at some point your need to be understood becomes pathetic you are not the main character in a book who can present a neat narrative of your behavior to everyone you meet and know you don’t need to offer excuses and explanations to everyone you know you don’t owe them that you can just be and they don’t all owe you that much time and energy to consume and remember that whole narrative either. I do think this is why social media becomes additive bc it’s taps into the desire to be seen and understood but it’s not going to work like you can lay it out so perfectly and someone will still be like tl;dr and I hate your stupid face and then you’ll just feel even more rejected













