Soldier (but more queer)

☆ sideblog for coining! ☆ despoicito.carrd.co ☆

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Teensy Tiny Intro Post

☆ Call me Soldier! I'm 20 years old and. Very queer... I coin things sometimes and make flags sometimes. This is a sideblog for me to dump them all in one place :)

☆ I'm autistic and tone tags are appreciated!! I have a more in depth intro on my main account if you need to know more about me. I use any pronouns!

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Incongrudelusic!

This term is exclusive to those who experience delusions!

☆ Incongrudelusic is a neurogender and subset of delusogender describing individuals who have a confusing, "contradictory" or otherwise difficult to explain gender identity due to their delusions.

☆ Some examples could include: both identifying and not identifying with a certain term at the same time (similar to paradoxigender); having "contradictory" states of gender identity that are both true simultaneously due to double-bookkeeping; having a gender that changes related to psychosis/delusional episodes making it difficult to properly label or describe their identity. Anyone who feels as if delusions affect their gender in some way can use this term, these are just some examples and not an exhaustive list!

☆ Little scared of the discourse surrounding IRLs/DAs/whatever other words so I'm hesitant to outright specify if this term includes IRLs/DAs/whatever by default. It's for "people who experience delusions". If you experience delusions of being a fictional character and you feel incongrudelusic fits your experiences, go right ahead. Use it as long as you experience delusions and you think it fits.

☆ Came up with the name for the term and its definition today (27th of September), but I've had the idea for much longer than I've had a word for it. I just mashed together the word incongruent with the suffix -delusic which I've already seen used for delusion related genders. I considered "paradelusic" (paradox + delusic) but was worried the para- prefix wouldn't be clear enough on its own.

☆ I made the flag yesterday (the 26th). A LOT OF THOUGHT WENT INTO THE FLAG. Okay. The colours were chosen because I was finding stability was often associated with the colour blue? Meaning the contrasting colour of orange would therefore be instability. Which is exactly what's happening, your delusions are causing confusion or difficulty in trying to quantify your identity. Orange was also described as being (one of) the most eye-catching colours to human eyes which was perfect when I wanted attention brought to the square in the centre.

☆ The shapes were meant to evoke "square peg in a round hole" imagery. Two circle pegs in circle holes to tie into the same idea again of everything else being put together and making sense, it's just your delusions causing difficulties and making things complicated or not fit right anymore (the square peg, orange to further the "it's different to everything else" metaphor). ☆ I won't lie. I've talked myself into so many rabbitholes of "I know X must be true but also X must be false. But it can't be false because I know it's true. But it isn't true because I know it's false". I wanted a term for my experience somewhere and if nothing else I can now point to this to explain how I'm both "definitely a man who must be perceived as one" but also "not at all a man nor am I comfortable being perceived as one". I'm tired of trying to solve the contradiction and figured going broad might help someone else in a similar boat find a term to use for themselves!

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Kingcandycharic!

☆ Kingcandygender or Kingcandycharic is a -charic xenogender connected to the character of King Candy from Wreck-It Ralph! This term may involve a connection to arcade games, candy, glitches, or racing.

☆ GET HIM OUT OF MY BIG AMERICAN HEAD

☆ GET OFF OF MY TRACK!!! I FORBID YOU!!!!!! TO CROSS!!!!!!!!!!! THAT FINISH LINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

☆ I made it NOW. right NOW. it took me ten minutes i made it and then i posted it NOW

☆ The first two stripes represent King Candy's crown and face, with the pink square being his nose. The third and fourth stripes represent his bowtie and his jacket. The fifth and sixth stripe represent his pants. The seventh stripe represents his shoes.

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Post was edited:

☆ Fixed ALT text on Kingcandycharic flag to remove information about the flag colour meanings which is better suited to a bullet point under the cut. ID now only focuses on describing the flag composition.

☆ Added bullet point under the cut to describe the flag colour meanings.

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Aprespronominal!

An older term that I'm finally posting to Tumblr!

☆ Aprespronominal is a term for when a person only feels comfortable being referred to with certain pronouns by people close to them. People who are not close to the person cannot use those pronouns, and would instead use different or no pronouns for this person.

☆ An example of this could be:

An individual is aprespronominal with he/him pronouns. People are expected to use they/them to refer to this person, but close friends are permitted to use he/him to refer to them.

☆ I think the definition of "people close to you" is a bit vague, but I don't want the definition to be too strict. It's meant to be a broad term, so "person close to you" is completely subjective and it's up to the person identifying with the label to determine what "people close to you" means.

☆ In the same vein it doesn't have to be... mutually exclusive, I guess? In my above example of someone who uses they/them but is aprespronominal to he/him, that could mean that people close to them should use he/him only, but it could also mean that he/him AND they/them are okay. Both are valid interpretations of aprespronominal. Ask the individual!

☆ I made this term on the 20th of January, 2023. Flag was made on the same day. I've been meaning to put my backlog of already made terms on this account, so it's nice to start with one of the terms I'm happiest with! ☆ I put a lot of thought into the colours I picked for this flag! I looked up colours that represented connection and found that green was typically used to symbolise it. That was important to me so I then inverted the shade of green I settled on to get that shade of pink, which is meant to symbolise the lack of connection/closeness that's also present. The black (it's technically grey to make the gradient nicer on the eyes, but it's meant to be black) is to represent the absence or lack of those pronouns for people who are not close to the individual.

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Kingcandycharic!

☆ Kingcandygender or Kingcandycharic is a -charic xenogender connected to the character of King Candy from Wreck-It Ralph! This term may involve a connection to arcade games, candy, glitches, or racing.

☆ GET HIM OUT OF MY BIG AMERICAN HEAD

☆ GET OFF OF MY TRACK!!! I FORBID YOU!!!!!! TO CROSS!!!!!!!!!!! THAT FINISH LINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

☆ I made it NOW. right NOW. it took me ten minutes i made it and then i posted it NOW

☆ The first two stripes represent King Candy's crown and face, with the pink square being his nose. The third and fourth stripes represent his bowtie and his jacket. The fifth and sixth stripe represent his pants. The seventh stripe represents his shoes.

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PuyoPuyoTetrisgender!

(I coined this years ago but now it has a shiny new flag!)

☆ PuyoPuyoTetrisgender, PuyoTetrisgender or PPTgender is a xenogender and gamegender relating to the videogame Puyo Puyo Tetris! It may also refer to experiencing both Puyogender and Tetrisgender.

☆ Okay right I made this term like. checks notes. 3 years ago. 22nd of April 2022. FUCKING HELL!!! And the old flag was EXTREMELY UGLY. I knew it was ugly at the time of making it but I wanted SOMETHING and didnt know how to properly execute the idea I had in my STUPID LITTLE MINDBRAIN!!!!!!! It was pretty much this current one except the left side contained all the puyo and the right side contained all the minos. I made it in MS Paint so it genuinely looked like SHIT!!!!!!! And I'm much happier with the way I did it on this one!!!!!!!!!!

☆ Made this flag today. Spent hours on it. I hate how the "background" area for the puyo look so bland and empty but I did not want to spend even MORE time on this. As always I invite people to make prettier versions!! The blue cross is based on the PPT2 cover thingy, the puyo were based on the flat puyo skin (which is my favourite + makesit easier to make simplistic puyo for a flag) and the minos were colourpicked from my tetrisgender flag that I've. not posted here yet..... guess you guys know what to expect next /lighthearted

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KinitoPETgender!

Very surprised I couldn't find this already? There was 1 or 2 results on DeviantArt but it was from deleted blogs I think? So I made my own!

☆ KinitoPETgender or Kinitogender is a xenogender and gamegender based on the videogame KinitoPET! This term may involve a connection to 90s-era internet, glitches, viruses, or computers.

☆ KinitoPETcharic or Kinitocharic is a xenogender and gamegender specifically connected to the character Kinito.

☆ I don't have specific flags to differentiate Kinitocharic from Kinitogender, just use whichever you want. Someone else can make one if they want!

☆ Can I just say the little Kinito on the flags took forever to make? I don't have a proper image editing software so it was a bit of a hassle. The gill thingies on his head was me copy-pasting a squiggly line that i cropped like 12 times. At least it looks okay-ish! It looked worse no matter what I did when I tried to add eyes so I just didn't bother. I think it'd be too much detail. ☆ But yeah I don't think this is a new term and I doubt I'm the first to coin it, but I couldn't find anything. I actually made this yesterday but I forgot to post it so here you go!

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MVMgender and MVMcharic!

This one's gonna be long. Great first post I guess,,,

☆ MannVsMachinegender or MVMgender is a xenogender associated with the Team Fortress 2 gamemode of Mann Vs Machine. This may involve incorporating various aspects of MVM gameplay into your gender such as destroying robots, the atmosphere of MVM maps, a connection to the robots seen in MVM or a connection to the PvE gameplay. ☆ MannVsMachinecharic or MVMcharic is a -charic xenogender connected to or otherwise influenced by the robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. I made flags for each of the 9 robot classes (and also Sentry busters). This is your warning, there's a lot of stuff under the cut!

☆ Scoutbotcharic is a xenogender related to the Scout robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to going fast, BONK! Atomic Punch, baseball bats, or to carrying the bomb.

☆ Soldierbotcharic is a xenogender related to the Soldier robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to rockets, barrages, banners, or to Giant Robots.

☆ Pyrobotcharic is a xenogender related to the Pyro robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to fires, flares, flamethrowers, or to deflecting projectiles.

☆ Demobotcharic is a xenogender related to the Demoman robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to grenades, explosions, destruction or to Giant Robots.

☆ Heavybotcharic is a xenogender related to the Heavy robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to strength, killing, fists, or Giant Robots.

☆ Engibotcharic is a xenogender related to the Engineer robots (also known as Mecha-Engineers) seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to intelligence, Sentries, deception or support roles.

☆ Medicbotcharic is a xenogender related to the Medic robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to healing, support, Ubercharge or killing.

☆ Sniperbotcharic is a xenogender related to the Sniper robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to support, flanking, the Huntsman or backlines.

☆ Spybotcharic is a xenogender related to the Spy robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to deceit, assassination, secrecy or stabbing.

☆ Sentrybustercharic is a xenogender related to the Sentry Buster robots seen in Mann Vs Machine. This may involve connections to destruction, beeping, explosions or to Demoman/Engineer.

☆ Phew! This took multiple hours and I don't want to look at SFM ever again (/silly). I initially wanted to make versions for the RED robots or the Giant/Boss robots or for the Tanks but this took way too long for me to want to more than double my time spent on these. ☆ I couldn't find a TF2 logo in the style of the emblems so I had to do that myself, same with the caber silhouette for the Sentry Buster flag. I might post those separately at some point, depends if I feel like recreating RED team variants. ☆ This is my first post to this coining sideblog but I've made a few terms/flags already, so I'll probably just dump those here eventually. Can you tell I'm hyperfixated on TF2 by the way? (/lighthearted) ☆ Sorry if the flag IDs are fucked, I haven't slept and don't really know how to "properly" ID flags. Please let me know if they need updating! Enjoy the wall of tags ^^