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I dont think anyone should ever have to hide their relationship over being scared of a few mean comments. Nasty comments could easily get bypassed if op & joey posted each other in stories instead of actual posts. Everybody and their dog already knows who joe is in love with so atleast one or two reposts of supporting and promotinf his gf podcast in his stories shouldnt be that difficult. opinons on tumblr would make you think that everybody hates olivia but i think most of joes casual fans have no issues with her. You see on tt/x/reddit one or two mean comments op gets but the majority really are supportive..

I do agree that most casual fans probably don't have any issue with Olivia. Reddit seems to have shifted a lot over the last year, those who have actually met always have nothing but lovely things to say about her and the average fan at games generally seems supportive or simply doesn't care.

Would I like to see Joe publicly support or repost something she's proud of? Yes, I think that would be a lovely gesture . But I also understand why they might choose to keep their relationship mostly offline.

Where I disagree is that it's only "a few mean comments." It's gone well beyond that from a small group of very parasocial people. Someone has threatened to shoot her, there are people who repeatedly camp in her comment sections, and we've seen coordinated efforts to flood her comments and other people's comments with abuse.

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when olivia said she was joes employee instead of friend or a girlfriend thats when i thought she had signed an nda that dictates that she cant say out loud that shes dating joe.

I think it was a panicked reaction because they were just causal not like she could blurt that out

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Did Olivia like a Bengals post I can’t see it

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I’m 50/50 on the NDA sometimes I think she did and it lapsed and other times I think no she didn’t sign one

People have such strong opinions on it and it’s like imo the only reason why they pretend to care about an alleged NDA is so that they can say he is using to manipulate her and she doesn’t have freedom to post him which fits well with their narrative that he is a horrible BF

can they lapse?

Tbh None of us know whether an NDA ever existed, so I while I think she didn’t sign one I can’t state it as a fact and neither can those who claim one does exist. I do think people sometimes focus on the idea of an NDA because it fits the narrative they already have about the relationship. If one existed, okay. If it didn't, okay.

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She 100% signed some kind of NDA – BUT – that’s very normal for pro athletes and definitely not just something Joe would do or because she’s an influencer. It’s to protect not only their personal financial situation but their personal and private life and most athletes and celebs do it. You never know who might want to go off about something private if it ends badly – again, not accusing her of that, I know this because of the hockey world and those crazy boys, lol.

I know it’s very normal. I personally just don’t think she did

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The same people who called his private chef to ask if Olivia had been with him and filled up her comments are suddenly on their high horse about you posting a public photo from the account.

Yet if the chef had posted something that went in their favor they would be cheering from the rooftops about how even his chefs hate her, they’re hypocrites.

The standard seems to change depending on whether they like the outcome.

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Im sure justin and madison get the same hate ae joe and olivia but that never stopped them from posting their love for each other.. if joe wanted to post olivia on his page he could if he wanted to. Every couple in the nfl has haters unfortunaly that just comes with the territory of being famous.

I understand that, but they don't owe anyone public posts about their relationship. Just because other celebrity couples choose to share more doesn't mean Joe and Olivia have to.

Would I love to see them post each other? Absolutely. But that's not my decision to make, and it's not anyone else's either. If they're happy keeping that part of their relationship private, then that's entirely up to them.

At the end of the day, every couple has different boundaries. Some enjoy sharing their relationship publicly, while others prefer to keep it mostly offline. Neither approach is right or wrong—it just comes down to what works for them.

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i dont understand why joe refuses stand on the red carpet next to olivia. He has no issue being more public with her when it comes to the pap walks and fanatics fest yet he continues to be stubborn posing at events with his girlfriend.

he’s not a standing on red carpets with family or GF kinda guy. he stood on one red carpet with OH and he only did one photo with his parents at the NFL honors

this old lady has appeared the same amount

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What are they doing with her passes any limit

I’m sorry, I’m not sure what you mean by this

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People play so much on Olivia but don’t look at her own navel, I hope she never posts a photo with him, because how much they annoy her talking about this relationship, that makes me afraid of what can happen, I’m sure that if one day she posts, they will say that artificial intelligence. Or if he posts something with her, they will say that she took his cell phone to post

I understand not wanting them to post each other because of the hate. Look at her comments section in the last few days and the obsessed haters who spend every minute waiting for her to post. And they’ve already said they’re going claim it’s AI so it won’t be a surprise if they do

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Please talk more about Joe stuff not just Olivia and Joe

No thank you. 🩷

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I will never understand why some liberal fans on tumblr and other platforms hate Olivia so much. Shes a liberal that hates trump, pro lbgt, has liberal parents that help immigrants settle here and she consistently donates all her pr packages to charity you would think they lwould be less critical of her.

Im a joe/ bengals fan but there is a clear bias grace double stand thats obvious, despite the fact that he has met trump twice and his parents are proudly maga, that i believe is due to him being the talented famous althete compared to the so called called lazy influencer.

She'll always be the "enemy" to people who don't want them together. She stays out of the spotlight around his career and doesn’t post the relationship for all to see but for some people that still isn't enough. criticism has never been about her actions—it's about the fact that she's his girlfriend and they can’t stand that because they still think they have a chance with him if she ain’t around

As a Joe fan the double standard pisses me off like as if he didn’t attend the same wedding as her. I HATE that he met with the orange turd twice and that he did the podcast with those maga pricks, going to watch that ra**** mcgregor and don’t even get me started on the Bosa brothers who have a distinct orange stain around their mouths but all of these things he did independently from her but your right she will always be the “lazy” influencer to his football god status.

it’s just football fandom in a nutshell always blame the girl

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All off this is just my opinion and it isn’t a dig at OH before people lose the plot

The problem is that when OH posted Joe she gave them access to his private life but when OP came around the access went away. She will post a little here and there drop a hint they’re together but she will not post anything big she won’t give them full access to their private life. So they scream he is controlling her and she isn’t allowed to post him. feigning to care about how she needs to find someone better because she can’t post him when in actuality she will post when she wants to.

Gone is the good boy that never existed who stayed at home with his GF building Lego and here is the real Joe who goes to Hollywood parties and hangs out with celebrities. He was going Hollywood when he was with OH not taking her to white party was the start of the end for them.

I don’t think she gave them “access” to him she just let people into her life and he was part of her life at that point. but it’s a lose lose posting Joe. Even OH wasn’t immune to the abuse if she did post him she got angry and misogynistic comments and if she didn’t post him people constantly wondering if they had broken up.

they fill up Olivias comments now with abuse and she doesn’t even post him imagine if she did, so I agree when she wants to she will

I don’t think he is necessarily “Hollywood” but I do think he likes the lifestyle without being fully in “Hollywood”

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I'm also apart of that small group that likes joe and olivia as i do think shes harmless and not an evil person people make her out to be otherwise joe wouldnt be with her. Her fans and haters have mixed opinions and thories about why she deosnt post or talk about him despite being togther for three years. In my opinion i think if they make it to 2027 then she should be free to say and post his name.

In your honest opinion do you think in the beginning of the relationship olivia signed an nda given to her by joe which is why she still can't talk about their relationship?

in my opinion there is no NDA

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She needs to block people in the comments some of them have crossed a line

The obsessed parasocials gleefully dance across that line everyday. Thinking they are doing a service to society.

she lives rent free in their heads

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I haven’t been on for a few weeks because people have been pissing me off but people are still in denial and running with the she is stalking him. I don’t even like her but come one it’s obvious they are together together

the she is stalking him fantasy they have made up in their heads is still well and truly alive

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They still think your Olivia. Like how many times do you have to tell them.

Me and Olivia aren't even in the same time zone.

I think people have become so used to seeing negativity directed at her that they assume anyone pushing back must secretly be her or her team. Sometimes it's just people who are uncomfortable with the level of hostility and misogynistic language directed at someone they don't know. That's all it is.