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The other day I heard in a podcast that the ب in bismillah means ‘with’ the name of Allah instead of the way it’s normally translated as ‘in’ the name of Allah. And that distinction really changed things for me. I’m finally starting to feel like by saying bismillah before doing a thing, I’m actually involving Allah in that thing, and beginning with Him.
The leaking bucket
Beware of the leaking Bucket!
1.You take the best wudhu but waste a lot of water (a leaking Bucket).
2.You pray all of your prayers in time but you have no khushu (a leaking bucket).
3.You post reminders and have thousands of followers on Instagram and Facebook but you’re doing it for the fame not to please Allah (a leaking bucket).
4.You help others but you’re doing it to gain something from them and not doing those acts of kindness for the sake of Allah’s Glory (a leaking bucket).
5.You give alot of sadaqah to the poor but you humiliate them and hurt them (a leaking bucket).
6.You stand up for tahajjud at night, fast, read Quran every day and obey your Lord but you cut your family ties (a leaking bucket).
7.You are very kind to people and speak with them gently but with your family you are always harsh (a leaking bucket).
8.You fast and have sabr for the pangs of hunger and thirst but you swear, insult, curse (a leaking bucket).
9.You wear abaya and Hijab but your perfume is strong (a leaking Bucket).
10.You are following the sunnah and have a beard but you don’t lower your gaze (a leaking bucket).
11.You honour and treat your guest well but when he/she leaves you gossip about him/her and talk about all his/her flaws (a leaking bucket).
Do not gather all your good deeds in a leaking bucket. You struggle to fill it whilst it easily runs out through the leaking holes!
May Allah guide us to the right path, make us do all of our good actions for pleasing Him alone and by Your mercy be pleased with us always Ameen.
I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.
I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.
Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.
As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Every day, for five years, I chose her a little less.
I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.
Choosing her would have meant focusing every day on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.
Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.
I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.
Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.
She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you. To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that. I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her every day, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.
Actually, I did abandon her.
By not fully choosing her every day for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.
Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.
I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.
It’s torture for everyone.
If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question: “Why am I choosing my partner today?”
If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”
If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.
But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them every day.
Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Every day. You do, too.
Choose wisely.
“if you can recall us long after i am gone with a smile on your face, a twinkle in your eye, and joy in your heart, know that i am at peace.”
— Noor Shirazie
“The deeper the wound, the more private the pain.”
— Isabel Allende, Paula (via books-n-quotes)
“It’ll be weird seeing her again. It’ll be like revisiting a memory that you thought you’d forgotten. Her hair will be longer, or shorter, her hair will have changed; hair always does. Her eyes will be the same. Hearing her voice will be like going back to the place you used to live and noticing the new curtains. Being close to her will be strange. She’ll say something like, “you look well,” and you’ll reply with a, “thanks, you too.” And it’ll feel like death, like an iron fist around your heart. And then she’ll point to your shirt and say, “is that new?” and you won’t have the heart to say you bought it seven months ago after she left, so instead you say, “I haven’t worn it around you before.” When she emits a small laugh you’ll feel the tiniest ounce of pride. She still finds you funny. When she’s telling you about her new life you’ll find your mind wandering into places you didn’t think mattered anymore. Places like, was she in love now and was she being treated well? Places like, did she ever miss you, and in and amongst all of her living did she ever consider coming back?”
— Sue Zhao
Despite all the trauma and drama that occurred between you and a loved one, which made you end up as strangers, with grudges - Appreciate all the good they did for you.
We tend to forget that once upon a time, they were exactly what we needed them to be. And for that alone, forgive them and honor them.
"أكثر ما يطمئن روحي أن الله يعرفني، يعرف من أكون و يعرف كيف أبدو من الداخل و يعرف كل جوانبي، هو في قلبي و معي.“
The most reassuring thing for my soul is that God knows me. He knows who I am, and He knows how I look within, and He knows all of my aspects. He is in my heart and with me.
hang in there.
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yall know so much about astrology
We’re all just making shit up as we go
yall know so much about astrology: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo we’re just making shit up as we go: Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Pisces
wheres capricorn
Wheres capricorn: capricorn
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A Letter: “For you when the world gets heavy on your shoulders.”
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