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[girltakescharge]

Chastity Basics: 5 Core Rules

No Complaining: Discomfort, impatience or frustration must be borne in silence unless it involves physical safety.

No Begging: Pleading, hinting or asking for sexual release or climax is strictly forbidden.

No Asking to Be Let Out: Unlocking is entirely at her discretion; you do not initiate or inquire about the schedule.

No Trying to Cheat the Cage: Zero attempt to bypass the lock, manipulate the ring and cage, or seek illicit pleasure around the device.

No Unauthorized Unlocks: The cage remains locked at all times until her hands or direct command remove it.

[seekingchastity]

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[artfulsadism]

[intofemdomjourney]

Among the best captions I have ever stumbled upon in Tumblr that describe the psychological aspect of confinement from the sub’s point of view, in such a tense and realistic way.

[6164ekim]

[pa2girlboss]

Guilt-free FLR: How to stop apologising for the FLR you designed - Female-Led

Guilt-free FLR: He chose this. Not as a fantasy, not as a phase, not as something he might grow out of. He chose it deliberately, formally

Another great update from @cat-boulder. This time, she addresses an issue that a lot of dommes encounter, especially early on.

[bruuu88]

[lovemydominatewife]

[crochasteslave]

[dulless2018]

Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a submissive, this is so very true. We NEED to be told what to do, what you want, and how to please you.

Even if it makes you uncomfortable, or you don't choose to do it all the time; every now and then do them a favor and TELL them what you want them to do. It can be anything, but is even more powerful if it is related to sex.

We are wired to please and submit to you. Being told to do something, by YOU, pushes all of those buttons in a sexy alluring manner.

He needs, wants, and fantasizes about it. So, every now and then throw him a bone, and be demanding. The more you do it, the easier it will become, and the more fun you can have making each other's fantasies come to life.

[lady-nj2]

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[deniedbetahusband4]

[deviantdesires13]

[isubmittothegoddess]

[stevieseven6]

[maleinslavery]

MISANDRY is so cool! We boys are so much happier as slaves!

[my-sub-missions]

[cruelmarauderkraken]

They discover that there is a strange kind of clarity in allowing someone else to set the boundaries, someone else to decide how things will unfold. It removes uncertainty and replaces it with something far more focused: trust in the person who is leading.

And the person who leads understands something important.

Control isn’t about force.

It isn’t about constant correction.

It’s about presence.

A calm confidence that makes others pause, consider, and eventually recognize that they are willingly stepping into a role that was quietly offered to them.

So when a moment like this appears when something is placed in front of you and you are invited to think carefully about your choices remember that the decision itself is only part of the story.

Because sometimes the most important thing isn’t what you choose.

It’s realizing who gave you the choice in the first place.

[takenovertheknee]

Re-blog if…

You are a Diciplinarian or in need of one.

Comment where you are from also!

[cagged61]

A caged cock is a beautiful thing

[miss--strict]

[cruelmarauderkraken]

They discover that there is a strange kind of clarity in allowing someone else to set the boundaries, someone else to decide how things will unfold. It removes uncertainty and replaces it with something far more focused: trust in the person who is leading.

And the person who leads understands something important.

Control isn’t about force.

It isn’t about constant correction.

It’s about presence.

A calm confidence that makes others pause, consider, and eventually recognize that they are willingly stepping into a role that was quietly offered to them.

So when a moment like this appears when something is placed in front of you and you are invited to think carefully about your choices remember that the decision itself is only part of the story.

Because sometimes the most important thing isn’t what you choose.

It’s realizing who gave you the choice in the first place.