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01/16/21

just journaling and enjoying my iced coffee ✨

it’s currently my semestral break, and i’m just relaxing. lately, i’ve been watching kdramas and reading books. aaa it feels really good to just chill and not worry about deadlines!! i’ve been resting since new year, but today i finally decided to start my new journal and register in some online classes ♡

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my new purchases — some stationery + this super cute glass ✨ i guess this is kind of like a reward for myself for finishing the semester yay (although i’m not officially done ahsjdkd). one more paper!!!!!

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02/23/21

i started redecorating and cleaning my workspace in preparation for the upcoming semester! just figured that a cleaner and brighter work area would help me cope with this new sem. i always struggle during the first weeks ahdjdkd, so i’m channeling my energy here for now. really loving the new tapestry i bought tho aaa, it’s so cute!

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03/15/21

currently preparing for a graded recitation ⚡️

tbh, i haven’t been managing my time very well these past two weeks :( i’m planning to change that tho!!!! i’m really trying to gain better study habits this sem. also aaa, i just wanna say thank you for 2,000 followers! will def try to be more active here ♡

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just dropping by with a random assortment of pictures from the last semester 😗✌🏽

hello hello!!! still remember me? just realized that it’s been months since i updated my studyblr :< guess i was too drained and sad to post last sem asdfjhfhfk, i wasn’t doing well at the time. right now i’m 2 months into my semestral break, and i just took this time to rest and recuperate. anw, i hope you’re all doing well aaaaa <3

some (random) life updates:

-i turned 21!!!!

-i have officially finished my 2nd year of college!! i barely survived, but it’s okay lol

-became a university scholar for the past two semesters!! i’m really happy with how my grades turned out.

-i’ve been getting more and more interested in video editing and animation

-also got into thai tv shows and artists lately yay

[ ps. yes that’s my dog in the first pic :> i don’t even remember why i took this bc it’s been too long since these pics were taken ahshsjkaa ]

#repost #old posts!#feeling sentimental tbh

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— early morning feminism

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10/9/21

Day 4/100 days of productivity

Hello everyone!! Meet with Sinba, he is beautiful right? He wanted to join today’s study session (He is checking my notes in the photo haha)

I’ve been working on my writing lately. I am sorry if it doesn’t looks “aesthetic” but you need to know i am trying my best…

I’ve completed my all task and homework’s today i need to do a revision Im going to make it tomorrow morning so probably It’ll be fresher. There is a word quiz next week on Monday. I almost done with word list. I just need to do more practice with making sentences by using words. I really want good point for this exam. I won’t be stressing about it. In my first quiz i was so stressful and it failed so don’t stress, trust yourself if you really well prepared you can do anything! You have the potential ❤️

Please read book more, more and more, read before you sleep read right after you wake up and read when you are even resting.🤍

Good night to everyone! don’t skip resting, sleep well for being more effective in your day.

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I haven’t felt so peaceful in a long while… it’s amazing how much good weather and some solitude can do for a person.

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09.04.21 | it’s finally the weekend… but it’s prelims week 😭 I feel abused since yesterday. the lectures and exams are non-stop. I hope most of you are having a nice weekend 🥺🌤

last photo: a cute plant my sewing lady gave me, but my dog ate it 😭 RIP, plant.

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I’d divorce him too lmao

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It’s never JUST about the tomatoes.

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Basically!

Throughout the day, partners would make requests for connection, what Gottman calls “bids.” For example, say that the husband is a bird enthusiast and notices a goldfinch fly across the yard. He might say to his wife, “Look at that beautiful bird outside!” He’s not just commenting on the bird here: He’s requesting a response from his wife—a sign of interest or support—hoping they’ll connect, however momentarily, over the bird.

The wife now has a choice. She can respond by either “turning toward” or “turning away” from her husband, as Gottman puts it. Though the bird-bid might seem minor and silly, it can actually reveal a lot about the health of the relationship. The husband thought the bird was important enough to bring it up in conversation and the question is whether his wife recognizes and respects that.

These bidding interactions had profound effects on marital well-being. Couples who had divorced after a six-year follow-up had “turn-toward bids” 33 percent of the time. Only three in 10 of their bids for emotional connection were met with intimacy. The couples who were still together after six years had “turn-toward bids” 87 percent of the time. Nine times out of 10, they were meeting their partner’s emotional needs.

Those who showed genuine interest in their partner’s joys were more likely to be together.

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“It’s not ‘natural’ to speak well, eloquently, in an interesting articulate way. People living in groups, families, communes say little—have few verbal means. Eloquence—thinking in words—is a byproduct of solitude, deracination, a heightened painful individuality.”

— Susan Sontag, As Consciousness is Harnessed to Flesh (via flaubrt)

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I’m ok. I’m gonna be ok. I’m gonna live a beautiful life and I’ll get to know beautiful people. I will create things of beauty and be surrounded by flowers. And I’ll love myself, and I’ll be soft, I’ll be kind. And I’ll be ok.