Submissive Soul

Female submissive (30's) with dark, masochistic desires. Trust, consistency & aftercare are my non-negotiables.

[histhoughtslately]

[viviennevividly]

[whipmaster1980]

[theshadowdominant]

What should the submissive do and say during this?

- Firstly, trust your dom to know what’s enough.

- Embrace the pain. If it’s punishment apologise during it and thank him. If it’s just because he needs to be dark encourage him.

- a great thing to do for a sub during this is tell the dom why you feel so lucky to have e him. List off his great traits and the things about him that draw you to him.

#TheShadowDominant - August 2026

[irish-submissive-soul]

Being whipped or caned across the back like this is such a sharp type of pain that you feel through your bones. Despite being a masochist, this type of pain is not designed for her pleasure or to satisfy her need for pain - it's to allow her the opportunity to show him how much she trusts him and to fulfil her desire to serve and endure for him.

When he is finished hurting her, he will keep her tied in position just a little longer and bring in another sub to kneel between her legs and lick clean her dripping pussy.

[aesthetic-ds]

[trainfordiscipline3]

Her place. His power

[lifeofitsownme]

[irish-submissive-soul]

More.

[aesthetic-ds]

[irish-submissive-soul]

The comfort that his presence provides.

[masterxdanx]

[naughtythoughts3sblog]

[irish-submissive-soul]

A favourite.

[invisibleofdreams]

[irish-submissive-soul]

Do you need to be calmed down or being taught lessons?

Calmed down.

I usually get this just by being in the presence of someone safe and steady, who I feel I can trust.

If my mind is really spiralling about something in particular, it helps to be put in my place more harshly and the outcome of that will calm me because it will take all of my attention from whatever's going on in my head, to focusing on enduring whatever pain he wants to physically inflict on me.

[fortheloveofasubmissive-deactiv]

“Just be still. Stop your perpetual motion. Calm your racing mind. There is nothing to be done, no tasks to perform, no others to care for. There is only you, in my arms, in this moment, right here, right now.

So pause here a while and remember who you are. Remember your place. Remember your purpose before me. Sink into that deep inner well of surrender and release yourself from your self. Just be.

Mine.”

~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2013

[irish-submissive-soul]

Perfect.

[masterstrainingroom-deactivated]

[irish-submissive-soul]

The commitment when going all-in.

[kame-abi-lia]

[remanence-of-love]

[free-my-mindd]

[irish-submissive-soul]

I don't actually like the idea of hurt my fuck toys in order to cause pain.... I live to force them into doing what they really wanted to do all along. Thoughts?

I think it's just a specific type of sadistic Dom that wants to cause pain to their sub, rather than it being a common Dom trait.

It's the type of Dom I tend to be drawn to most because taking physical pain, from someone who feels safe and controlled, is probably one of my favourite things I enjoy in a D/s dynamic. It's catharthic for me.

But I wouldnt want it from a Dom who didnt enjoy hurting me. The desire for this type of play needs to be mutual in my opinion.

[black--armor]

Shall we be?

[irish-submissive-soul]

The hard spanking only served to make her very wet and needy for Master to use her further.