Ruby Sparks (2012) is a fascinating exploration not only of the dangers of control when exerted in a relationship but also of the dangers of control when writing or creating, convincingly portraying the truth that once something has been created, even if you created it yourself out of thin air, you owe it a certain amount of flexibility to be itself or the entire endeavor becomes sick and twisted. It also explores the unhappiness that afflicts the one exerting the control almost as much as the one being controlled. It is one of the most unsettling movies I’ve ever seen in my life and it haunts me to my core. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.











