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[jinsa-frank]

Im a grown woman ya'll smh this shit was fine when I was 16 but I'm not about to do this well into my 50s like some other people, I'm still stanning bangtan I'm still army but this site is toxic as hell

[jikookandpenguins]

okay I'm here I've avoided this a long time but this needs to come out, I know you don't think you're a shipper because you just believe they're together and you question why others don't just know too but (1) you DONT know that they're together, they have not come out (2) even if they are do you realize you're potentially really harming them by trying to out them when they don't want to be?

I'm glad you got that out. We will agree to disagree. Have a great day!

[keeperoftinyarmy]

No matter the nature of their relationship...no one ships/supports jikook more than Jimin and Jungkook.

[jinsa-frank]

no ones saying shipping is wrong here I've been shipping Jimin and Jungkook literally for 4 years now but what I'm trying to get across is when you step into that territory of "I don't ship them because that's immature - I just KNOW their together" it becomes dangerous and I'm going to say it because no one else will : homophobic. and I know you're probably thinking how can thinking two men are together be homophobic? But let's be real here Jimin and Jungkook can flirt all they want and hug and kiss and whatever but they have not come out, and when you say things like you 'know' theyre together and no one can tell you differently and you tell others they should think that way that's straight up trying to out them. Don't tell gay people what is and is not going too far, why don't you guys try, idk, actually listening?

[jinsa-frank]

I'm really glad Homophobia is still alive and well

[et-ecce-mulier-deactivated20200]

Ummm this is sarcastic right

[jinsa-frank]

I just had to deal with some het bs, don't worry 😂

[et-ecce-mulier-deactivated20200]

Ahh I’m sorry that’s shit gllll

[jinsa-frank]

oh I've seen their racist bs too...

[jinsa-frank]

I'm really glad Homophobia is still alive and well

[jinsa-frank]

I'm a lesbian but I'm also a jikook shipper/supporter (whatever you want to call it they're the same thing), I want to talk about this if anyone's up for discourse or civil debate

[poopyheadandhoneybunch]

I'd like to talk about this but I'm unsure if I can since I am straight. I don't think I agree with the tweet but at the same time I dont know if I'm right. I think.. I can imagine where the person is coming from but then at the same time I'm like.. so what? It of course depends in what context someone says an idol is gay, is it a joke (like haha so gay *but we know I'm not serious bc he could never be gay ugh*) or is it meant as an insult... that obviously would be wrong. But if the person says an idol is gay bc they genuinely think that.. what does it matter then if the person themselves is gay or not?

[jinsa-frank]

Coming from a gay persons perspective I didn't think about straight people assuming sexualities in a negative way because that's what everyone does anyway whether you're gay or not even if you don't think someone is gay you're probably just going to assume by default that they're straight, but ever since I saw this tweet several weeks ago I've gotten this gross feeling every time I see a straight person go around commenting on Jimin's feminity or their size difference, I think because gay people have to deal with so much sexualization and fetishizing that we get defensive when those stereotypes come up because it all stems from that question that's become so normalized that even straight people recognize it "who's the guy and who's the girl?"

And another reason for this tweet getting to me is a lot straight people tend to get this sense of entitlement to peoples sexuality, they think its perfectly fine to assume someone's gay but they don't realize when they say things like that what youre doing is potentially outing that person and that is certainly not okay gay people take a lot of shit but outing someone is one of the worst things you can do - shipping is not outing but there is a line between shipping and saying "oh they're in a relationship I can tell"

[rachelca1]

I am straight but I just have an issue in general with people categorizing feelings by sexuality. We don’t say when a straight person gets flustered that they “straight panicked”. It’s just panicked. Why are we categorizing people when they show their feelings? If a guy seems to be attracted to another guy they use “gay” attached to it, when it’s just a person attracted to another person. I really believe in the broad idea of “love is love”. Is gay interactions, feelings, and love ANY different than straight or bi or other sexualities? I never liked or understood the necessity of the labeling of these reactions of adoration or love as gay this or gay that it just IS. For example, if two girls hold hands, do you call it gay hand holding? Whether they are gay, straight, in a relationship or just friends, why the need to attach gay to it. Do people just feel the need to highlight that there are gay people to the extent that they are attaching it to people’s interactions? There’s the politics and then there’s the actual people that they are using to tag the sexuality to. I don’t go around pointing out who’s gay and who’s straight either. It’s not for me to state. It’s the actual person, if they decide. I really don’t know what sexuality that JK&JM are or others for sure bc they haven’t said anything. I try to just state what I think which is that I DO believe that they love each other. But their are so MANY forms of relationships and sexualities, that I don’t presume more than that and throw around a particular sexuality at them whether it’s straight, gay or otherwise. I do see other shippers who DO love to shout in loud statements that these two are gay or straight. I I don’t agree with either bc it’s not confirmed by the actual boys themselves. My concern is that we respect the boys first. Let THEM come out on their own, if it’s even needed or any of our business. It’s not for shippers to do. I also won’t tell people of the lgbq+ community what to do. It’s just my two sense on this.

[jinsa-frank]

im not critisizing your point i think its well thought out, but things like "gay panic" and other jokes like that were made by the gay community because so many of us grow up with this idea that being gay is wrong and when we get a crush we panic because we have this underlying feeling that its wrong or that our crush will hate us and/or hurt us and that stems from how we were brought up, we make these jokes to bond with each other in our safe community but when straight people make these jokes they don't even realize where they came from or why we make them and that's damaging - that was the point of this tweet

[jinsa-frank]

I'm a lesbian but I'm also a jikook shipper/supporter (whatever you want to call it they're the same thing), I want to talk about this if anyone's up for discourse or civil debate

[everythingfox]

“He’s just trying to bring a little sunshine into your life”

(Source)

[jinsa-frank]

Jimin dragging Hobi across the room to show him a funny dance he made up

[jinsa-frank]

I miss @gaja-aegiya-gaja

[jinsa-frank]

I never really post about Yoon so here are the ways I (and probably most) relate to min jjang jjang man boong boong

And the ways I relate to the other members

[withyourblueflame-deactivated20]

B T S: THE GAME (insp.)

[jinsa-frank]

WHO kept this from me????

[jinsa-frank]

I used to be in a very serious relationship and whenever she backhugged me I used to cross my arms when I felt her about to idk why, it felt comfortable doing, but I was reminded of it when I saw Jimin start to when he felt Jk's hands on his hips

So I googled it. The most commonly known reason for crossing your arms is a defense mechanism, but in the case that its with someone your comfortable with and they're already hugging you from the back - it can mean you're trying to comfort the space on your body your "partner" isn't l. If Jungkook were hugging from in front his arms and body would cover Jimin but since its from the back Jimin needed to do it himself

Why does Jungkook hug him from the back then? That's actually a lot less complicated I found out, it just means that person finds the best way to protect you is to have all of you within their grasp and eyesight

[sjzip]

;-; seokjinnie

[mimibtsghost]

THAT TIME BTS’ SPRING DAY STARTED IN A SOAP OPERA AND BULLIED TXT’S SONG

| Cr twt Op txtproducers via I_Am_Spring_Day

[pinkmisspiggy]

oh to be a stage girl in the 30s sitting in my uncomfortable outfit, looking all feathered & positively dazzling in a dressing room packed with other feathered n positively dazzling ladies, sighing because my good stockings have ripped again & having another one of the girls touch the rip on the back of my thigh with tenderness before she tuts & says ‘that’s too bad, sugar. let’s see if i have some that will fit you’. oh to try on the same tights that have been on her legs & to have her say ‘the trick is petroleum jelly’ before she makes me wiggle them down so she can get out a tub of vaseline and make me shine from the waist down & then tell me we’re gonna be stars together one day and we don’t need anyone else but each other and for me to climb over all the snoring girls late at night to lay right next to her & hold her tender hands & say ‘yeah, ok, just me and you’

[jinsa-frank]

*soft gasp*

[jinsa-frank]

This has been my new background for a day and I don't think it can stay because every.single.time. I go to google something I get distracted by it and completely lose my train of thought about what I was going to search - learn from me, don't do this, its the medusa of lock screens

[pinkradical]

Imagine thinking that bi lesbians are not valid but straight men are ?

[jinsa-frank]

wtf is a bi lesbian?

[et-ecce-mulier-deactivated20200]

Yes I am equally confused

[jinsa-frank]

when in doubt 🚀