Why⊠why do people feel the need to talk about someone elseâs story. I donât understand the need to share what others people choose to confide with you . In my opinionâŠ.people really arenât concerns with what someone is going through. Theyâre just there to hear the story and mock, pass judgement etc. If someone confides in you as the person to share their story with then honor them with the respect of not sharing it without their knowledge. An by chance if you want to help them through the help of another person ask them if itâs ok to share their story at that time. Be that person, be respectful. Talking just to talk and sharing just to sharing is basically gossiping. People struggle with entrusting anyone with what they are experiencing in their lives. So many people suffer alone in silence when there are so many people that could possibly help them.