Neko Party in Eden!

30. Cis. She/Her Gray-ACE, Demi, BI. Neurodivergent. Art Lover. Black Lives Matter. Trans Rights! Women are amazing. My special interests are learning Japanese, cute felines and fluffy moths. Let's do something good! I will do my best to keep this blog SFW. I NEED FRIENDS.

[jinxylynx]

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[hungwy]

oh god im responsible for me

[stuffin-fluff]

Source | X

Yakul Beanbag from GUND

[imeverywoman420]

its actually funny how the horrors never stop.

[melisscan-deactivated20210423]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[how-the-feathers-have-fallen]

Sometimes I wanna start a movement where Europeans (like me) just a adopt an American as saving them from Hell™. Like Cas lifting Dean outta Hell

[grimeclown]

[0utoftouchthursday-deactivated2]

[jinxylynx]

They can kill you if they want to. Not even your money keeps you safe. Get the word out. Christianity is destroying the world.

[confusianity]

THANKS JESUS. 🙅🏽‍♂️ https://instagr.am/p/CNNWEtinrOw/

[pjlowry]

I agree with this statement 1000%. If someone tells you not to question something, our natural response should be to question the fuck out of it.

Asking questions should never be taboo, as that’s how new science and new discoveries are made. Questioning the status quo leads to progress, so those who don’t want us to question anything is against progress.

Not being allowed to ask questions isn’t science, its religion. Science should be allowed to stand up to skepticism, or it isn't’ allowed to be science.

Keep asking questions my friends,

PJ

[violette-thorne]

Tumblr is basically dead and this is my first photo post since the purge but I wanted to share a glitter shoot I did.

Photo by Atomic Cheesecake Productions

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[greysblues]

Mc Carol para a Elle View Brasil / Janeiro 2021

📸: Vivi Bacco

[hersatanicdragonmajesty-deactiv]

I’m tired of women’s moral ambiguity being interpreted as evil and men’s evil being interpreted as moral ambiguity.

[lovingepithets]

This hit me hard

[quasi-normalcy]

Pretty impressive that America has been at war for 20 fucking years and yet there have been essentially no anti-war films out of supposedly liberal Hollywood because it’s effectively impossible to make war movies without the consent of the US Military who only want to be depicted with jingoistic favourability.

[respectthefemalebody]

This response really stuck out to me, because I think it really illustrates the double standard of how we judge women and how we judge men.

Most people on my post about fathers are like “my mom is worse! Women are always worse!” and yet here we can see that this person downplays a father’s sexual abuse because he wasn’t as neglectful.

As if there won’t be a whole lot of sexual trauma to unpack? Clearly this person has learned from their own father to trade sex for favors, in that this person’s father only treats them better to “advance his sexual abuse”.

“Only a bit physical and sexual” like what a way to downplay that shit.

This is a good example of how people are just way more forgiving of fathers and way harsher on mothers.

[odykerain-deactivated20200609]

This reminds me of how on my old blog, where I had 10K+ followers, and I made a post when Father’s Day was coming up where I stated that it was okay to not forgive an abusive dad, that it was okay to hate your father, that it was okay to call him out for his abuse if someone were to guilt trip them for not giving their father a gift for Father’s Day. 

My close friend had made a similar post on Mother’s Day and gotten reblogs with thanks, with stories about abusive moms, with praise for having made the post and how needed it was.

I got told I was a piece of shit for not respecting fatherhood, that I was too harsh on dads, and stories like the one above about how mothers are always worse no matter how bad a father was and some that even said that if your father hit you, you probably deserved it, where as if a mother hit you, it was because she was an unforgivable piece of shit. I was told to delete the post. I was told to kill myself. I was told that I was just upset that my dad hadn’t “gone all the way” with me because “I wasn’t a pretty enough girl” (I was still IDing as a trans man at the time, no less) and that I probably deserved the various abuses that I’d gone through for being a “ungrateful bitch”. There were so many awful reblogs, anonymous messages left in my inbox, and direct messages to my account because I dared to insult fatherhood.

My friend was baffled that I got so much hate when she got hardly anything and nothing anywhere near as awful. It was a one hell of a wake up call and it was definitely one of the first things that got me to look at how we treat fatherhood vs motherhood a lot more critically.

[87352257]

Fathers get too much slack. It’s time for everyone to think critically about this and believe it or not you can do that even if you have a good dad.

[jinxylynx]

Patriarchy did this.

[technically-not-a-terf-deactiva]

I really hate those posts that are like “[insert sexist belief supported in the Bible] was mistranslated and is not sexist at all! God doesn’t actually think women are the origin of sin and all things bad. What it really means is…”

Like that’s great Susan, absolutely fantastic, but I don’t actually care if the word of God has been misinterpreted by a bunch of mysoginists and is not really completely evil because that doesn’t actually erase the material harm that Christianity has caused. How many girls have been alienated into thinking their entire worth is dependent upon their ability to bear children because of this religion? How many women think their entire purpose in life is to please their husbands because the Bible said so? How many women have been silenced, dismissed, and deemed as inferior because that’s just how God intended it? How many women have been raped in the name of Jesus Christ?

You can twist the words of the Bible however you want until it’s this fluffy cuddly religion accepting of all but that will never erase its history of terrorism and violence against women.

[godlesssuggestions]

purity is a construct made to shame you

[positivelyatheist-old]

"You're still culturally christian"

There is truth to this statement, but it is really shitty to say this to someone who is struggling with religious trauma. Saying they're "basically still christian" is telling them they can't escape, that they are no better than what abused them, and that is very anxiety-inducing. Like a lot of us know we still have habits from our christian upbringing, and we're trying to unlearn those things. We don't know which of our habits are toxic christianity, and it takes time to identify them and heal. The healing process doesn't take only a day or two, it's more like years. We tell ourselves we aren't christian as a way to tell ourselves that our trauma is not a part of who we are.