un/stable

sof / 30 / she/he/they / did system / audhd / madd *TRIGGER WARNING* this is a personal blog dedicated to our mental health, including uncensored talk of trauma & the symptoms that follows - stay safe ♡ primary is @lemmechangemyprimaryblog

[peanutgallerymemes]

all y’all mentally ill mfs safe here 🫰

[anti-willo-yohioloid]

Believe trauma survivors even if their trauma sounds "too bad to be true"

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[this-is-adultism]

As a reminder, July is disability pride month! This pride month, I want us to especially think of:

Those with long-term/worsened disabilities because of their parents telling them to just work through it/get over it/"it's not that bad"

Those with disabilities stemming from childhood abuse

Those who know that they're disabled or suspect such, but can't get it diagnosed or checked out because of their parents/guardians disapproving

Those who know/suspect that they're disabled, but won't be diagnosed or checked out because they're "too young"

Those who struggle in or had to drop out of the harsh and mostly unaccommodating school system because of their disability or disabilities

Those who were lied to or not told they were disabled growing up so they could be raised "normal"

Those who have their privacy and autonomy violated as a combination of being disabled and being a child, as both of those groups are seen as not deserving their autonomy

Those who are disabled or had their disability (or disabilities) worsened because of the school system pushing them too far

Those who feel that they can never be one of the "normal" kids and that they'll always be isolated because of their disability or disabilities

Disabled folks who don't know or didn't know much about their disability as a kid because doctors would only explain to the parents/caretakers and no one bothered to talk to you

All disabled children having to deal with the intersectuality of being oppressed by both ableism and adultism.

Happy disability pride month and please start treating children and disabled people with basic respect and dignity!! They are autonomous beings! Act like it!

[anti-willo-miku]

I love you systems whose trauma is considered “not enough” to form a CDD. Everyone’s stress threshold is different and whats traumatic to some isn’t to traumatic to others. You belong in this community, and it’s awful that anyone thinks they have to right to make you feel like you have to justify your trauma response.

I love you systems whose trauma is considered “too much” to be believed. Your experiences are real and deserved to be heard, and if you don’t want to tell you’re not obligated to.

[donniehaspronouns]

hey young queers. I need you to hear me when I say part of growing up is learning to not care. part of growing up as a queer person is learning to abandon online discourse in favor of a “who cares, welcome to the club” kind of attitude. I promise you, you will feel so much less stress when you stop the infighting over slur discourse and identities you think don’t make sense. adopt a “I may not understand but it has no impact on me” mentality I promise it will be so much better for your mental health.

[traaumaa]

[hauntingterrorof1999-archived]

[detached0l]

[exhaustedborderline]

[uredrunk]

[oldinterneticons]

[certified-silly-system]

“You’re like a different person”

[sickfrr]

[basedandfatpilled-deactivated20]

[catnippackets]

*intrusive thought occurs* mods ban that guy for at least thirty minutes

[unitedrussia-remade]

let’s talk about a ptsd thing that’s called sense of foreshortened future. i don’t see anyone ever talking about it here and i think that it’s important that people know that what they experience is nothing but another symptom of their mental illness.

So what is it?

Basically, sense of foreshortened future is a feeling or a belief that for some reason you won’t have a long and fullfilling life. You feel like you will die soon – or sooner than expected – and therefore you shouldn’t make any long-term plans. You try to avoid long-term relationships, you don’t have any career plans, reaching your birthday - hell, sometimes even managing to surivive the week surprises you. 

You feel like you’ll never have a normal life because you’re not only broken beyond repair but also can’t trust anyone anymore. It is an incredibly depressing feeling that makes you feel like there’s no point in… anything, really? Every activity becomes dull and pointless and you don’t know what drags you though life at this point.

I know it won;t make the feeling go away but I want you to know that this feeling is NOT a reflection of reality. You’re not broken beyond repair and you will have a normal happy life if you work on your recovery. making plans is not pointless. You deserve to be happy and you will be happy. Don’t let PTSD and its symptoms convince you otherwise.

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