this is your song;

I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND THAT I PUT DOWN IN WORDS, HOW WONDERFUL LIFE IS NOW YOU'RE IN THE WORLD. ♥ WHERE AM I?: INVITIS.

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I didn't think I would ever be in shape for the summer!

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THIS IS ME (JACKHARKNESS) MAKING A PLEA FOR YOUR HELP. 

Before I start straight into the begging (which is basically what I’m doing), I feel as though I need to introduce myself to my new followers and those reading this as it’s passed around. 

My name is Marie Warfle and I have recently lost my father, Ralph, to a 23 year battle with multiple cancers. I was his caretaker for the last 15 years and he was my main source of income. Now that he’s passed, I am left with financial burden and unable to find a job as immediate as I would need to … to be able to pay the bills that I have to in his absence. I am a proud person and hate to beg people, perfect strangers, for financial help, but these are dire times. 

I am in the process of looking for jobs and looking to my state government offices for help, but in the interim, I need a little help. 

So please — any little you can give will be a major help. But I won’t let you donate and not leave with something. I don’t have much to offer but I can offer you what I know how to do. If you donate, please inbox me at imissmybird and choose one of the following: 

Graphics (as many as you like, of whatever you like). Click here for examples.

Photosets.

Theme Remodels. Click here for an example.

If you would like to donate, click here and put in the email: [email protected].  

Also feel free to pass this around. Sorry if you see this several times, I just need to get the word out. Thank you in advance!

[invitis-archive]

Thank you to everyone who has helped so far. All of your help is greatly appreciated. I’m passing this around once more for those who weren’t around the first time. I appreciate everything ahead of time. xoxo.

[imissmybird]

Once more, I thank all of you for your help. For those who have requested things, I will be getting to them, I promise, things have just been really hectic.

I changed my electric into my name today and now they want a $260 ‘one time’ security deposit which is what i have in my savings right now. So any other help you guys can provide would be amazing. And I’ll be forever in your debt.

[jackbarkness-blog]

THIS IS ME (JACKHARKNESS) MAKING A PLEA FOR YOUR HELP. 

Before I start straight into the begging (which is basically what I’m doing), I feel as though I need to introduce myself to my new followers and those reading this as it’s passed around. 

My name is Marie Warfle and I have recently lost my father, Ralph, to a 23 year battle with multiple cancers. I was his caretaker for the last 15 years and he was my main source of income. Now that he’s passed, I am left with financial burden and unable to find a job as immediate as I would need to … to be able to pay the bills that I have to in his absence. I am a proud person and hate to beg people, perfect strangers, for financial help, but these are dire times. 

I am in the process of looking for jobs and looking to my state government offices for help, but in the interim, I need a little help. 

So please — any little you can give will be a major help. But I won’t let you donate and not leave with something. I don’t have much to offer but I can offer you what I know how to do. If you donate, please inbox me at imissmybird and choose one of the following: 

Graphics (as many as you like, of whatever you like). Click here for examples.

Photosets.

Theme Remodels. Click here for an example.

If you would like to donate, click here and put in the email: [email protected].  

Also feel free to pass this around. Sorry if you see this several times, I just need to get the word out. Thank you in advance!

[invitis-archive]

Thank you to everyone who has helped so far. All of your help is greatly appreciated. I’m passing this around once more for those who weren’t around the first time. I appreciate everything ahead of time. xoxo.

[jackbarkness-blog]

THIS IS ME (JACKHARKNESS) MAKING A PLEA FOR YOUR HELP. 

Before I start straight into the begging (which is basically what I'm doing), I feel as though I need to introduce myself to my new followers and those reading this as it's passed around. 

My name is Marie Warfle and I have recently lost my father, Ralph, to a 23 year battle with multiple cancers. I was his caretaker for the last 15 years and he was my main source of income. Now that he's passed, I am left with financial burden and unable to find a job as immediate as I would need to ... to be able to pay the bills that I have to in his absence. I am a proud person and hate to beg people, perfect strangers, for financial help, but these are dire times. 

I am in the process of looking for jobs and looking to my state government offices for help, but in the interim, I need a little help. 

So please -- any little you can give will be a major help. But I won't let you donate and not leave with something. I don't have much to offer but I can offer you what I know how to do. If you donate, please inbox me at imissmybird and choose one of the following: 

Graphics (as many as you like, of whatever you like). Click here for examples.

Photosets.

Theme Remodels. Click here for an example.

If you would like to donate, click here and put in the email: [email protected].  

Also feel free to pass this around. Sorry if you see this several times, I just need to get the word out. Thank you in advance!

[justloveskdramas]

Last season, which in TVD’s timeline is last night, Stefan made a choice to let Elena die. You can harp on all you like about how it was her choice, at the end of the day it was his too. Rightly or wrongly, he let her die. It was a huge flipping deal. Or it should have been. It should have been the impetus for some actual tension in Stefan and Elena’s relationship. It should have been the impetus for Stefan to look at his life and his choices and for Elena to look at hers. But who was I kidding thinking that? After all, Stefan being a Rippahhhhh! had exactly no consequences. Kills Andie, nobody speaks of it again. Almost gets Jeremy killed and doesn’t give a shit? Shoves his blood down Elena’s throat and threatens to drive her off the same bridge where her parents died? He’s the best choice Elena ever made. The entire lack of consequences that have flowed from last season is just dazzling. The fact that Stefan gets to be the white knight again in this episode? Frankly makes me want to puke. STEFAN ALWAYS GETS THE BEST BITS, YOU GUYS. Like why in the name of god was he the one who gave Elena the daylight ring Bonnie made for her, in an episode in which Bonnie almost died trying to save Elena? Stefan would probably piss me off 50% less if he’d just stop muscling in on moments that rightfully belong to other characters. Like, remember that time Alaric died and he used it as an opportunity to get back into Elena’s emotional pants? Yeah.

Rophydoes, 4x01 recap {x} 

(via alwaysdamonsalvatore)

[reviewscentral-deactivated20160]

As much as we fight sometimes, this is one of the reasons I like the Klaroline fandom

Delena fans - majority only cares about Damon and Elena

Stelena fans - majority only cares about Stefan and Elena

Beremy fans - majority only cares about Bonnie and Jeremy

Forwood fans - majority only cares about Tyler and Caroline

Klaroline fans - majority cares about Klaroline, Klefan, Kleforoline, Steroline friendship, Rebekah, Elijah, Kol, Katherine, Kalijah, Bonnie, Kennett ,Matt, Mabekah, Matt and his new mansion and basically any one or thing who doesn’t mess with our ship and is sassy ( looking at you Sassy Stefan).

Yes there are a few characters the most of us can’t stand (cough- Elena-cough) but for all the talk about our fandom being batshit insane ( which we are) we’re also more welcoming than most of the other sub fandoms in TVD. Hell most of us even like Tyler although we hate Forwood.

I used most and majority because we all know every fandom has its bad apples, there are some days when I’m the bitchy bad apple of the Klaroline fandom and I fully accept that ;)

[jackbarkness-blog]

You're forgetting the Dalaric, Dalijah, Klefan fans who think their boys should leave the women behind and have one massive orgy. 

You mad?

[sassyblondbitch-deactivated2025]

When Klatia fans hate on Caroline

I’m sorry your ship only exist in Elijah’s tales and Youtube. I’m sorry that Tatia never showed her doppleface while Caroline is one of the main characters. I’m sorry that Tatia is always a bitch in fan fiction but maybe because she’s a doppleganger and dopplegangers are known to be stuck up hypocritical bitches?

[jackbarkness-blog]

What are you twelve? How mature of you.

How do you know that Tatia is a bitch? Just because Elena and Katherine act like stuck up bitches? Tatia had to be something special if both Elijah & Niklaus fell in love with her.

And Tatia is written as a bitch in fanfiction -- aka written by fans. Unless it's actual canon that she was a bitch, this opinion is irrelevant to your argument.

Tatia wasn't a DOPPELGANGER. She was the person the Doppelgangers were copied off of. Doppelganger means COPY. So calling Tatia a doppelganger is -- who is she a copy of? HERSELF?

[serfborts]

I HATE Damon Salvatore

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SO YOU'VE MASTERED HOW TO CONTROL WHO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH? 

Oh man you're awesome. Tell me how. 

/sarcasm.

[jackbarkness-blog]

dear teen wolf fandom.

JUST BECAUSE HE POSTED HER USERNAME DOES NOT MEAN YOU GET TO ACT LIKE YOU ARE PERSONALLY VICTIMIZED. SO STOP CLOGGING THE TAG AS THOUGH YOU WERE PERSONALLY VIOLATED. 

We all saw the pictures, what she did was wrong, the pictures shouldn't have been posted and all that jazz -- but I don't think he should have posted her username. He has a right to be pissed, but posting that was a big fucking douchebag move and I hope he's proud of himself. 

Because what he's done is make you all think it gives you a right to diss, talk down and threaten someone who made a mistake.

You think she's shamed the fandom? Wow, there's a mirror, go look in it.

[jackbarkness-blog]

When someone defends you, it's customary to be thankful.

Lesson learned.

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madbadrose replied to your post: just mun ramblings.

*hugs* i know its hard and awful right now but remember to ask for help, and though it doesnt seem like it, you will get through it. hang in there.

-hugs- Thank you. That's the thing I have trouble with. Asking for help. I inherited that from him. But thank you. <3

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doctorsmithy replied to your post: just mun ramblings.

Oh. Are you okay? Maybe should make plans with your mom? Im still rooting for him.

Not really. I'm trying though. I'm trying to get through all of my mourning and crying and panic. So I can get my things together for him. And I'm going to call her. I love you, you know. Just so you know that.

[living-with-a-cursed-mind]

[jackbarkness-blog]

just mun ramblings.

So dad is terminal. I think I just had to write that down somewhere. I mean, I know it now. The chemo is just to prolong his life and I know I have decisions to make and things to do. Dana put it the right way. Logically I know what has to be done, my brain knows what is right, but my heart wants my daddy to stay forever. But I know that can't happen. I don't want him to suffer and I think he's holding on for me. But I don't know how to say that it's okay, that he doesn't have to. 

And my main concern isn't what will happen to him. It's what will happen to me after he passes away. I have no job, no car, no money, no nothing. I don't know what to do. If I had those things, I'd be a little more calm but I don't and ... my future looks really frightening and one that I don't know how to live in without him to guide me. 

My nerves are shot. I called my primary about something for them or referring me to someone who can give me something. I'm shaking all the times, anxious and ... have even admittedly had a few minor suicidal thoughts. I would never go there, you see, but that's just what feeling hopeless and having nothing at my disposal after the inevitable happens will do to you. 

He's in the hospital again. His breathing isn't good. His white and red blood cell counts aren't good. I don't see him starting chemo at all on Monday. I don't know. I just can't even relax when he's not here. I don't know what to do. I need a distraction and ... I don't know. I don't know. 

[femmesdiaries-deactivated202011]

I hate that all those Damon-fangirls are so against Stefan. Stefan is such a sweetie, ofcourse he makes mistakes and is not the best character, but c’mon Damon isn’t the best either. So please don’t be so hard to him.

[jackbarkness-blog]

A lot of Damon fangirls are against Stefan because 90% of Stefan fangirls want Damon to die and make him the anti-christ. Look at your own stans before you start pointing fingers at Damon stans.