Influence. Course Capstone Final Draft
Daniel Guthmiller
Tyler Chadwick
Course Capstone
12/15/12
 Influence
            Everyday we are faced with decisions. Decisions about what we do, the way we act, the way we handle situations or dilemmas, and many other decisions about everyday life. Decisions can be handled in many different ways, from group settings to individuals deciding for themselves. Often times we have to make decisions in our everyday life that could or could not be the right choice. Many times we do not even realize the decisions we are making, or more importantly the reason why we make the decision we do. Every person has their own opinion, their own reasoning, and their own logic for making the decision they do, but the factor many people don’t realize is that the decisions they make are most often influenced by society in one way or another. From billboards, television ads, street signs, and even the people, we surround ourselves with, they all play some part in the role for influencing our decisions, and personally I think, it is for the worst. Society surroundings can have a negative influence on an individual’s decision.
           Negative influences are more than just a part of our culture; they are a part of life. This is not a new issue; there have always been influences that affect our decisions. Take the story of Adam and Eve for example; the snake was the malevolent influence on Eve. It tempted her into eating the forbidden fruit. That decision did not only affect her, but every other person ever created as well. Influences are created by our own minds, our own personal wants or needs. More often than not, we know when we are making a bad choice yet we listen to the temptation and follow through with the peer pressure created by society. For example, in George Orwell’s story of “Killing an Elephant,” we read about a man who was a police officer of a small town where an owner’s elephant had gotten loose and rampaged throughout the town. As Orwell describes the situation, he was searching for the elephant, and as he was doing so a crowd of the townspeople began to ambush together and follow him. Orwell was not a well-valued man in this town, so he was looking as this job of capturing the elephant as an opportunity to gain the liking and respect of the townspeople. When the time came to capture the elephant, the crowd was chanting with rage for Orwell to kill the elephant, however Orwell himself knew that killing the elephant was not the right choice. Yet the peer pressure was the negative influence from the crowd that caused Orwell to kill the elephant even though he knew it was wrong (Orwell, 2012). He was negatively influenced by society, just like most of us so often are.
           I think the bigger question that needs to be answered here is why we choose to listen to that negative influence. Often times, individuals respond to fulfill these negative decisions because we look for fulfillment from our peers, we want people to like us so we listen to them even when it is wrong, and also in some cases we don’t even know it’s wrong because it is so prevalent in our society with certain situations. Take social media and entertainment for example. Media has been taken to a whole new technological level, and with that came a whole new level of negative societal influences. “This highlighting of the media is a negative effect on society. They satiate the people’s hunger for trivial information and rumors. They create buzz by hyping the issues with flowery words and provoking descriptions. Controversies are created left and right to get the attention of people” (Negative Influences, 2012). Media is a part of society, is it created by the suppliers and demanded by the consumers whether it’s right or wrong. There are shows on television that send out bad messages such as teen mom, which I believe presents individuals with the idea that they can have a baby just because they want to and not think about the real consequences or difficulties associated with raising a child. Or other show’s about rich people living a fantasy life that many of us will never live. I don’t believe that causes people to strive for more and be a better person. I believe that promotes negative behavior and jealousy. Jealousy might be one of the biggest contenders in playing the role of negative influences. Jealousy is an emotion, emotions are the reason we listen to negative influences, if we didn’t have emotions we would purely use our logical sense and never make mistakes. “We focus on the emotion, and the stimuli that triggered it. It becomes amplified in our minds, and so, at that time, our reaction to it almost seems rational, because it is the only information we deem important enough to process. This subsequently motivates our behavior in a variety of ways” (Wright, 2012). This statement accurately describes the reason as to why we listen to the negative influences that surround us.
People, friends, family, our peers, they are the people who play the biggest role as influences. We listen to them because we want them to like us, or we want to please them so we are willing to make decisions, even ones we know are not right, simply to make them happy. Being selfless and not selfish is one thing, but making a malevolent decision to do it is another. Peer pressure is another term for negative influences; peer pressure can be good or bad, however, and in most cases it is used for the worse. Peer pressure is most often used as a negative influence because many people don’t usually need to be peer pressured into something they want to or something that is right. When I think of peer pressure, I think of someone being tempted to do drugs or commit a crime by a group of people. Groups most often take advantage of peer pressure on an individual because they have strength in numbers. If ten people tell one man that he should do something even though he knows it is wrong, he will most likely do it anyways. Not because he wants to, but because he was influenced by his peers and in order to please and/or gain acceptance he must do what they want.          Â
The strength of a negative influence varies from person to person. By that I mean some people are more subjected to falling into the peer pressure rather than others. People are less likely to be influenced by negative influences if they have a high self esteem, good positive outlook on the future, good social skills, a strong positive family connection, and the ability to interact with people from many different backgrounds (Human Diseases, 2012). People who are more likely to fall into peer pressure are people with a low self esteem, have family problems, strongly identify with only one ethnic group, and are afraid of fitting in with other people (Human Diseases, 2012). Yet no matter what the case, many people simply cannot avoid it. Regardless of who you are, what you are doing, or whom you are with, there will always be negative influences.
Negative influences also vary from gender and age. “Peer pressure is felt most in about eighth or ninth grade. Level of self-confidence, individual personality, and degree of maturity, will all play a role in determining whether or not we give in to peer pressure” (Teenage, 2012). Age definitely plays a major role in how we let negative influences affect us, mainly because of maturity levels. Negative influences are most successful at affecting us in the teenage years because that is when we first learn to begin to understand the need or social want to fit in (Teenage, 2012). The teenage years are when we begin to develop our self-confidence and form groups or friends that influence our lives forever. That is not saying that adults cannot be influenced by negative choices. Adult’s choices can be much more harmful because more often than not adults have much more serious decisions to make than teenagers. Decisions don’t just affect the person making the decision, they affect everyone around them. Negative influences and decisions affect everyone.
Decisions are personal, they are decided by each and every individual by himself or herself, but along with every decision comes influence. Negative influences and peer pressure are prevalent in so many aspects of our lives. Many times we don’t even realize what the decisions we make and how we were influenced into making it. We are only human; the need to fit in with society and be accepted is hard wired into our brains, as stated in an online article about how our emotions affect our behaviors (Wright, 2012). Unfortunately, so many times the only way, or what seems to be the only to fit in is to do what other people want us to do, whether it is a bad or good decision. Negative influences are not ever going to go away, they always have been and will continue to be a part of our society. People will be manipulative, lying, hurtful, and deceitful. The bottom line is that people know the power they have by using peer pressure and negativity to influence individuals and they will continue to have control over other’s decisions using negative influences.
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 "Negative Influences of Media on the Society." Influence Guide. N.p., n.d. Web. 08 Dec. 2012.
 Orwell, George. "Shooting An Elephant." Trans. Array Reading Culture. Diana George and John Trimbur. 8th Edition. New Jersey: Pearson Education, Inc, 2012. 503-08. Print.
 "Teenage Peer Pressure And Being Influenced | Project Pride USA." Project Pride USA RSS. N.p., n.d. Web. 08 Dec. 2012.
 Wright, Mackenzie. "How Do Your Emotions Affect Your Behaviors?" EHow. Demand Media, 14 Nov. 2008. Web. 08 Dec. 2012.











