Actual Feminist

Inuk Actual Lesbian Pro-Woman

[female-positivity]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH TO ALL MY LOVELY LESBIANS AND BI WOMEN 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

[marys4]

PLEASE stop demonizing pr05titution when it’s actually been done since forever and maybe start allowing women to do it in safe conditions?

By making it illegal you’re just making it incredibly dangerous

So many SWers say their clients are way more sweet and respectful than men in society, don’t try to fool us claiming you’re against SW because you worry about women

What’s so scandalous about women having consensual s€x and having (for once) clear remuneration for it?? Oh wait, nvm thats bc you just prefer when they’re submitting to you and have no advantage in fvcking your ugly d!ck

Because yes, heterosexual s€x is a lot about remuneration since men and women don’t have the same role in society, if you think s€x is only about love and it’s just beautiful and mystical you have been fooled, it’s actually a great representation of our society

[inukradfem]

If the small minority of women who do prostitution because they want to have to quit, get another job, and download Tinder to have casual sex instead of getting paid for it to protect the majority of women who aren’t there of their own free will, I’m 100% ok with that🤷🏾‍♀️

Also “so many SWers say their clients are way more sweet and respectful than men in society” I would really like a source on this.

[marys4]

I’m really sorry i’m not sure I understood you

For the source, you can look up King Kong Theory by Virginie Despentes and Slutshaming by Ovidie! But it’s about women who work for themselves and not a pimp, and not because they need sw to survive, that’s another topic of course.

[inukradfem]

You are saying that there shouldn’t be any laws regarding prostitution because some women enjoy having sex. This is a small minority of prostitutes and like other jobs, the vast majority are doing it to survive. However, having sex because you need to survive is a form of coercion and coerced sex is called rape.

I am saying that I don’t care if those women can’t do prostitution. They can go on Tinder and find people to hook up with if they love having sex so much. Because the majority of women in prostitution are vulnerable, desperate women who don’t want to be there. I’m ok with a few women feeling pissed off if it means protecting the vulnerable majority with laws that criminalize buying (not selling) sex.

The works you’ve suggested are written by rich, white, French women, which to me is about as relatable as somebody living on the moon would be. I know the experience of a prostitute because by sister was one. And she did it because she was a drug addict and prostitution is the quickest and most accessible way to get money for a fix. Any man who has sex with a woman clearly strung out on heroin and itching for her next hit isn’t exactly what I’d call “sweet” and “respectful.”

[krasnoarmeyets]

under my totalitarian regime being a housewife will not be allowed. you WILL become an accomplished scientist

[marys4]

PLEASE stop demonizing pr05titution when it’s actually been done since forever and maybe start allowing women to do it in safe conditions?

By making it illegal you’re just making it incredibly dangerous

So many SWers say their clients are way more sweet and respectful than men in society, don’t try to fool us claiming you’re against SW because you worry about women

What’s so scandalous about women having consensual s€x and having (for once) clear remuneration for it?? Oh wait, nvm thats bc you just prefer when they’re submitting to you and have no advantage in fvcking your ugly d!ck

Because yes, heterosexual s€x is a lot about remuneration since men and women don’t have the same role in society, if you think s€x is only about love and it’s just beautiful and mystical you have been fooled, it’s actually a great representation of our society

[inukradfem]

If the small minority of women who do prostitution because they want to have to quit, get another job, and download Tinder to have casual sex instead of getting paid for it to protect the majority of women who aren’t there of their own free will, I’m 100% ok with that🤷🏾‍♀️

Also “so many SWers say their clients are way more sweet and respectful than men in society” I would really like a source on this.

[mutant-distraction]

Source: Carol Uminski Rose

[claudias-diaries]

"The oldest profession for women is prostitution" Get the fuck away from me you rape ape

[loserdogma]

The way this line gets dropped constantly when it’s been shown that the oldest profession is actually midwifery…poetry.

[inukradfem]

The saying that “prostitution is the oldest profession in the world” comes from a short story by racist and imperialist Rudyard Kipling supporting the British colonization of India.

[comphet-critical]

it’s that simple

[rosieandthemoon]

15th-century ruins of Kilchurn Castle, Scottish Highlands

[wetlittlebeast]

I bet there’s an ancient magic hotspot I need to investigate there

[purplevibesss]

[coffeeeandbaileys]

[seagullgal]

sex work fans love to ask you to compare prostitution to other jobs but refuse to compare it to other types of sex. if you take away someone’s food and say you’ll only give it back after a blowjob it doesn’t sound very consensual does it?

[leftistextradorinaire]

I mean, take away someone's food and tell them they have to stand in a target and get yelled at doesn't sound very consensual either

[seagullgal]

do you have other people’s bodily fluids inside of you while standing at target?? do the people yelling at you at target get to penetrate you?? do you have to suck off the people yelling at you at target??

[leftistextradorinaire]

being spit on and slapped by customers is pretty bad.

Im just saying, your analogy is bad and your stance is bad. Actually promote enforcing the rape and trafficking laws we have. If all porn and sex work is done illegally and women never willfully go into porn and sex work, then enforcing rape and sex traficking laws will end porn and sex work.

You're mad at a symptom, and like yeah be mad women are raped and traficked, but get mad and try to change the system. Adding more laws to outlaw sex work, which in most countries is already illegal, doesn't solve the systematic issue. Adding more laws that men aren't going to enforce solves nothing.

Enforcing the already existing laws, holding men accountable for their actions, and changing the justice system to actually punish these criminals is the way to go. If that completely eliminates sex work and porn, i'd be happy. If it doesn't and women freely go into sex work and porn, i'll be happy.

[spoonbread5]

Body Autonomy is a full sentence TERFs refuse to speak.

[seagullgal]

Hi, I notice a lot of people have a lot of assumptions about what I believe. I believe in the nordic model (where the prostituted women are not prosecuted but the johns and pimps are) combined with programs and protections for prostituted women to help them get out of the sex trade. In many countries, prostitution is fully legal, such as Germany, the Netherlands, Australia, and New Zealand. In many cases this has increased human trafficking due to traffickers presenting their victims as legal prostitutes.

I agree with you that capitalism is the root of many evil, and would consider myself a marxist feminist. However, I can acknowledge that prostitution is unique among types of exploitation because it is rape. Coerced work is a problem, but coerced sex is rape.

To address the bodily autonomy comment, I strongly believe in bodily autonomy, which is why I am against all forms of rape, paid or otherwise. If you are not free to say no, due to fear of hunger or homelessness, your yes means nothing. Therefore, prostitution is a violation of bodily autonomy rather than an expression of it.

Also, what’s with the terf name calling? Trans people are also often victims of the sex trade. I support programs to help them get out and lead better lives too

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

Me on hearing about exploitation in the clothing industry: ok I have the money to buy ethically made clothing so I’ll do that

Me on hearing about Barry Callebaut’s use of child labour: well damn, I really liked this local chocolate company but they make their chocolate out of the child labour cocoa so I gotta say goodbye

Left wing men on hearing that the industry where they get to pay to stick their dick in a woman or girl who otherwise would not want to have sex with them is rape: well ackshually a customer yelled at me one time so I should be allowed to rape women and children

[seagullgal]

sex work fans love to ask you to compare prostitution to other jobs but refuse to compare it to other types of sex. if you take away someone’s food and say you’ll only give it back after a blowjob it doesn’t sound very consensual does it?

[leftistextradorinaire]

I mean, take away someone's food and tell them they have to stand in a target and get yelled at doesn't sound very consensual either

[inukradfem]

There’s a word for sex without consent though isn’t there?

[leftistextradorinaire]

there's a word for forced work. There's multiple words for being forced to work without pay. It's almost like all work is exploitative and the problem you have is sex work is you think it's immoral and think adding more laws to ban it will change anything when we don't already enforce rape and sex trafficking laws.

If enforcing those laws leads to sex work and porn ending completely, i'll be happy. If it leads to women willfully doing it, then i'll be happy. The problem isn't sex work, the problem is the system protects men and lets rapists and sex traffickers walk away scot free. America is led by a pedophile and you're mad at the people at the bottom benefiting from a system created by the the pedophile in chief. Fix that systematic issue and all your issues with sex work go away because men will actually face repercussions for rape.

[inukradfem]

You just want to prioritize men’s ability to get off over the safety and well being of vulnerable women. Some things should never be for sale.

[leftistextradorinaire]

that's fine if women don't want to sell their bodies, they don't have to that's why im against rape and sex trafficking. But crucial, i think a woman can do whatever she wants to do and if that is having sex for money or filming sex for money she can do that.

But to safely do that OR to safely eliminate the industry we need to go after men that have created and benefit from this system.

We disagree about sex work, that's fine we can debate if that industry needs to exist or not later. Right now, we need to address the patriarchy and how to change the system so we can stop letting men get away with rape

[inukradfem]

Most prostitutes aren’t doing it because they want to. They’re desperate women with no other choices.

[everythingfox]

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[seagullgal]

sex work fans love to ask you to compare prostitution to other jobs but refuse to compare it to other types of sex. if you take away someone’s food and say you’ll only give it back after a blowjob it doesn’t sound very consensual does it?

[leftistextradorinaire]

I mean, take away someone's food and tell them they have to stand in a target and get yelled at doesn't sound very consensual either

[inukradfem]

There’s a word for sex without consent though isn’t there?

[leftistextradorinaire]

there's a word for forced work. There's multiple words for being forced to work without pay. It's almost like all work is exploitative and the problem you have is sex work is you think it's immoral and think adding more laws to ban it will change anything when we don't already enforce rape and sex trafficking laws.

If enforcing those laws leads to sex work and porn ending completely, i'll be happy. If it leads to women willfully doing it, then i'll be happy. The problem isn't sex work, the problem is the system protects men and lets rapists and sex traffickers walk away scot free. America is led by a pedophile and you're mad at the people at the bottom benefiting from a system created by the the pedophile in chief. Fix that systematic issue and all your issues with sex work go away because men will actually face repercussions for rape.

[inukradfem]

You just want to prioritize men’s ability to get off over the safety and well being of vulnerable women. Some things should never be for sale.

[silky-selkie]

[iceyrukia]

The number of likes this had jfc and these are men that walk amongst women. And the men are like “lol look at women just seething and not proving men wrong!!” and even some women agreeing saying there are stupid women like this. Like do they not understand that men just post things like this in order to invalidate rape victims in general, look at the bigger picture. Men will latch onto one or two women that they claim to know that acted foolish whilst how many women are subject to men’s sexual violence globally??? Men care more about their petty dating failures than women who get raped and killed because women’s lives mean nothing.

[inukradfem]

KAM

[seagullgal]

sex work fans love to ask you to compare prostitution to other jobs but refuse to compare it to other types of sex. if you take away someone’s food and say you’ll only give it back after a blowjob it doesn’t sound very consensual does it?

[leftistextradorinaire]

I mean, take away someone's food and tell them they have to stand in a target and get yelled at doesn't sound very consensual either

[inukradfem]

There’s a word for sex without consent though isn’t there?