karma and discipline.
๐ฃMars-Uranus aspects, Aquarius Mars, Mars in the 11th
๐ฃExplanation: So this is about to make some people mad, but I have a good reason for why there's no list here. Aquarius and the 11th house are both ruled by Uranus. Uranus rules over open-mindedness, rebellion, and unpredictability. Emphasis on unpredictability. When I think about it, there are no common kinks/fetishes among people with these placements/aspects because the only thing they are consistently (and accurately) known for is being "freaky". But it makes perfect. fucking. sense. Of course there are no common themes between what they're into, their entire brand is being into all sorts of crazy shit and they are ruled by the planet of unpredictability for God's sake. It would make even LESS sense if I could find common links between all their kinks/fetishes. Also I have Mars conjunct Uranus and 2 close Aquarius Mars friends so I'm pretty reliable on this subject, I pinkie promise I'm not just talking out of my ass.
๐งดMars-Neptune aspects, Pisces Mars, Mars in the 12th
Shower/bath/hot tub sex, could be into tattoos/piercings, messy sex
overstimulation kink (being forced to cum multiple times with no break), spit kink, tights/thigh highs
Sex while both parties are high/drunk, piss kink, PVC/latex fetish
Somnophilia
๐งดExplanation: Neptune, Pisces, and the 12th house are all connected to each other. They are all connected to the unconscious, and addictive substances. Neptune is known for ruling over orgasms so that's why we have overstimulation, and since all of these are associated with the ocean they tend to like/be into different bodily fluids more than the average person, if you catch my drift. Neptune/Pisces/12th also rules over body alterations so that's why we have tattoos/piercings. I forgot why I added thigh highs + PVC/latex BUT I HAD A REALLY GOOD REASON and now I'm embarrassed I can't remember it.
๐Mars-Pluto aspects, Scorpio Mars, Mars in the 8th
could be into tattoos/piercings, "marking" (leaving hickeys/bite marks), general rough sex
bondage (usually any kind is okay with them), wax play
cnc, blood kink (yes I've actually met people with these placements/aspects that like this)
๐Explanation: y'know 100% of these I've just observed and are very prevalent commonalities, but it makes sense. Pluto represents ~darkness and destruction~ (and the 8th house + Scorpio connect to Pluto too)...so like...name a dark and extreme kink and they probably like it. Half of them just like sex to be as edgy as possible, to be honest.
๐ฐMars-Juno aspects, Libra Mars, Mars in the 7th
anal lol (they either love this or vehemently denounce it?? like either way, chill), general romantic/sensual sex
light bondage (emphasis on light), hatefucking/"enemies to lovers", using term(s) like and/or being called good boy/girl
impact play/spanking
๐ฐExplanation: I know this one is short. But honestly? There isn't much ground to cover. Libra, Juno, and the 7th house 90% revolve around relationships so this one was hard to think of kinks for. Anal + impact play because all the things I just listed do in fact connect to the ass, Enemies + hatefucking because all those things also correlate to known enemies, and light bondage + good boy/girl title because it seems to be a commonality
โ๏ธMars-Ceres aspects, Virgo Mars, Mars in the 6th
praise kink
using term(s) like and/or being called mommy/daddy, same deal with titles like good boy/girl, medical roleplay
master/mistress + sex sl-ve dynamic, petplay
โ๏ธExplanation: Yeah yeah this is my 2nd shorter list in a row, be quiet. ANYWAY, Virgo, the 6th house, and Ceres are all connected. Okay so Praise kink + good boy/girl titles because ~commonality~, pet play + medical rp because the 6th house correlates to...you guessed it! pets and health, the m + s dynamic because people with these placements/aspects can get off on the servitude aspect of it (and the does correlate to acts of service), the Mommy/Daddy thing because 6th house+Virgo+Ceres ties into nurturing so y'know
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Hello Diana What does it mean having lots of retrogrades in your natal chart All my planets expect venus mars and saturn are in retrograde
What It Means to Have Retrograde Planets
Energetically, a planet that is retrograde is a planet that is away. And so reaping that planetโs benefits will take you longer than usual, as you will have to travel far. It does not mean you will not get there. You will just have to work harder than others.
Mercury
As a child, you could have a harder time than your classmates learning logical subjects such as science and mathematics. You should not have the same problem with creative fields. As an adult, you might find it difficult to communicate your arguments clearly and eloquently, whether in writing or through speaking.
Venus
In your teens, you could struggle with self-esteem, especially in regard to your physical appearance. You might be the last one in your social circle to find a romantic partner. Even in adulthood, after you have blossomed and have experienced being loved, you could still have a hard time with confidence and self-worth.
Mars
In PE class, the other kids could always choose you last or make fun of you. You might not have the same level of energy and vitality as the other students. As an adult, you could find yourself prone to workout accidents, such as shin splints and sprains. Mentally and emotionally, you could find yourself lacking in drive and ambition.
Jupiter
As a kid, you could be branded as selfish, as you might be very reluctant to share your toys with your playmates. Likewise, you might find that other people are not as generous to you as they are to other kids. As an adult, it could take you a lot longer than your peers to be noticed at work and get a raise or a promotion.
Saturn
Throughout your life, others could resent you for being somewhat childish. You might have a problem respecting authority, recognizing peopleโs boundaries, or fulfilling your duties. Mental growth and emotional maturity could evade your grasp. Your family might treat you condescendingly. Overall, you could struggle with stability.
Uranus
You might have a hard time with self-expression. That is, you could be afraid to speak your mind and flaunt your interests. In school, then at work, you would come up with great ideas, but you would think they are stupid and keep them under wraps. You could struggle with your sexuality too, and therefore, with your identity.
Neptune
Your parents and teachers might worry about your emotional health. Either you would appear detached and unsympathetic at times, or you would bully and hurt other kids. Kindness and compassion are concepts you might have a hard time grasping. Even in adulthood, unconditional love is something you might never believe in.
Pluto
You might play the role of the eternal underdog, first in the family, then at school, and later on, at work. This is because you could have a hard time recognizing your own power. Every small challenge you face could feel like the end of the world, as you would not understand the concept of emotional evolution and growth.
These โsymptomsโ will be felt by individuals in varying degrees. Some will be undeterred by them, while others will have a hard time dealing. If you have many retrograde planets, harness the strengths of your direct planets to help you overcome your more challenging placements.
If I wanna know how someone plays video games, what placements would I look at?
mercury sign and house: itโs the way they quickly process imagery and that includes video games
3rd house: itโs also related to mercury, you can usually tell what types of video games they like from the 3rd house.
โขsun energy would most likely like something theyโre good at to feed their ego, something with high numbers so they can be at the top, or a game where they are leading something
โขmoon energy there, something they can emotionally attach to and connect with, a nostalgic game, probably old but gold type of people.
โขmercury energy would probably like car racing, puzzles, quick and high energy logic games, or a lot of video games in general theyโre not too picky, just wanna use their brain
โขvenus energy there, something musical and aesthetically pleasing, dancing, singing, fashion, animals too.
โขmars energy there, they probably like a game with lots of violence and attack. war games are probably what pops to mind here, fighting too
โขjupiter energy there would probably like a game that really gets them thinking, using bigger ideas to solve problems. probably one of those games that never end and you just level on forever
โขsaturn energy there would like a planning game, something they can really be methodical with, games with time in them usually are good, leveling is very important too, they just want to keep improving
โขuranus energy would probably like something outer space related, or with high tech stuff, aliens, the futuristic stuff, they really enjoy that. games seem super complicated, like mad genius level
โขneptune energy would like something to do with deep sea. maybe taking care of larger animals. something with magic and fantasy is something they really enjoy, anything to keep them away from reality. role play games are found here too
โขpluto would probably like a game thatโs more dark and twisted, lots of death and casualties, horror games probably really fascinate them
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