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4millionnn

she a slice of sweet potato pie

4millionnn

y’all were askin & her ig is okwintersnow btw✨

thericene

dang.

Daily painting 928

Buy me a coffee?

asakira

leafsea

onceuponsirsstarrynight

As a Dominant

I’m not going to discipline you by spanking you - you might enjoy that too much, and that would defeat the purpose.

I’m not going to hit you - because violence only builds negative emotional connotations, lowers trust, and hurts communication.

I’m not going to yell at you, or even raise my voice - because I need you to feel safe enough to confide in me; I need you to trust me enough to be vulnerable.

No, I’m going to talk to you. I’m going to discuss what’s happened, and together we’ll find a better way to address your behavior (or mine). I’m going to be patient because great leaders care more about finding solutions, than they do about being right, or appearing strong.

southernsassysub-deactivated202

I get a lot of messages from men of various ages who want to know about the Dominant lifestyle. My best answer: listen to men like this one: @onceuponsirsstarrynight

And these: @instructor144 @itsallprimal @1-sadistic-lover @the-faculty @southernsir @onelittlekingdom (by no means is this a comprehensive list)

Nobody’s perfect, of course, and you have to make your own way; but these are men whom I trust and respect and whom I’ve seen provide candid and solid advice during my time in tumblrland. -§§§

the-quiet-dominant

Ummm… you do know the back story of “once upon a make up bullshit” where he did all of these things without consent (and more) and was charged for the same…