There are some things useful in new age, but more than not, a lot of it is charlatans accepting that the masses don’t want to fix their problems but an excuse to indulge in their poverty mindset. The low class Arab says “Allah will provide.” The Arab elite says “I will help ensure Allah will provide.” Western low class: “the universe will provide.” Elite take calculated risks and leave nothing to chance.
If you appeal to the lowest base instincts in people you will get elected and make more money. You sell to the mass by telling them they don’t have to be civilized and grown up but that the real problem is some scapegoat and never them. The problem is really caused by restrictions or “lame-stream media” or far right racists but never them.
New age gurus say that elevated women live a life of ease. I don’t see that. But I see their lives balanced. Elite women usually are managing their wealth, networking, involved in charities. They don’t just sit there. The life of ease and peace is that of an upper middle class housewife. Ease is a middle class thing. Elite and poor share hustle. Elite do it for fun and out of love, and poor because they are forced to.
Non-elite women don’t get it when they say they want to marry a billionaire and want a life of ease. Do you want to be the new CEO of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation?
I actually don’t think Elon Musk is the dusty non elite women say he is. He is socially developmentally delayed and has children with women he doesn’t respect, so is very Pickmeisha passive aggressive. By the time he is mature enough to be a good spouse he will be a grandfather. I am not much different from him except gender. I realize as a woman I couldn’t afford to finally figure out human relations at age 60 so I spent my time doing that instead of building rockets. In both cases our decisions paid off for our respective genders.
I read Elon Musk’s starter wife article. She was extremely arrogant, entitled, not sensitive and I had the misfortune of working with women like this. Which is why I work for myself. Elon Musk had trouble articulating himself and communicating with her directly so he went passive aggressive.
What went wrong? He married an over entitled Dustina who believed in fairy tales. He wanted her to carry the weight in the relationship. It shouldn’t be all him doing the work. He felt like 50-50 women feel in a marriage being a single mother married to a man. Initially she gave me the Belle vibes from Beauty and the Beast when he gave her his black credit card to buy any book her heart desired.
He said he will hire maids and nannies so she can feel free to have kids and not worry.
She was no longer working and living on his money but resented any duty that came with this new privileges position and wanted this self made billionaire to be interested in her career as a writer and take it with the same seriousness as his multi billion dollar career. What an idiot!
She resented that other women in her wealth bracket made an effort to maintain their youth, looks style. She said if you look at billionaires you don’t see women over 40 with them until you are shocked to find the ages of some of these women. She refused to look presentable for her husband and make him look good.
He asked her help organizing receptions, doing social networking, promoting his career. With his aspergers he needed her help in the social sphere badly. She refused and thought as a strong empowered feminist housewife with an army of maids and nannies that it was beneath her.
She told him “I am not your employee.” He said “I know. If you were my employee you would be fired.” And divorced her. His friends told him to get a prenup because they could see where it was going. She was a romantic and signed it without negotiating and got screwed over in the divorce.
Conversely in the US women mostly intiate the divorces that are highest in pro 50-50 areas and lowest in the most traditional religious areas. California has a 70% divorce rate, Utah 16%. When there are no kids 50-50 can still work but if a child is born the divorce papers are coming! Men stay in the habit of how you started the relationship. If you did 50-50 in the beginning, abort the baby or divorce the man or both. Not to be mean but it won’t work out so why waste time.
75% 25% relationships break.
That is why the life of the most elite women are not all comfortable. But they have a great life work balance. My mother was such a busy bee organizing reception after reception to promote my fathers career. We had artists, ambassadors, archeologists, politicians, diplomats and all sorts of interesting people at our home. Luckily I don’t entertain that much but as things take off more for my husband I will be writing less and focusing on that. And I love that with Covid I am allowed to be an introvert. I am allowed not to organize big receptions and events under Covid and enjoying every moment.
Honestly it’s nice being comfortable and not the top 1% income where I live. So much less stress. I used to be a lot more involved in charity boards but people played politics so I left. I enjoy not being involved in charity work so much. A lot of the people who work in that sector in the West are quite vicious. I would rather just donate to charities of my choice.
I enjoy the comfort and ease not being the top 1% but my husband having enough to get my what I enjoy. There is such a thing as noblesse oblige. To whom much is given much is expected.
Yes elite wives were well rested and some worked part time growing up. But you have certain social obligations with a high profile spouse that get exhausting if you don’t have strong boundaries and manage them.
The very top isn’t peaceful and quiet but still no society lady was ever so overworked as 50-50 fools.
If you have to split bills find ways of being single that you can enjoy. I stayed at a convent briefly doing research. Nuns have a lot more fun and a happier life than 50-50 women. Honesty it’s an underrated option. The problem is it is mainly the Catholic Church that has nuns and that church has a lot of problems. Being single is not so bad. It’s much better to live a full life as a spinster than having an angry 50-50 divorce at that age.
Intelligent housewives reinvest their money and have multiple streams of income. They don’t just sit there and rest all the time. Alice in Wonderland explained wealth that you have to keep running to stay still. The self improvement journey doesn’t stop but at the top you control the pace.
All these new age gurus lie about ease and low effort. There is no money with low effort. I spend at least 20 minutes doing a facial massage every day. There is a lot of work maintaining my looks so I don’t shrivel up into a prune. I have to read and maintain my brain to remain interesting to my husband.
Yes it’s MUCH more relaxing than a 50-50 relationship to enjoy life at my pace but the idea of the top 1% women sitting there doing nothing is a misconception. You simply get more control of your time and can set boundaries to not be stressed out that you wouldn’t have as an employee or CEO of a big corporation.
See Middle class associate hustle with poverty that often their ancestors had to get out of, hustle to eat. They also associate risk taking with poverty. In fact the elite have more in common with the poor than the middle class.
Elite hustle but for fun rather than to eat. They are just high achievers that keep going. Poor take uncalculated risks and hurt themselves while elite take calculated risks.
It’s actually easier to go from poor to rich than middle class to rich. If you go from poor to middle class you can keep your level up mindset and level yourself up to the top. If you are middle class you can be lulled by your comfort to sleep and never climb to the top. That’s one of the reasons why developed countries with large middle classes have someone of the lowest rates of social mobility.
One thing I hear both poor and rich say is “every day I am hustling.”
All these gurus selling a stress free elite life are lying through their teeth. Gurus know it’s much easier to sell a lie of what middle class of poor think of being elite than real level up. I am not going to have a board of directors tell me what to do because the first thing shareholders would tell me is I will increase their profits by sounding like a scam and lying that you say magic words and manifest.
No you have to hustle hard and smart, have faith and patience to achieve your dreams ladies. No hustle, no cash-flow. Get out there and chase your dreams. Do something every day to get closer to your dreams and you will achieve them! Action! Go get your dreams!
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