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[4millionnn]

she a slice of sweet potato pie

[4millionnn]

y’all were askin & her ig is okwintersnow btw✨

[thericene]

dang.

Daily painting 928

Buy me a coffee?

[asakira]

[leafsea]

[onceuponsirsstarrynight]

As a Dominant

I’m not going to discipline you by spanking you - you might enjoy that too much, and that would defeat the purpose. 

I’m not going to hit you - because violence only builds negative emotional connotations, lowers trust, and hurts communication. 

I’m not going to yell at you, or even raise my voice - because I need you to feel safe enough to confide in me; I need you to trust me enough to be vulnerable. 

No, I’m going to talk to you. I’m going to discuss what’s happened, and together we’ll find a better way to address your behavior (or mine). I’m going to be patient because great leaders care more about finding solutions, than they do about being right, or appearing strong. 

[southernsassysub-deactivated202]

I get a lot of messages from men of various ages who want to know about the Dominant lifestyle. My best answer: listen to men like this one: @onceuponsirsstarrynight

And these: @instructor144 @itsallprimal @1-sadistic-lover @the-faculty @southernsir @onelittlekingdom (by no means is this a comprehensive list)

Nobody’s perfect, of course, and you have to make your own way; but these are men whom I trust and respect and whom I’ve seen provide candid and solid advice during my time in tumblrland. -§§§

[the-quiet-dominant]

Ummm… you do know the back story of “once upon a make up bullshit” where he did all of these things without consent (and more) and was charged for the same…

[glitterish-pink]

[neyapmamgerek]

[t-rwrk]

You can watch Netflix while I suck on your titties.

[lickkabletits]

That would be so sensational 🤤🤤🤤

[shikamaruuuuu]

[mzzmoi]

[scorpiodaddi]

Love when you do this to me @trulybeheard

[traptacular-deactivated20180125]

[nickflyguy]

When she’s just happy to see daddy it’s a great feeling

[traptacular-deactivated20180125]

[nickflyguy]

When she’s just happy to see daddy it’s a great feeling

[melaninblessedwomen]

[6lacksoul]

dm for promos

[mega-classysassy]

[meinwatermelon]

[donisdope-deactivated20170218]

[6lacksoul]

dm for promos

[mrjcb]

Protect her. Lead her. Guard her.

It doesn’t matter if you’re five-foot-six or six-foot-five. It doesn’t matter if you’re skinny or fat. It doesn’t matter if you’ve got $1 or $1 million – there is a circle on the ground around where you stand. This is your land and your kingdom. Own it.

She should know that the moment she steps into your circle, she’s safe. She’s yours. When you touch her she can feel it, so touch her often. Direct her. Guide her. Lead her.

Put your protective hand on her back and let her feel the safety of belonging to you. When going through a doorway or into a building, or crossing the street, she’s constantly under your protection and guidance.

Grab her wrist and lead her where you want her to go. Physically move her body. Clear the path in front of her.

Tenderly put your hand on her cheek and look into her eyes. Tell her that she’s yours.

It doesn’t matter who’s around. Stop, look at her, and place your hand on the side of her neck. Give her a moment of total peace and solitude of knowing that she’s yours, no matter where you are and no matter what’s going on.

When you’re sitting next to each other, put your hand on her thigh. Grab her wrist and squeeze it tenderly. Hold the palm of her hand in yours and let her feel the warmth of your guardianship.

Inspect her body. Move close to her and brush her hair out of her face or loop it behind her ear. Look at her. Check her out. Stroke her cheek softly with your thumb.

Grab her hand and kiss it. Reassure her. Kiss her on her forehead. Kiss her on her cheek. Show her that you’re always watching.

Firmly grab a fist-full of her hair and look into her eyes, then look down at her lips. Rub her lip with your finger and gaze at her.

You don’t have to be in the bedroom to make love to her entire body. Show her that she belongs to you and that being at your side is her rightful place.

It’s difficult for us as men to comprehend what this really means to our ladies in their deepest cores, and it’s easy for us to underappreciate the magnitude of it. I’d love to hear input and different perspectives on this. And please feel free to add to this list with what makes you feel safe, whole, and protected.

[pleasure-explorer]

Never lie to her. If she’s yours, she’ll be able to handle whatever is on your mind.