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Zodiac Equasions that me and my friend came up with high
No context
Aries = Scorpio + Sagittarius
Taurus = Virgo + Pices
Gemini =Libra + virgo
Cancer = Aquarius + Pisces
Leo= Aries + Sagittarius
Virgo = Gemini + Libra
Scorpio = Aries + Virgo
Sagittarius = Cancer + Gemini
Capricorn = Aqurius + Scorpio
Aquarius = Pisces + Gemini
Pisces = Cancer + Aquarius
Venus in the 12th house (Synastry):
Secret admirer.
Ethereal love.
Online stalker.
Psychic connection.
Spiritual bond.
Ease in expressing vulnerability.
Quick attraction from opposite sex.
Unreal love.
Communication without words.
Other worldly love / bond.
Destiny 💞.
Past life soul-mate.
Unfinished business.
Innocent love.
Unconditional care.
Straight up fantasy.
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8th house / Pluto Stellium :
Earlier in life:
Bad / Rough childhood
Traumas
Mentally dominated
The one whose needs were ignored
Neglected
Nightmares
Sleep paralysis
Bullies little play thing
Witness buried secrets
True colours of everyone
Humiliation
Body shamed (Fat / Skinny)
Emotionally Suppressed
Abandoned
The odd one out
Later on:
Transformation (better)
Grabbing back the power (as you should)
Deep spiritual growth
Channeling back all the lost power
Intimidating
Longevity
Ambitious
Full of passion
Your soul will have a unique personality
Your ancestors guiding you to a better life
Dreams that guide you
Power to escape death
"Comparing is the No. 1 quality of an immature individual. Stay above them, never stoop to their level."
Resentment is an old friend of mine:
The ugliest friend I've ever had..😮💨
Forgive the people who hurt you..
But never forget how they made you feel..
However here's my side of the story, Imagine being treated unfairly during your childhood. When you are not old enough to understand why people are the way they are..
I have a lot of unanswered questions.. like:
Why did they belittle me?? When I was just 7 ?
Why did people make me cry?? What are they getting out of it ??
Why was I told that I am not good enough? In the tender age of 7 by few ?
How do you expect me to be ok with you minimizing my worth ?
Why are people so sad when I smile ?
Why was I constantly compared with my fellow peers ??
After years of resentment, I am finally old enough to understand that none of it was my fault.
But still I am sorry :
Sorry you had a hard life.
Sorry that your life sucked so much that you felt like making a little girl cry.
I seriously pity you. Because you thought that treating a little girl unfairly will solve all your problems.
I pity you because.. you stooped so low..
And now that, that little girl is old enough to know better.. She will never do what you did. Although her life was not so easy but still..
She managed to tame her anger at last..
She is a "W" Woman if :
People call her "Stubborn" behind her back.
She cheers for other women.
She is assertive but kind.
She is not afraid of being vulnerable and she doesn't see vulnerability as a weakness in others.
She doesn't shy away from laughing her heart out.
People come to her for advice. She must be honest af.
She doesn't care how people perceive her.
She is passionate about whatever she does. Her job & her hobby.
She is straight forward & uncensored.
Her confidence is infectious.
People mirror her behaviour. And trust her guidance.
Other's success doesn't intimidate her.
She doesn't bitch behind others'backs.
Astro observations (October 2022)
Sun in aries in 1st house (aries ascendant+sun in 1st house) men make YouTube videos as a hobby. They are also egoistic and self centered in a materialistic way.
Saturn in 9th house is the hallmark of PhD scholar. These natives always have a higher education degree and stay in college for a long time.
Saturn in 9th house natives also are born into super religious family but when they grow up they become atheists and start to explore their own philosophy.
Moon in 3rd house natives love to text, talk on phone call a lot. You can find them chatting with someone most hours of their day.
Sun in aries natives especially men are prone to be fuckboys and date many girls by way of manipulation. Most of the girls are in young age because these men are attracted to physical looks. They show a sense of entitlement too when it comes to dating young girls without any remorse for what they do. It also happens that they act this way to feel masculine because of their moms being very controlling and infantilizing them. So they use girls to feel powerful and strong. This is the case of immature ones btw. A mature aries native man plays sports to feel strong and powerful. Instead of using girls, he uses physical activities like sports to be competitive and ego boost.
Immature Aries natives men also use girls for ego boost and not really for emotional connection or partnership. They date many girls for attention and ego boost. Scorpio girls can be perfect target for them because these girls give doormat people pleasing energy. These girls can be codependendent that Aries men like as being "needed" as a hero.
Sun in 12th house natives have an unavailable father owing to his work or personality or death. But these natives have an imagination of their father figure in their head that they tend to idealize. Despite father being absent they don't really worry about it because emotionally they feel connected to an ideal father figure.
Sun in 12th house natives also grow up in a large household, usually a big house with riches and resources. A comfort childhood although absent father. They have a rich imagination life too.
Moon in 8th house natives in whichever sign are prone to self realize and enlighten in their lives. When they discover the impact of their mother's behaviour and that their mother had personality disorder/emotional instability. These natives also carry the learned behaviours from their mother unconsciously. They will reach self awareness and change themselves during the time period of the dispositor of 8th house.
How to see which area of your life will be active with astro? Check out the Vimshottari dasha chart. Any good website is fine. Whichever planet is running its Mahadasha--find in your birth chart where its sign is placed. For eg, if you're running mercury mahadasha, check out which houses are occupied by Gemini and Virgo. Now, which planets are placed in these houses? Check out the signs of these planets and in which house they are placed. You can then check out antardasha as well. And so on.
Sun in 7th house natives lack self esteem. They cant stand being alone. Always needing to be around others and especially being in romantic relationship. In the early days of dating, they will attract narcissists in their life, especially if the 1st house is empty too. Then they will mature and find self esteem. Even then they will attract self centered partners but there will not be ego clashes because natives have matured already.
Sun in 7th house natives find themselves through reflection in other people. They don't know who they are until they project their own unconscious personality traits on other people and see what clicks with them.
Sun in 7th house or 10th house are a good position for public service career.
Saturn in 8th house can be a really sad placement. Being a karmic planet in a karmic house is a combination that leads to delays, hardships, poor quality of life, emotional stagnant, fear of occult, fear of transformation, ageing faster than usual, prolonged disease, sudden life transformations.
All moon in 8th house natives can unite for psychological studies, spiritual insights and being perceptive of emotions. They do really like to talk about psychological topics with their peers.
Moon in 3rd house and sun in 12th house are just on point!
Can you please do March 20 ?
Language Of Birthdays: March 20 - Pisces/Aries
The Day Of The Labyrinth
March 20 is a highly symbolic day, when considered as the last day of winter and the end of the astrological year. People born on this day possess certain unusual gifts as well as special problems. For example, they are in many ways the most highly evolved creatures of the year, when the zodiac is considered as a map of the evolution of the human being. On the other hand, they may find it difficult to start certain important endeavors and to leave the past behind. It can take them a very long time to make crucial decisions, particularly those involving big changes in their lives.
The expansive qualities and sometimes unfounded optimism of March 20 people can land them in hot water. While their dreaminess lends them magnetic charm, it also makes them prone to unreality in their outlook. However, if those born on this day manage to find their true calling and life partner they will be protected from much that can go wrong. March 20 talents are generally both numerous and diverse. Therefore those born on this day may flounder for a while, fishing around for the right path to take. They can also be overly influenced by those in higher positions and somewhat inclined toward hero worship, often at the expense of their own ego. Their romanticism, a product of a vivid imagination, can perhaps lead them astray in this respect. By overvaluing the one they worship they tend to unconsciously undervalue themselves. This can lead to a lack of self-confidence of which they themselves may be unaware.
March 20 people must also beware of falling into depressions, which no amount of admiration (either for others or from others) will help. On the other hand, solid friends and loved ones who can keep them on track are of great importance. Ultimately, working toward greater self-assertiveness is the key to March 20 people avoiding these states. Those born on this day are often drawn to psychic phenomena. They may have great talents in this area, but should be extremely careful not to let themselves go overboard. Such excesses could lead to an abandonment of reality which would be devastating not only to themselves but also to loved ones. If they can put these talents to use in moderation, they will achieve success in life.
Sensitivity to music and art are pronounced in March 20 people who may be particularly drawn to vocal expression. Singing, for example, can make an excellent hobby or even profession for those with musical talent. Attention to the feelings of others makes those born on this day fine interpreters of their fellow human beings' work but also good counsellors to whom people come to seek advice. In this they should remain objective if possible, for their opinion carries weight and tends to impact heavily on clients, co-workers or friends.
Strengths:
Logical
Sensitive
Versatile
Weaknesses:
Unrealistic
Unsure
Advice
March 20 people are generally more mental than physical, and are prone to getting their feelings tied up in knots. Their excess nervous energy will cause headaches and ultimately lead to exhaustion if care is not taken to seek rest and a stable life situation. Moderate, regular exercise serves to ground them in their body, use up excess energy and combat depression. It is essential for March 20 people to adopt a healthy diet as early in life as possible. Yet the extravagance of Pisces with regard to food will make this difficult. The diet of March 20 people people is best kept to the straight and narrow (grains, fresh vegetables, low-fat foods) and binges avoided. On the other hand, extremes in diet or exercise can cause problems too, however, since health fanaticism may intensify stress.
Your emotions can be destructive
Keep calm and in touch with your center
Hello! I hope you liked this article, I know that this is a "cusp" day but since those don't actually exist - this day belongs mostly to Pisces.
Astrology observations 🍟🍟🍟
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🍟🍟 Aries Moon can be clumsy in the kitchen. They easily burn food while cooking or cut themselves. 🔪🔥
🍟🍟 It’s not enough talked about how Taurus Moon will literally eat the same lunch for weeks and then never eat that food ever again. They are picky eaters, but get really easily hooked on foods that they actually like.
🍟🍟 I noticed Capricorn Moons even more than any other Moon sign enjoy berries, like blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, they obsess over it and can eat a package in one sitting. 🫐
🍟🍟 Aries Moons I found prefer more crunchy and salty foods rather than spicy foods. They love chips/crisps and fries. Basically the only spice they really like is salt 😂
🍟🍟 Mars in the 12th house is really tricky in synastry and composite chart. Yes, you might intuitively know well what is happening with the other person. However, you might live in this own fantasy, bubble not really in touch with the realistic community around you two? You guys literally create your own world to live in🌍 That’s why you might isolate yourselves a lot (and spend time in each other’s company), but when with other people from the community, these people might look at you weirdly or like you are not completely in touch with reality. Maybe when you are together you only feel like watching films or listening to music and other people might look at you two as not taking your duties seriously enough.
🍟🍟I noticed that Aries Moon really shares with Scorpio Moon the trait of being overprotective over their partner and loved ones. However, the most important trait I noticed is that they don’t really move on that quickly. Aries Moon in love supposed to be someone that moves on quickly. But they are impatient only in the beginning stage, want their lover to give in quickly. But they don’t MOVE ON from their love quickly. They are still emotionally invested in their person. But they fall in love with people’s identities, character, traits and personality.
🍟🍟 Aries Juno either marries impulsively or stay unmarried their whole life!
🍟🍟 Another thing said about Aries Moon: they are the types to literally go for someone that looks less hot than them physical appearance wise. They could say to their friends “oh don’t go for this person, it will turn out bed, because he is way too hot”. Like they have distrust and suspicion of sexy, hot looking people.
🍟🍟 Capricorn Juno or Juno Saturn aspect might experience a lot of obstacles when dating so in the beginning of a new committed relationship. You or your partner will be overly burdened by your duties, work responsibilities, duties that were given to you by your parents. You will feel like there is never actual time to see them (your partner). So I noticed despite being Capricorn/Saturn, your relationship could be long distance at some point or communication will be mainly online/instant messaging/video calls.
🍟🍟 I think the best way to handle Uranus/Aquarius in the 7th house energy is just to accept the fact that you’ll have unstable relationship. You yourself are probably a dynamic person and like to be on the go and change things often. So beware that you attract equally experimental people! ⚡️
🍟🍟 If you are dating someone with Cancer Moon, you have to pass the try test with their mother. And if they are Cancer Sun, it’s with their father. If their mother or father don’t approve of you, they might actually stop dating you.
🍟🍟 Sagittarius Juno and even Jupiter Juno aspect to lesser extent might be dealing with:
- starting a fully committed relationship only once they finish a level of education
- enter a long term partnership when they are in college
- or decide to only commit to people that are more educated than them
🍟🍟 Cancer Juno will choose a partner that resemble Juno native mother in traits and behaviour. They might also pick their partner in mind with “would my mum like them?” when dating.
🍟🍟 This is not connected with astrology, but I think it really advisable to look not only at their natal chart, but also their life path number. Because in the end even if you two have okay compatibility, maybe life paths were vastly different.
🍟🍟 I noticed Scorpio Risings are the first to jump on a new social media/gadget (like using tik tok first) despite actually disliking trends.
🍟🍟 Also, Scorpio Risings always have unique outlets for their artistic projects. Like they might promote it on tik tok😂
🍟🍟 Juno in Pisces/in the 12th house might ask you before starting dating “whether you play any instruments?” They literally see someone as a soul match that has the same musical taste. 😂
🍟🍟 Pisces Moon males are often submissive to their partner. Their partner is somehow more dominant, assertive and more agressive than them. Might also earn a lot more than them. 💵
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if i may ask, what are your favourite synastry aspects? i saw your recent astrology post and i got curious 😊
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synastry aspects/placements that i think are pretty neat:
(these are really from what i personally experienced, i mostly mention romantic synastry so keep that in mind when reading.)
☆» moon/venus/mercury/sun in the 4th house. maybe mars too but i frankly haven't tried that. this has an air of "you are safe to me, you make me feel at home." whenever you two are together. you crave each other's presence actually, like you can't help but just touch each other whenever youre both in the same vicinity. this can go for both romantic and platonic. it's so intimately domestic with this synastry to be honest, it's wholesome blushing and biting your lip at the thought of your person. they bring you comfort and help you feel at ease. definitely one of my faves BUT there can be a tendency for passive aggressiveness, of not wanting to show each other that you're mad and sweeping issues under the rug. please be careful of that, it's always best to address issues up front and talk about things properly.
☆» moon conjunct venus. i am a hopeless romantic and it took me so long to accept that part of me, the moment i felt moon conjunct venus for the first time it made me accept the vulnerable parts of me, made me no longer be ashamed of being soft, of showing affection. venus person cares for the moon person, showering them with as much love as they can. moon person feels seen and acknowledged by venus person and both just.. really have this soft ass connection that is simply so goddamn adorable.
☆» moon in the 2nd house. love language = gift giving. not just that but when someone's moon is in your second house, it makes you want to be taken care by them and depending on the rest of your synastry, this can be very good :D especially when moon person is so willing to take care of you. you feel as though you can rely on this person a lot. a grounding placement in my opinion.
☆» mercury-venus / mercury-moon. personally, this is much better when it's harmonious aspects, harsh aspects encourage both of you to change though (if that's what you two are aiming for). mercury aspects in synastry are very important personally, especially towards the moon and/or venus. when it's lighter aspects, it has a really easy-going communication going on with you two and understanding each other comes easily. open communication!! that shit matters to me so much and having these synastry aspects with people really excites me.
☆» pluto-moon. okay listen, this one is for those that love that deep, passionate, all-consuming type of connection with someone, the type of relationship that makes you change as a person and face sides of yourself that you tried burying deep inside you. will it change you for the worse or the better? who even knows but having these aspects in synastry is only good if you have good aspects that balance it out too, or if you're both grown people who know how to be with each other and communicate for the better. my experience with this synastry has been both bad and good, the good part is like.. they (pluto person, several) know what i'm feeling for some reason literally out of nowhere, but most of the time it feels like i'm being shamed so uhm, maybe this isn't for everyone i'm sorry please forget you read anything.
☆» saturn-venus ! this that grow together type of love. paired with mercury-venus/mercury moon? i personally would think that would be too good to be true. it's learning together, being patient with each other, encouraging each other that we can be better, we can grow into more, we can do this. i'm so fucking cheesy but it's really something else. i love this one too.
☆» moon conjunct ascendant. the effortless understanding that comes with this i swear, it's honestly amazing. rant buddies type of thing, being able to pour your heart out knowing you wont be judged and will be given the proper advice and literally just someone to be there for you when you really need it. soft soft soft.
☆» venus in the 5th house. cliche's aren't too bad when you get to experience them at their best. the type of chemistry you see in movies, the stories we used to read on wattpad (not the mafia ones, or the werewolf ones, or whatever the fuck). the high school romance type of love. that adrenaline rush you get when you find someone so compatible with you that you just can't believe it. this synastry is just so fun! doing your hobbies together, learning new hobbies together, being able to freely express love towards each other. being each other's source of joy. creating art together.
☆» stellium in the 4th house. i just think that 4th synastry is very neat :) it's so precious and makes me feel like i can bring my guard down and it's so mind blowing. i can trust this person, they are comforting to me, they make me feel as though nothing is wrong and that i am safe.
☆» moon conjunct uranus. not gonna lie, this creates for a very weird friendship/relationship that people are gonna find so uncommon, something that stands out from the usual but isn't that what makes it so special. the people involved in this connection honestly say the weirdest shit with each other and yknow what? that's fine, fucking fantastic even! let me know more, tell me more about this niche interest you have that might actually be a mild obsession but who fucking cares, it's amazing even if i don't understand.
☆» venus conjunct jupiter. man, this is love galore (not the song), it can be overwhelming, like pluto synastry, but different. this much love cannot be real. but also this type of relationship gives you confidence, you're confident when you guys are together. this makes for a power couple actually when i think about it, it might. you put each other up but be careful, this type of connection can have you focusing on too much indulgence that the slightest friction might make you turn tail and be disappointed with each other.
☆» moon in the 12th house. i know this isn't for everyone, or well, some people don't really vibe with the 12th house but this synastry placement really triggered so much change in my emotional maturity, made me more emotionally aware but maybe because i have 12th house placements. the 12th house is not foreign to me, and having moon in the 12th synastry had me feeling so exposed, vividly dreaming of this fucker that i loved but i liked it. why? well, it woke me up ironically enough. like lucid dreaming i guess, made me better as a person. made me more aware of who i was, how my emotions were. but only after extreme heartbreak. karmic connection for sure :)
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BDSM, S*X, AND THE SIGNS: part one.
(18+)🔥
*DO NOT plagiarize my writing and/or repost on any other forms of social media under any circumstances. This is NOT for minors.*
Every single sign has its kinky side. And they all have moments in which they desire to be submissive or dominant, but without a doubt, we can't talk about dominant energy without talking about Saturn first.
Saturn rules (♄): leather, handcuffs, bondage, the adrenal gland, belts, blindfolds, confinement, chains, obedience, padlocks, pinching, saddles, sadism, self-control, and whips.
And when it comes to the body Capricorn (♑︎ ) rules: knees, bones, skin, and skeletal structure. Aquarius rules (♒︎): lower legs.
Saturnian’s are excellent at dominating their partners in bed. Capricorn placements don't mind being dominating in the bedroom since it comes naturally to them; after all, they're used to being in charge during the day, so why would they stop at night? Cap placements (whether it's mars, rising, 10th house placements, Saturn aspects, or personal planets at 10° or 22°) exhibit this powerful energy in such a nurturing and caring manner, believe it or not. Mars-Saturn placements could also really enjoy showing off their dominant side, the sense of a slow-burn could really turn them on or edging their partner, "you won't finish until I say so" energy. ❤️🔥 when it comes to BDSM they wouldn’t mind diving into some bondage and discipline at all.
They will only take part if the other person is completely at ease with them doing so. Most of the time, cap placements will have people ask them to show off their authority in bed because they give off BDE haha. "That was nice, wasn't it?" they'll say after bending you over or watching you beg with a steady look and an almost smile on their lips. lmfao all lovely and calm. They can be big on aftercare after more intense sexual encounters. Gotta love that cap-cancer axis. 😝✨💕
And we can't forget to include Aquarius (whether it be mars, rising, 11th house placements, or personal planets at 11°, 22°) in the mix. They don't mind playing games at all, especially when it's mental games, thanks to their detached and rebellious character and that air (intellectual) sign energy. Aqua dominants can usually play on their submissive's anxieties during mind games, forcing them to question themselves and their entire worldview. Submissives can experience powerful feelings such as humiliation, fear, excitement, and arousal due to the aqua placements teasing. Aqua placements may act like no big deal, but it exhilarates them to be in charge because this is their chance to shine.
For instance, Julia Fox stated in an interview that she made a lot of money as a dominatrix and that she was able to reclaim her sexuality in those controlled environments. And the photos of her online depict her wearing tight latex or leather attire, slip dresses, and sky-high heels (haha the saturn dom energy). And surprise surprise, she is an Aquarius sun, Capricorn Mercury, Capricorn Venus, Capricorn Saturn, Capricorn Uranus, and Capricorn Neptune. Saturn took control of her whole chart haha, so when she said being a dominatrix taught her a lot about her sexuality, I'm 100% sure it did.
Uranus-mars placements can also be very kinky to the point where their partners could be shocked, or it's just very unexpected. Like in the middle of sex, they could be like, " Hey, we should try this or use this," haha. But their partners usually get very turned on by the Uranus-mars person's spontaneous energy. It's a sexually appealing and engaging vitality that attracts all kinds of people and attention. Aquarius or Uranus energy in general could be interested in sex toys or gadgets that others might find strange. Uranus (♅) rules: devices, experiments, impulses, photography. Aqua placements or those with Uranus aspects could also be interested or like the idea of fucking their friends lmfao or threesomes.
Taurus individuals could be either submissive or dominant if they please, but regardless, it will be focused on their sensory experiences and have a Venusian touch. Since Libra placements are also venus ruled, both these signs could enjoy pretty lingerie, food play, and whip cream stuff like that. Sex toys that are aesthetically pleasing, the color pink, or just beautiful sex toys in general like collars or gags that have lovely designs and quality. Stuff that looks and feels expensive as fuck. Libra placements (whether it be mars, rising, sun, or other personal planets at 7° or 19°) could also enjoy strip-teasing and flirty seduction like slowly letting their hair down and dressing up & taking pictures of one another as they slowly take pieces of clothing off. Libra placements could also have a kink for being bent over and getting their assed slapped hard (in the rulership book, the buttocks are ruled by Libra). In short, Libra placements do not mind being submissive in bed with the right person because it feels good, a sensation of being taken care of. Without a doubt though, Libra placements (or 7h placements as well) will be in tune with their partner. They will carefully pick up on their mannerisms, likes or dislikes, they like to please and it will satisfy them to pleasure their partner. These placements could ask their partner as well if they like something new they're doing or enjoying it etc.
But back to Taurus, these placements (whether it be mars, rising, venus, or personal planets at 2°, 14°, or 26°) will focus on their pleasure, even to a fault (I'm not calling them selfish, but when they want to feel good they will make it clear). There is an intense focus on quality and sensory experiences: comfortable bed, soft skin, good-smelling candles, hands-on, oil massages, and silky sheets. Sensation play involves any play that gives a person a sensation. Some common techniques include using ice during play (on the body for short periods, putting it in your mouth, etc), playing with food like whip cream or even feeding your partner, cooling or heating toys that are capable of holding temperature, using a feather, scarf, or toy to create fun sensations for you and your partner. Taurus placements or 2nd house placements could also love talking through sex or being loud or moaning since Taurus rules the throat. When there is roughness in bed, it's usually very pleasurable for the Taurus placement, and they can, for the lack of a better term, take it, haha.
Venus dominant people, in general, love luxury and taste, so why wouldn't they apply that to their sex life? Being attractive naturally and effortlessly is there thing, like mascara running and hair is disheveled, yet it looks incredibly seductive. They will look so hot before, during, and after. Their skin is silky and dewy, lips full and plump (Venusians have very lovely lips; they can be cherry red or light pink, cute cupid bows, haha like a doll), and strands of their gorgeous hair being astray. Sugary but seductive voices, curvaceous figures.💕. Venusians definitely wouldn’t mind some role-play, especially if they got to look super hot in the outfits hehe.
Venus (♀️) rules: beautiful objects, dancing, women's apparel, aromas, attraction, beds, blushing, candy, costumes, lingerie, lips, elegance, erotica, entertainment, fruit, flowers, hair, jewelry, lace, lewdness, make-up, modeling, matrimony, roses, self-indulgence, toys, velvet, wine, teeth, tongue, suffocation, stubbornness, throat, vocal cords.
When it comes to the body, Taurus (♉︎) rules: throat, jaw, ears, mouth, thyroid gland. And libra (♎︎) rules: hip, kidney, and bladder.
The sexually alluring and intensely passionate nature of harsh venus-mars aspects can be disruptive at times. The energy can be more toned down and less explosive with the gentler aspects. Regardless of whether the element is harsh or soft, there can be a rise in sexual desire accompanied by a more attractive aura. Those with venus-mars placements may benefit from relieving tension through art (venus), physical exercise, or even masturbation (mars).
The mercurials are kinky as fuck. Virgo placements effectively utilize sex to unwind and release all of the tension that has built up over the day. They are tense or have to put on composure in their daily lives; they can release that tension during sex. So, yes, the virgin represents Virgo, but not in an inexperienced or naïve way. Instead, it alludes to the sign's commitment to purity and service. It also indicates that Virgos are competent of taking care of themselves. side note: this is why Virgo women are often referred to as "model wives." For example, Beyonce, Zendaya, and Blake Lively are all Virgo suns who have received a lot of accolades from both their partners and the general public. Public opinion is that by having these ladies by their sides and putting them on a pedestal gave their husbands/partners an advantage in life. I mean, I also do agree. Imagine waking up next to Beyonce? Kissing Zendaya? I would die lmfaoo.
But the point is do not leave the Virgo placements out of the equation. Obviously, they can be selective, but if they find the right person, they will be highly interested in pleasing them and keeping their partner happy.
Mercury (☿️) rules: adaptability, androgyny, arms, hands, fingers, bisexuality, cleverness, flexibility, hygiene, humor, mischief, and nerves.
And when it comes to the body, Gemini (♊︎) rules: Body's pairs, lungs, arms, shoulders, and hands. Virgo (♍︎) rules: intestines, gall bladder, pancreas and spleen (does this mean that the Virgo placements want someone all up in their guts? possibly).
(I think we all know that mercurials love to be fingered and can be great at fingering people too lmfao, a lot of them can even have a hand fetish or get a lot of compliments on their own hands).
we have to remember that MERCURY IS CURIOUS AND CLEVER!. So in turn, Virgo and Gemini placements (whether it be mercury, mars, venus, or these planets at 6°, 18°, 3°, 15°, 27°) can seek to know everything about a subject, sex included. And then when it's showtime, you can find out there is a lot they know. They will have an open mind and can try anything out if it seems fun.
Virgo placements, in my opinion, can easily enjoy becoming more subservient. After a day of worrying and caring for others, it's good to let someone else be in charge and prioritize their pleasure. Especially because of this earth sign energy, they DO NOT mind getting rough as fuck in bed. It's their chance to make a mess and not worry about it at that moment lmfao. (and also, why did my friend say that Virgo placements with glasses are the freakiest of them all, i screamed). And like I said earlier ^ since Virgo placements don’t want to be the ones in charge during seggs all the time they could also be into Humiliation Play. Like being called dirty names in the privacy of their own bedroom or wearing a plug or bondage wear under your clothes to work or their partner spitting inside their mouth. 😭
On the other hand, Gemini placements exude a flirtatious and playful aura (Virgo and Gemini are great at dirty talk and sexting). Mercury-Mars placements, in a similar manner, can be great at dirty talk and being very specific about what they want done to them or to their partner. They know exactly how to get their partner's attention and get them fired up. But Gemini placements are deeply satisfied when watching people squirm, especially when they realize how easily they can get someone turned on. I swear all the Geminis I know are sexy as fuck. They could be into Sexual Sadism/Masochism. Doesn’t even have to be like in a crazy intense way. Can be as simple as liking to be lightly slapped, hair pulled, face grabbed hard etc. fingers in their mouth. sucking on them.
*In this post I focused on Capricorn, Aquarius, Taurus, Libra, Virgo and Gemini placements. In part two, I’ll do the rest of the signs. 🖤*
random astro observations part 8. 🦋
part 7.
12th house placements, especially moons and mercury, are the people that give really great advice and then someone is like "eh, yeah I'll think about it" but then someone else repeats the EXACT same thing the 12th house person just said and the person is like "wooow! great advice!" stop fucking ignoring the 12th house placements when they speak 🔫 also I’m gonna talk a lot about 12h placements again in this post.
Virgo placements, especially Virgo moons and Virgo Venus will get turned off by the most minor things and it’s always something very specific. They’ll be like “yeah i can’t go on a second date anymore I saw his buttcrack when he got out the car” 😭
also my virgo moon bestie venting about a dude she’s talking to “idk the way he pronounces certain words grosses me out” 😭😭😭😭 I screamed
also the way in which mercurials (Gemini and Virgo placements) start vibrating once they drink coffee, you know like those toys where you turn the little key in the back and they start moving… like girl… be calm. Drink some water baby.
mercurials could also be the type to have certain compulsions, running your hands through your hair, constantly shaking one leg or cracking your knuckles, twisting your fingers into your shirt, turning your ring over and over or touching your necklace, chewing or clicking a pen, tapping your fingers on the desk, biting your nails etc. Some could even smoke because they have an oral fixation (I could also apply this oral fixation to Taurus placements as well)
Saturnians (saturn aspects, aqua placements, cap placements) also have this penchant for sitting very still lmfaoo they remind me of lions. My friend has Saturn in the first house, and she will sit very still with her back straight and when you're talking to her she pays a lot of attention to you. Same with my Capricorn sun friends. I think they're amazing at listening to you. And when they feel fully comfortable (which will take some time so be patient with them) they will open up as well. labeling saturnian placements as boring is wrong, like maybe they just don't trust you idk.
Sagittarius placements, especially moons and risings, really get turned off when you’re not willing to go on their crazy adventures with them. After a while they’ll just stop asking you (which is understandable but then other times it’s like im sorry i don’t wanna skydive with you and land on top of a cliff and then jump naked into the sea for a swim).
earth moons get turned off by loud ass people. Earth moons are the people that in high school looked at the ones yelling & having loud convos at 7am in disgust lmfaooo. I think earth moons are also the people that politely tell their guests to go when its past 9pm haha
air moons can be very charismatic. these are the people that you’re with them and when you turn around they’re having the most interesting conversation with a stranger. Its only when they feel like it though bc when they’re not in the mood… they’re really not in the mood.
I've noticed that a lot of water moons have had to re-parent themselves in some ways & their parents or family used them to vent emotionally to them constantly. I bet its very draining. WATER MOONS GET BEHIND ME I will make eye contact with you across the room and notice when your social battery has died and you want alone time.
I think moon in the cadent houses can also get overwhelmed easily or just need breaks from people (moon in the 3rd, 6th, 9th and 12th house). The cadent houses symbolize aspects of life that are characterized by human relationships and numerous transitional events. People with the moon in these houses may feel pressured to continually perform and therefore unable to change their minds on some issues pertaining to home life, values, roots, tradition, and coping. These individuals should be allowed to develop their own social identities. And if no one else is giving you this space, give it to yourself with grace.
fire moons get turned off by boring people. if you don’t have them feeling energized and excited to see u they’ll be like yeah imma head out. That’s why I think it’s so cute when fire moons date each other. I like watching the chaos and fun (from a distance)
water placements 🤝 not speaking and instead staring at their crush until they notice them and form a telepathic and spiritual connection
fire placements 🤝 bullying their crush to see if their crush isn't boring and can handle them
earth placements 🤝 consistent acts of service for their crush that they pretend is no big deal but hope their crush will acknowledge them
air placements 🤝 debating with their crush so they can have a good time but also secretly analyze just how smart they are
who has experience dating someone who has their mars in your sister sign? My friend is a taurus mars dating a scorpio mars and she's living her best life. I bet the energy can be very complimentary and challenging at the same time. it sounds like a good time 👀 So does that mean my leo mars has to find an aqua mars? I'm scared but also intrigued haha
4h, 8h and 12h synastry is mentioning something briefly or making a comment and much later it gets brought up as a problem or concern. And it can leave one person wondering, like “wow was it really that serious? It was just a small comment. I can’t believe they remembered that.” But with this synastry what you say to each other can have an intense and much deeper effect in comparison to other lighter synastry.
If you’re moving somewhere new you can check the synastry you have with the countries birth chart. Its interesting to see how that energy manifests, for example where I use to live the countries mercury was in my 6th house and the people were very social (mercury) in my daily life (6h), constantly greeting each other and chatting, whether at the market or neighbors. (you could find the birth chart of the country online. You could also do a relocation chart. I also made a post on astrocartography as well) ✈️
wherever Mars is in the chart is where you need to stop bullshitting. You need to be assertive in those areas or it’s going to suck feeling unsatisfied at the end of the day bc you didn’t stand up for yourself. mars in the 6th house and you need to *kim k voice* get off your fucking ass and work. I’m kidding 😭 but with mars in the 6th house, don’t be afraid to be assertive in the work place, when setting goals with your body or working out, or just standing up for yourself throughout your daily routine, the day is YOURS so conquer it. Mars in the 7th house, and you need to be direct when you speak to people because when you’re not ppl are just gonna try to twist your words. Mars in the 1st house & sometimes ik it’s nice being humble and being the bigger person but don’t let people play with your accomplishments and image either. Mars in 8th house and assert your needs when it comes to sex and also the way in which you handle your finances. Mars in the 11th house *squints* do NOT LET people try to bully you, especially in group settings when they’re trying to show off so stand ur ground. Mars in the 12th house and do not allow people to project onto you and take their anger out on you, INTERRUPT THEIR ASS MID SENTENCE. You get the gist though.
wherever Venus is in our chart can also show where we are assertive but in a much more “diplomatic” way. This could be where we can silently take note until we have all the pieces together. It’s where we don’t reveal our hand. For example, Venus in the 7th house will watch for peoples reactions and word choice in their relationships. These are the people that can tell others to fuck off and still sound polite. Venus in the 8th house could see right through peoples bullshit and not let on a word but for sure the other person will FEEL it. Venus in the 1st house could be good at pretending like they’re a ditz in a way, like letting other people underestimate them only to then prove them wrong. Venus in the 4th house could make others feel at home, could make them feel comfortable enough to reveal their secrets. These are just examples/ thoughts.
during Aries mercury transits & mercury-mars aspects in transit you should be very careful with driving. One my friends got in an horrible car accident during a transit where Mars (accidents) was conjunct her natal mercury (cars). 🥺 she’s okay now though thank god. I've also got into an accident during a mercury-uranus transit in my chart but it was also during a mercury retrograde. If you have this in your natal chart, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t drive, just take more precaution, same with Pluto or Saturn in the 3rd house. Those with mars-Uranus should be careful when working with machinery, using knives etc, you can easily hurt yourself. I have a Mars-Uranus aspect and I use to work in a restaurant and the amount of times I was near close to chopping a finger off pls.
people with Gemini Venus and Mercury-Venus aspects will write the most beautiful and poetic shit and be like oh that? I was just playing 🤪 like Shut-up and publish the book please.
ppl with Venus in the 10th house could find that people love to take pictures of them or in events they tend to draw in attention, appearing in photos and not even knowing. They could also be very photogenic.
the planets you have in the 12th house can manifest its energy through your dreams. Neptune in the 12h and you could feel like you have dreams that predict the future or can send you warnings. You find hidden messages in your dream. Mars in the 12th house and if you internalize your anger throughout the day you could have violent dreams where you’re fighting and standing up for yourself. Uranus in the 12th house and as you’re falling asleep, you could suddenly have epiphanies. Moon in the 12th house and your emotions could be released at night, you could have dreams of confrontation with someone who hurt you emotionally. You could cry at night as well to release what you held in throughout the day. Sun in the 12th house and you think about how you want to present yourself at night, you lay awake and fall asleep dreaming of how you truly want to represent yourself in your daily life.
speaking of the sun in the 12th house I was reading a book called the 12th house by Karen Hanmaker-Zondag and I was blown away when she stated that someone with a sun in the 12th house could have had a father who was overshadowed or was talked badly about by the mother. In a sense that figure of authority isn’t quite clear in the household. It’s like hello? Whose the adult here? That made so much sense to me!!! I know someone with 12h cancer sun opposite his 6h cap moon and both the son and father are def intimidated more by the mother who puts her foot down.
^ with that logic, Saturn in the 12th house could represent a father figure as well that was talked down badly about the family or called a deadbeat or just been accused of being emotionally or physically absent. Moon in the 12th and your mother could have been talked about a lot. She could have been found intimidating and emotionally absent as well and could have clashed a lot with your father.
In the book, she also recommended that 12th house placements keep a dream journal, which sounds like good advice. She stated, "Insight into and understanding ones dreams can provide powerful support in everyday life. Also in any situation in which we are very relaxed and not under any stress -but receptive and free from the desire to do things- is a good opportunity for experiencing the power of the 12th house."
I think if you want to do some shadow work and reflection, focusing on the angular houses is important as well (the 1st, 4th, 7th and 10th house). Looking at your Chiron, Pluto, moon and Saturn placement can also provide you with a lot of insight.
Chiron might make us feel as if we are looking into a broken mirror, where we cannot see what others see. And the separation can be distressing. For instance, with Chiron in the 1st house & no matter how many compliments you receive and how many times you say "thank you," you feel like you don’t completely comprehend or realize the beauty or greatness they express about you. Chiron in the 9th house might make it feel futile to connect with your culture, religion, or spirituality, as if you will never know "the truth." Chiron in the 6th house could make you feel confined in your daily routine, as if the universe is making your decisions for you, despite the fact that you have complete control. With Chiron in the 4th house, you may be urgently attempting to restore the relationships in your home and with your family, but you may feel as though nothing will ever change. Wherever Chiron resides, we must be willing to view things differently, even if we are initially skeptical, weary, hurt, or disheartened. Just try anyway, as there is nothing to lose when confronting our deepest pains. We can only learn something from it. Chiron reminds me of the quote, "Face what you're most afraid of and you will be free." 🖤
Also, I've made a post on Scorpio through the houses, how other people can sabotage us & what we should keep private. But without a doubt, looking at the 8th house, where Scorpio is in your chart and Pluto, can also provide insight into our fears. Plutonians (Scorpio placements, 8th house placements, pluto aspecting personal planets) can be very good at self-sabotaging. Speaking from my sun-pluto aspect, sometimes it feels like "well, you don't have to ruin this for me because I will destroy it myself" energy, especially when I was younger.
cont: I try to note down ways in which I can redirect the energy by looking at the sign, the houses, etc. But sometimes, we just need to learn about what one thing means and start reflecting on it before learning how to cope more healthily. For example, 8th house in Libra, write down and reflect on your fears with partnerships and relationships and your image. Pluto in the 2nd house and what worries do you hold about your confidence, the way you assert yourself, and your relationship with your money. Do you feel like you have to be frugal? Or Scorpio in the 7th house, do you self-sabotage when it comes to your relationships? Scorpio, in the 3rd house, do you focus intensely on finding the more profound meaning in everyone's words that you forget what's right in front of you? Believe people when they show you who they are. Again, these are just examples of how it can manifest.
*these were all just random observations, ideas and opinions based on personal experiences. take them with a grain of salt as placements and aspects can manifest themselves in numerous ways.*
-rxmxa 🦋✨
💭My thoughts about synastry aspects💭
This is my personal experience in relationship and friendship with people!
🎵12th house synastry is a karmic placement. At first, you will spend a lot of time with each other and then this person just disappears from your life. Like it never happened. Also, it can mean that you often see them in your dreams. For me, it feels like this person understands you and you can show your true self without expecting criticism from them. It just feels like heaven and a dream that doesn't last long forever. But guys don't forget that the 12th house can represent your hidden enemies. Just be super careful when sharing your deep feelings and secrets.
💋Mars/Moon negative aspects can be really good, especially in sexual life but not in a relationship. You'll definitely argue a lot. Hurting each other's feelings and there may be a little jealousy :)
Mars person hurts Moon person's feelings. Sometimes Moon person may be scared of the Mars person. It also can mean physical violence. I'm sure that Mars person wants to have sex with Moon ;)
💦Moon opposite Moon aspect is such a good synastry in my opinion. Like there is a quick understanding of each other. I know that it's not perfect for EVERYONE but in my opinion, it works if you're determined to adapt or change. I'm a Pisces Moon and I like Virgo moon and other Virgo placements. For me, they're the most beautiful and kind people I've met in my life. Sending my love to Virgo placements.
💌Venus opposite Mars aspect I was Venus person and the other person is Mars. Honestly, I was so scared of this person because they were so aggressive and argumentative. I just didn't want to have a bad relationship with this person. Like never ever. I felt that I have to be more careful and mindful when it comes to this person. Because the aggression of this person is so terrifying and threatening to me. But maybe the reason is that they have moon mars opposition. Because it literally means emotionally expressive and violent. But right now our relationship is going well and I don't find them life-threatening. We sometimes talk to each other but it's on a very superficial level.
🔥5th house synastry is just about having fun with each other. Like it's so entertaining and awesome being together. Dancing and singing and having a great time. It's funny and enjoyable being with them because you are never bored when you're with them. And dating this person is like being in an adventurous fantasy book. You can try new things together but when something doesn't work out you'll just laugh at each other. Sex is gonna be fascinating and unforgettable.
💕Venus conjunct Descendant is a great placement in my opinion. You'll feel attracted to this person because this person has the same traits that you want in your partner. It means their personality and their looks are literally a perfect match for you. It gives me a lovely couple vibe. From my experience, I was just attracted to them but we couldn't have a relationship with each other. Because I always had bad aspects with Moon and Mars. Yeah, it's killed the connection and we said bye to each other. It was really hard to deal with it and left without any words. But if you have other good and harmonious placements then it's gonna be an amazing romantic love story.
🍀Mars/Saturn negative aspects in this synastry I was Saturn and he's Mars. You know this guy was so annoying and irritating like I just want to throw myself away. His behavior and actions were irrational and chaotic. Like Jesus Christ please save me from this person. I just can't stand near him and I always want to be away from this person. Like, don't touch me keep your hands away from me. It reminds me of being with a child who is constantly crying and annoying me.
Astrology Observations #2
After a long hiatus i'm back with a few observations I've made in the time I was gone. Hope you like it:)
🥀 Neptune in the 5th house may frequently get into a unhealthy one sided love if they don't learn to stop ignoring the red flags in the person their interested in. The presence of Neptune in this house makes you delusional towards your interest and blurs the line between love and obsession. It's the fact that yall chase after people who are obviously not good for you in the first place. Remember guys, reciprocation is very important in love and if you're not their number 1 then they shouldnt be yours either. My advice would be to stop making scenarios in your head and to take them for what they show you NOT what they could be. Learn to assert your boundries and stop romanticizing people who do the bare minimum you deserve better.
🥀 Pisces Venus and getting scammed by their own love interests smh. People who have this placement need to be careful with who they get involved with. My cousin had this placement and she was dating this guy from Australia who was trying to come to America. They were in a relationship for 5 years and when they got a court marriage he got the green card and ran away. So basically he used her for her own benefit and when he got what he wanted he left. Most men she got with ended up treating her so bad but they seemed pretty nice at first. That's what Neptune does. Wherever it's in your chart could be where you are taken advantage of and easily decieved so be extra cautious.
🥀 Mars in the 12th house have terrible sleeping schedules. They're the type to stay up during night and sleep during the day and then take their anger out on everyone because they're sleep deprived. This is me telling you right now to fix your sleeping schedule and even though you might find more peace at night humans are not nocturnal. Who knows y'all not getting the right amount of sleep could be the reason why you feel so depressed.
🥀 Capricorn moons when are you gonna stop running away from your emotions. Life would be so much easier if you just learned to deal with your trauma and forget about the expectations that your loved ones have for you. I know life is unfair to you and your parents dont give you the love you deserve, but that doesnt mean you dont deserve to be happy. It's hard for people to love you if you push them away. Having a crush on someone with this placement, if underdeveloped, is not fun especially if he's a guy because they dont understand their emotions and dont put effort to understand them either. However, these are some of the most loyal, hardworking, mature people I have ever known when developed. They'll make you feel safe and loved in their arms if the truly love and care for you. They're good people but just have a wounded innerchild, that's it. Deep down I know y'all are softies so stop hiding it. Not everyone is out to get you I promise . Also please consider therapy.
🥀 Lilith in Scorpio women give maneater energy for some reason. Its hard to explain but they have this allure to them that people cant resist. Ex- Beyonce, Anne Hathaway, Taylor Swift, Briggete Bardot, Vanessa Paradis.
🥀 Venus square ascendant people I swear your beautiful stop thinking you're ugly. Sometimes you guys dont see your own beauty and the effect you have on people. You have the ability to turn heads when you walk into a room, but you dont see that because of the unbelievably high standards you've set for yourself. You're beautiful but the way you percieve what beauty is, doesnt align with your appearance or reality. Maybe it couldve been because people always commented on your appearence growing up or you feel pressured by society. Remember that beauty is the eye of the beholder. Just because you think your ugly doesnt mean that you actually are, youre just not your own type.
🥀 Mars square Uranus combined with Venus/Moon to Pluto is the epitome of enemies to lovers in synastry. Its like you hate them so much but have this unbelievable urge to slam them against the wall and kiss them. That person will annoy the shit out of you but the attraction is always underlying there and it gets hard to ignore. If you wanna a healthy relationship though, I would steer clear from this synastry because its toxic.
🥀 Lilith in the 2nd house/Taurus are what I would imagine a material girl to be. They love luxury things and will find a way to get what they want if they set their eye on something. Also they might get a certain job or enter a career just because it pays well. They're pretty hedonistic in general and love sex or anything Taurus/Venus related. Alot of the women here have nicely shaped bodies and lips even if theyre on the skinnier side. However, they could have eating disorders and body dysmorphia.
🥀 Leo Venus are so cute you guys remind me of a little puppy begging for attention:/ The thing is, yall are too flighty for my liking. A guy I know liked 2 girls at the same time and one of them even like him back and she asked him out, but he said no because he like the other one more like dude??? The other girl even had boyfriend but still he said no. Then he had the audacity to complain about the fact that he's never been in a relationship before. These people are more in love with the idea and attention of love then actually being in a relationship. As a Capricorn Venus this placement is a red flag sorry.
🥀 Saturn square Venus in synastry is so sad to watch its literally right person wrong time as a placement. The couple I was talking about above had this placement and they didnt end up together because they liked each other at different times and everyone ships them too but it just never happened. The girl was the Venus and the guy was Saturn.
🥀 Virgo Mars are secretly little freaks and if they have aspects from Saturn it could be someone who's into bdsm. I met a guy with this placement and he used to call me master and ma'am. For some reason i could sense the sexual undertone in his voice but idk. Virgos in general are the definition of gentlemen/lady in the streets freaky in the sheets, so keep your eye on them.
🥀 Taurus and Cancer together in the big six gives major milf energy.
🥀 Capricorn and Virgo together in the big six gives dilf energy.
🥀 I hate stereotyping placements in astrology but damn Gemini Venus men are fuckboys sorry. My bestfriend has this placement and he told me he like 4 girls at once. Also he dated all of his best friends and while one of them was in a relationship he asked her out while she was dating the other guy. He got rejected but still. I think this applies to guy with a Gemini Sun though because I've observed that Cancer Sun Gemini Venus guys behave differently.
🥀 Leo risings are not as confident as youd think. People I know with this placement are super insecure and have a love hate relationship with their hair.
🥀 10th and 11th house synastry is seriously so slept on. If you want a ride or die lover go find someone you have this synastry with. Major power couple vibes.
That's all for today don't hesitate to give feedback:)
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