Someone asked me: What is love?
I said it was a glimpse of ten thousand years, it was shocked; it was caught off guard, it was a deer bumping into it.
At the same time, love is also a "game" between you and me, and a "strategy" of step by step.
Of course, the game and strategy here do not mean that you can play tricks and routines, but know how to cleverly apply some methods and skills to open the door of love and let this relationship continue to heat up.
For example, if you want a man to remember you, you can learn to ask these three questions cleverly.
Ask him what to do
Most fulfilling?
San Mao once said:
"Men, 80% of men of that type have only two things in their subconscious minds: self-esteem and vanity. It is easy to get a proud man to stand up and sit down if you can grasp this psychology."
The self-esteem and vanity of a man, to put it bluntly, is to save face.
Therefore, when you ask him, what he does is the most fulfilling thing, in fact, it is to give him a reason to show his achievements in front of you.
Whether it is his success in his career, or what he has done particularly great things in life, it is his pride.
When he tells you these things that he is proud of, if you show admiration and admiration for him at this time, then his self-esteem and vanity will be very satisfying.
In fact, men are sometimes like children and need to be coaxed.
He shows off his achievements in front of you, and the child shows off his little red flower in front of you, essentially the same.
Smart women know how to give a man face and let him be an indomitable hero in front of you.
Moreover, the more you praise him, the more you will make him feel that he wants to maintain a tall image in front of you, so that he can work harder to make himself better, why not do it?
As this sentence says: The best love is when he pets you like a child and you admire him like a hero.
Ask him when he is unhappy
What do you like to do?
Everyone will have a bad mood.
When we are alone, we are all used to hiding our emotions, licking wounds silently, and healing ourselves.
But in fact, who doesn't want a warm embrace to rely on when the saddest time is the most sad; a voice can be relieved when the saddest time is the most, the same is true for men.
So, might as well find an opportunity to ask him what he likes to do when he is unhappy?
Listen to him carefully and keep it in mind.
Next time, when he is unhappy, he will take the initiative to accompany him and do what he wants to do with him.
It can be a big drink with him, a good meal with him, or a few drinks with him, listening to what he says in his heart.
It can be to play a game of basketball. Although you don't have to go to the court to accompany him, you can wait for him off the court and cheer him when he scores a goal.
At this time, he will feel that you are special and attentive, and his love for you will double.
As Jiang Xun said:
"In a moment of desolation, what he needs is you to hold his hand tightly, hug his shoulder, and act like a baby with him."
It is true that when a man is unhappy, it is actually his most vulnerable time.
At such a moment, the person who accompanies him is the easiest to enter his heart.
Ask him in his life
When is the saddest stage?
No one's life is smooth sailing, everyone has the darkest moments.
The most painful years, the hardest days, will be deeply imprinted in everyone's memory.
Maybe he doesn't mention it usually, but if you are willing to listen carefully, he will also open up to you.
So, ask him, when is the saddest stage in life?
From his story, learn about his past and share his sadness.
And, remember to tell him seriously after he finishes saying: Everything is over, now and in the future, I will be with you.
He will definitely feel that you are the person who understands him the most in the world, and you are also a person who can make him confide in his heart.
Have seen such a question:
"What is happiness?"
One answer agrees very much:
"Some people believe in you, some people accompany you, some people wait for you, some people love you, and some people understand you."
Being understood is the happiest thing in the world.
So, muster up the courage to ask his past events and share his painful memories.
Let him know that no matter what the wind, frost, snow and rain will happen in the future, if you walk together, you will be happy and beautiful.
Regarding love, I like this sentence very much:
"Looking back on the road three thousand, a few years have passed. Then I realized that if I am a wanderer, you are the world."
After rushing to the world for decades, what we are after is only an understanding, a hug, and a return.
Therefore, if you really love him, remember to take the initiative, and be bold to button his heart, be his lover, and be his confidant.
