LoveWithDistance

Never give up on something you really want. It’s difficult to wait, but it’s more difficult to regret .

[itsalovewithdistance]

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Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations.

[itsalovewithdistance]

I've been with my now fiancé since 2012 and I want to make my tumblr a ldr page and show and support others because, oh trust me I know, how hard it can be and how lonely it is but I want to share my story and positivity, I'm now just turning 18 were celebrating with a holiday together and moving in soon, our families are now okay with us and happy too, I want to share that because it really can work, its the best thing ever, ❤️ I love hearing other people stories. have faith x

I’m so happy for you , you made it & i’m sure others can too. If you start your blog i’d be happy to check it .

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For how long you have been in a LDR?

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3 years got engaged last week and moving in in the next month, good things come in the end ❤️💍 worth every lonely day for the wait.

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For how long you have been in a LDR?

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More of a comment but here goes: LDR's are never easy. My boyfriend and I have been in one for a year as he started his first year of college and I finished my senior year of high school. He has been on the opposite coast but is coming home for summer in 15 days(!) and in the fall, I will be in the same state for my freshman year of college. It can be lonely, difficult and painful at times but it is possible to make it through! BELIEVE IT! MAKE IT HAPPEN! BECAUSE YOU CAN!

Good luck & thank you.

[itsalovewithdistance]

Hi! My love and I has been in an LDR since last month.. It's quite hard. But we're doing everything to make it work. :) trust and love is the major key here! Good luck on everyone who's on LDR! :) btw, we're both female! xoxo

Good luck & thanks.

[itsalovewithdistance]

This is more advice than question but to everyone out there in a LDR. It gets better. It may seem extremely terrible and difficult but once you see them/meet them it's all worth it. I met my girlfriend of 3 months for the first time last weekend and it was the best experience of my life and I just forgot about how the distance is a problem and started to focus on how we are going to be able to make it through. So to everyone out there just keep on keeping on until you finally get to be with them

Thank you.

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How do you deal with the physical aspect of your LDR? I know that at the moment I'm finding it super hard because I just can't hug my boyfriend when he needs it, and he can't hug me when I do. I just miss physical contact. Do you have any tips?

Just remind yourself that it’s all worth it at the end ,if you are meant to be you’d be i know no other feelong can replace the way he would make you feel if he was around but just be patient & try to call or skype whenever you feel you need  to see each other. keep in touch. best of luck.

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I'm falling for a youtuber. A couple of months ago I was on YouTube and I saw a few videos from this guy. I left a comment and followed him on IG 'cause I thought he was really cute. He followed me on every social net. I have and he started talking to me. He says he already has a crush on me and he would love to take me out on a date and he wishes I was there with him. We are not in a relationship and we haven't talked about that but we text every day and he's sweet to me and i am to him (1/2)

Your case is kind of different as he is known but as long as you feel comfortable with him & you like him you should open up to him & give it some time to see if you can both lead a relationship ,try to video chat to get to know each other more . Good luck.Keep in touch.

[itsalovewithdistance]

No matter how painful distance can be, not having you in my life would be worst.

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Hi! My LDR boyfriend's parents are getting a divorce and I don't know how to help him. He says he isn't upset by it but I honestly think he is. I'm over 6000 miles away from him so I can't physically be there for him. How can I help him? Thanks! <3

Listen to him & be the one he needs in his ups and downs , it doesn’t have to be physically to make him feel better, as long as he is in your heart i’m sure you will find the right things to say , simple things are the best , trust me ;) keep in touch

[itsalovewithdistance]

You said yours was LDR from the start...how did you tell your parents and were they okay with it?

it’s been almost two years but i haven’t told my parents yet.

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(UK, CA) My girlfriend and I have no way of meeting for the first time. She hasn't told her family about me and I lied about telling my mom. I don't have the money and her parents wouldn't allow her to come to visit even if they knew about me

Probably you should wait sometimes till you both can find a way to meet , being in a ldr is complicated so if you think it’s worth it , be patient , stay honest and brave to each other . Good luck , keep in touch

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I just started following you and I want to tell you that its really helping me put a new perspective on things. My boyfriend live in America, I am from Australia. We met over the internet. It wasn't an initial click -I actually kinda hated him- but as I got to know him I fell in love. We've been together for over 2 months now and everything was good at the start but lately we have been fighting a lot, I think its because we are so far apart. Is this normal or any advice?

It’s normal , i’ve been there and still actually , just don’t make the same mistakes we did and trust each other first and try to look at things from both sides also don’t forget that you can’t see him and he can’t either so you should both be understanding and if any problem comes up try to solve it. keep in touch :)

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What's the easiest way to tell your parents about your relationship? My mom always freaks out about people you meet on the Internet.

Honestly i haven’t told my parents about my relationship either so i’m not sure if i can help you here , but try to make her understand that not all the people we meet online are fake and show them that you trust him and you are sure of what you are doing. Good luck , keep in touch .

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