i don't relate to you, cause i'd never treat me this shitty

"if i loved you less, i might be able to talk about it more"

[itissobadass]

goodbye tumblr

hello everyone lades and gays! it's probably a surprise to see me here since i've deserted since 2023.

2023 was probably one of my hardest years and tumblr was still an escape but also i was quite detached from it. 2024 was better but 2025 was a turning point. i really changed my priorities and now in 2026 it's time for me to move on.

don't get me wrong, my blog and tumblr in general were my safe space and still are but i was living my life too much on internet, i wasn't socializing that much and it took a toll on me, this online life. it's been almost three years since i've been really invested in tumblr. i used to love to reblog the met gala, it was one of my favorite events to follow in here. and i dropped it. my heart wasn't in here.

let's be honest my life isn't perfect. but it's much better. i'm way more implicated in life, i started going to center helping me with my mental health as well as still going to my therapist in town. i go out. i'm no longer suffering from an eating disorder. i'm making plans to travel. i see my sister and friends more. i'm happy the way i am.

and let me be real, tumblr taught me a lot. i made great friends who i love dearly. i educated myself and i would have never became a militant, a feminist, an antiractist & antifascist, a protector for the lgbt community as younger as i was if it not had been for tumblr. it's a extraordinary platform to be on. it made me the fangirl i am and i will always remember reacting on the game of thrones finale or eurovision or the death of queen elizabeth those moments of pop culture that will never leave my head. tumblr made me overjoyed, happy, part of a collective. it will alway be my fave social media, even if i'm more on twitter and youtube and instagram. tumblr was lovely and still is.

but i'm 30 now and i have a different life. i'm more busy. but know i will always be proud of that community and that we've created. i'm letting go now but this blog and my 1D sideblog and the bond that we have will always remain imprinted on my heart.

so goodbye folks. it's been the time of my life. :)

[itissobadass]

me: what if my attraction to women is fake

me too: my erotic dreams are 95% focused on women and their bodies

[itissobadass]

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[itissobadass]

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[seldnei]

Okay first of all what is wrong with Kim Kardashian’s waist? Can she even eat? And secondly, did she top that gown with a $20 shrug from Old Navy she bought during Covid?

[lees-chaotic-brain]

does anyone else remember that monstrosity simone biles wore to the met gala in 2021?? genuinely still cackling about it

[bitchyfop-deactivated20240705]

i dont understand fashion i never have and that's totally cool its not for me

that being said zendaya looks incredible holy shit

[monicaalexandraaa]

Very underwhelmed by Kim and Kylie’s looks. Don’t love / don’t hate Kendall’s but it being archive Givenchy that’s never been worn before is a hit in itself.

Sooooo sad with Dua Lipa :((( it’s a mess!

Emma Chamberlain, Madelyn Cline, Zendaya, SJP, Mindy Kaling and Dan Levy are stunning !

Jury’s still out on Taylor Russell’s and Lana’s but the more I look at both the more I don’t mind them.

Was expecting so much more from Ari but really like Cynthia’s

[no-thats-absurd]

every year i have an idea for a met gala look that i swear in my head it would slay

[babygirlracing]

why is no one telling camilla cabello that her boob tape is showing.. haters lmao

[neon-persimmon]

I can’t explain this but lizzo looks a bit like she’s in the Cats movie

[sirenscall1031]

Cardi is giving sexy Ursula, I absolutely love this gown on her like OMG the vibes. How many people have to carry that up the stairs

[jugglingjujube]

I want to like Cardi B's dress but it's just kinda ...

[annacsblog]

and Rihanna? where r u girl?

[scudevils]

the audacity to not even show lewis walking the carpet. WHO do you think you are vogue???

[levnter]

to be fair...I can maybe see the vision in terms of the theme. the old timey (ish) suits kinda work for the garden of time theme, like I imagine them being aristocrats lounging in their fancy gardens in the 40s or whenever?

[gibsongirrl]

mike faist you’re lucky you have an insane face card