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Love Begins

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Really growing to like this little nook for working ✨
Thankful for CNY holiday, extra day to read and rest. Been MIA in the online world (FB & main IG) for a few weeks now and to be honest, I am perfectly okay with it.
I think I know what would be my 2021 resolution, to enjoy life offline. To read more self help books and do not worry too much on what would happen in the future.
Two things this book helped me to realize are: 1. There will always be falls, problems and difficulties in life. Life will always be full of those. What we can do is to have enough self compassion when the falls, problems and difficulties do come and we will have enough kindness to hold and brace ourselves to be ready for it, and. 2. Live as who you are. #bookstagram
you are the most permanent thing in your life. always. that won’t change. ever. so put you first. prioritize you. choose you. you, you, you. your needs, your wants, your dreams, your feelings, your happiness, your peace. never sacrifice any of that, and do not spend your entire life treating people who might be temporary better than you treat yourself.
— alhwrites
especially if they act like a temporary person: bare minimum, low effort, confusing, unkind, shitty, toxic.
“How a person reacts to your sadness says a lot about how long they’re going to be in your life.”
— S. Z.
How do you know when a man is right for you?
Honestly, you will just know. You will be able to tell by his mannerism, the way he looks at you. The way he talks to you, the way he pays attention to every single word you say, it’ll be in his laughter, his attention to detail. The atmosphere when he is around you, a man who makes you a better woman, a better sister, a better daughter and the perfect future mother. You will realize he is right for you when he makes you stronger emotionally, physically and mentally. He will empower you, he will bring you closer to yourself, he will make you feel better yourself. You will learn to love yourself, he will become the half of you that you were missing, he will become your teacher, your best friend and your soul mate. You will begin to realize that he will learn to love you, just so you love yourself. You will know he is right for you, the moment he walks through the door and your heart finally rests with peace.
Letter to myself
Dear me,
I am sorry.
I’m sorry that you tried so desperately to fix others, when your own hands were shaking. I’m sorry that I didn’t give you enough time to heal, that I let you seal the wounds of everyone else whilst your own were bleeding. I’m sorry that there were days when smiling hurt but you forced yourself to laugh so that no one had to worry about you. I’m sorry that you gave all of your time and effort to people that didn’t give the same amount back. I’m sorry that there were nights when you cried yourself to sleep and no one bothered to understand why. And I am sorry that I did not love you, like you deserved to be loved.
LIVE
It is important to know who you are, what you stand for and how you want to see yourself. You have your whole life for you, and you determine what you do with it and how you will experience your journey. There is no one who can tell you who you are. Because you decide for yourself. You make your own choices, you choose your own direction and you determine your own steps.
Think about who you are, think about how you position yourself against others. Think of your qualities and your intentions. See yourself as the person you want to be, without thinking your status, your score, your ability or the people around you. Nothing or nobody should affect who you are as a person, who you are in terms of thinking, who you are in your actions.
The life you have for you is your chance to follow your dreams, to discover, to develop and to enjoy yourself. Imagine a life in which you are completely yourself, in which you fulfill your dreams. Live your life.
MOVING ON
After a while, the hurt hurts less. You start to see reason, understand why they did what they did. Knowing that it takes two hands to clap. Learn, that not everyone you meet will stay in your life forever. Sometimes, they’re a passing character in a chapter of your book. There to teach you a certain lesson, to help you experience different things in life- different emotions, to grow, and maybe to show you how to love yourself better. Find your worth.
Some of these characters will be difficult to replace when their time has come to an end in a chapter of your life. But, it is important to learn and to see the necessity to let them go, even if you don’t want to.
At the beginning, it will hurt. It’s the kind of hurt that will leave you crying till you fall asleep at 3 am, puffy eyes, nose blocked and swollen. The kind of hurt that follows you everywhere - reminding you of the memories you had once shared at particular places you pass by. The hurt that leaves you thinking if you ever meant anything to them. Heartbreak is inevitable, especially with the people you love. But its one thing I’ve learned: you cannot have expectations. You can’t expect them to love you back the same way you love them, with the same amount of intensity, and that my friend is the sad truth. The way you love someone- that does not determine the way that person is going to love you back. You can have multiple connections with people, but that does not necessarily mean that they are meant for you, and darling, its the same with love. This applies to both friendships and relationships, as we hate to admit it.
The hardest part about losing someone you love is not the goodbye, rather than learning to live without them. And what fuels the hurt is when you see how they’re able to move on without you. But can you blame them? Honestly, you can’t. Someone said “If you really love that person, you will want them to be happy. Even if it means that they’re gonna be happy without you, you will respect that and let them go. Because you want them to be happy.” Would you rather be happy with someone, but that person does not feel the same kind of happiness with you? That bothered me, a lot honestly. The one thing people crave, it’s love and being valued. However, when you look for love, to find that healing to fill that void they’ve left - I have found that it never really works out. It’s not purely genuine? I feel it’s more of a forced connection because you want to fill that void, you crave that drug and rush called ‘love’ because it’s a beautiful feeling. However, the best kind of love, something that I find the purest, is unexpected love. Because you’re not looking for something, you’re not looking for healing. Sometimes, through the people that we meet, we find healing. And the world doesn’t seem that bitter after all.
They help you get back onto your feet, but you’re much stronger now. Stronger than before, aware. Aware of how love can be so fragile and pure yet it has the power to break, shatter and destroy. Wiser, as to who you allow yourself to love.
[ 12.09.2018 ]
& the way the light falls reminds me of a time long past, of ends & beginnings, of dreams & decembers
“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”
— Oscar Wilde
“it’s beginning to look a lot like christmas”
Yes, it really is. 😍🎄
Chocolate Dreamcake I’ve been meaning to try this viral cake in a can. So last weekend, after waiting for almost 2 weeks, it finally arrived! I ordered this thru the facebook page of Le Sucre Lab Chocolates and arranged the pick up date and time via Lalamove. I paid 475 pesos for the Chocolate Dream Cake and 108 pesos for Lalamove service. If you haven’t heard of the service of Lalamove you can research via google. Haha. So there, at first, I thought the cake was big. Since mostly I saw on their instagram page, the cake is as big as the normal chiffon cake that you can buy in a bakery. But I was wrong. It’s a 6” (diameter) cake. Chocolate dream cake has 5 distintctly layers, moist chocolate cake at the very bottom, followed by a layer of thick and gooey ganache, then covered with a creamy and smooth light mixture, a very crisp piece of chocolate (that makes the cake exciting) and generous amount of dark cocoa powder dusting. The cake is also a bit of a dark chocolate so you will never be bored eating this in one sitting.
Gizeh 👣
Wiiiiiings 😍 #frankiesbuffalowings #saltedeggwings (at Frankie's New York Buffalo Wings SM North) https://www.instagram.com/p/BnNfiNKnolg/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=13vohi2x5v2wq
It’s about being with the person that makes you happy in a way nobody else can. ❤️
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I am so in love with the design and feel of these books! All books should be this beautiful.