Nilsen / Dahmer vs. Meiwes
While Dennis Nilsen, Jeffrey Dahmer, and Armin Meiwes are all murderers who fed upon (or wished to feed upon) the remains of their male lovers, the latter of the trio stands out for a number of reasons. Below I will point out the similarities and disparities as I have noticed them. I will use the present tense as two of the three men are still alive.
• Both Nilsen and Dahmer are serial killers while Meiwes is not. While the definition of a serial killer has always been riddled with ambiguity, there is no arguing that Meiwes is a serial killer as he only claimed one victim.
• Meiwes required consent for his acts while Dahmer and Nilsen did not. Meiwes published an advert on a cannibal forum seeking a male volunteer. Dahmer and Nilsen never disclosed their intents to their victims beforehand, and their victims’ consent was not desired.
• All three served in the military of their respective home countries.
• Both Nilsen and Dahmer struggled with severe alcoholism while there is no mention of Meiwes having suffered any kind of substance abuse.
• Dahmer and Nilsen killed because they wanted companions that would not leave them. Meiwes had been entertaining cannibalistic fantasies since a childhood obsession with Hansel & Gretel (a Grimm’s Fairy Tale wherein a witch fattens two children up to eat them and they, in the original version of the tale, instead trick the witch into the oven). While Meiwes’ father did abandon his family, neglect does not appear to be a key motivator in Meiwes’ paraphilia.
• All three craved control over their victims.
• Nilsen and Dahmer performed sexual acts on corpses in addition to saving/eating their victims’ remains. Meiwes is not thought to have done so.
• Both Nilsen and Damer had close relationships with one of their grandparents. Dahmer was close to his grandmother and Nilsen was close to his grandfather. Meiwes, meanwhile, had a very formative relationship with one of his mother’s friends, a woman named Ulla.
• All three stored their victims’ bodies in their apartments.
• Both Nilsen and Dahmer were almost caught by the police. Dahmer was almost caught when victim Konerak Sinthomphone was able to escape his apartment and run into two girls who called the police. Dahmer was able to convince the police that they were lovers just having a disagreement. One of Nilsen’s victims woke up while being strangled and called the police, but the police did nothing, thinking it was a domestic disagreement as well. Meiwes had no such interference.
















