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180417 // Life is so full of stimuli, impressions and hurry that we tend to turn on autopilot mode. Why not trying a week of mindfulness to help calming your thoughts or just to practice slowing down?
Here are my other posts on self development and other slef help topics :)
180501// Inspiring people are nice to be around. They have that sort of charisma that just let us feel good while talking to them. They also seem so secure, strong and stable. We can’t just decide to instantly be an inspiring person but we can work on the vibes we send. And maybe someday without even noticing - we are that person we wanted to be. Maybe this means just to be a bit more ourself.
180316 // Wouldn’t it be nice, if we could please everyone? If everything would go as planned, no hate, no critics? The truth is, this is not realistic and sometimes the most critical person is oneself. Perfectionism doesn’t only disturb our relationship to ourself but the fear of failure may also paralyse us totally and prevent us from getting work done. Here are some tips on how to overcome perfectionism.
Here are my other advice post an self development, mental health, self care etc.
in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!
With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?
ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”
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“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.
Thankful for my parents exposing me to different things as a kid. Cultivated my love for jazz at an early age. @spotify #jazztronica
Fanning out early. #bigkrit #confetti been waiting on this forever!!!
Go ahead and learn something today #Repost @realtalkraps (@get_repost) ・・・ replacing old sexist knee-jerk reaction habits. #memoirsofamoderndaygriot
Everything ain't hardcore @dameesco Damien Escobar "Fuse" #crooner #morningvibes #oneofmyfavoritejoints
the rick 😂🙃💼 story part II
so yall don’t really talk about the situation and just try to move on.. you never really move on tho.. you can’t stop thinking about this Rick nigga.. by this time your homies are hip to everything that happened.. you told them the whole story about how you had to put the nigga in his place.. about how he was big for nothing and you backslapped this nigga so hard he touched mother earth and ending up going to a different work location cuz he was a bitch and he didn’t want no smoke with you..and how you got everybody at ya girl job fooled thinking he just transferred because he got promoted.. your bro’s believe you too.. you know, because you telling the truth.
they tryna get you to come out and let loose tho.. you just been binge watching House of Cards with your girl in the crib.. you think it might be a good idea because you need to relax..cuz you been tripping.. paranoid af you don’t even use the 😂🙃💼 emojis nomore..you seen that the dude at the chik-fil-a drive thru name was Rick and you just drove off and went to burger king and you don’t eem like burger king..plus everybody at Chik-fil-a be nice as shit Rick was probably a really kind hearted individual forreal..but fuck Rick.
anyway you go out that weekend with your bro’s..yall go in the club and the first thing you see is a 6'5 looking nigga at the bar..you stressed..“this nigga Rick really ruining my life” you think to yourself.. you scanning the place looking for objects to hit this halfa Hagrid ass nigga with..you walk up and pass him..but..its not him.. you tell yourself you gotta chill.. you start taking shots like young metro don’t trust you now because ya nerves got you itching.
you sitting down.. you overhear a couple sitting at a table nearby.. they roasting a nigga on the dance floor that got a hoodie t-shirt on ..“they so in love” you think… you remember when you and your girl would do that.. you miss her now.. you text her “baby” she say “yes” you text her “i love you” she say “i love you too”…yall fake cute.
you not even stressing no more..you go out to the dance floor with ya bros..the DJ just played Poison..you doing the Kid n Play with a homie flawlessly..you feel so much better you like a different person..yall drinking having fun..the dj plays some dancehall and a girl nearby starts wining on you..yall just dancing tho no biggie..well you think..
your girlfriends bestfriend Nicki was at the bar the whole time..now Nicki a cold bitch fr.. she be gossiping about everybody.. she know all the tea before it come out the damn kettle..she always in the mix..thats why you dont like her..but she don’t like you neither she think ya head big.. anyway she text ya girl asking if yall still together even tho she know damnwell yall still together..ya girl say yea..Nicki text back “oh..well..🤔 who this bitch?”.. bruh..she done sent your girl 3 super duper high quality 4k hd videos of you dancing all up on shorty..she got you in slow mo and everything and that wasn’t even necessary she just did that because she don’t like you and she think ya head big.
now, ya girl know how Nicki is..and on a normal night she wouldn’t pay Nicki no mind.. but this ain’t no normal night..see Rick had called your girl up while you was at the club..right around the “scanning the place looking for objects to hit this halfa Hagrid ass nigga with” part..she was hesitant to pick up..but she did..
Rick apologizing.. lol i mean this nigga smooth bro i can’t even lie..ya girl was upset still at first but she start telling him that you was just tripping the night before..she said she had no idea that was gonna happen..he says but thats not the only reason why he called..“i wanted to tell you something ive been wanting to say for a while now” listen i know ya stomach hurting reading this because my stomach hurtin writing it.
she say “oh..well tell me” he says he’d rather tell her in person..“can you come outside im in front if your house” this nigga don’t got no type manners.. your girl is confused..she says “um ok”..ya girl open the door..Rick 😂🙃💼 got on this shmedium ass white T on..muscles on top of his muscles like spongebob that one time.. coconut oil all on his elbows.. he got sweatpants on..i aint even gonna say what color.. you in the club hitting the kid n play flawlessly.
Lmaooooooo. I only accept these stories from this guy. Pure comedy
I don’t know why I didn’t follow off the first set of posts but I sure am now
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The best part of this tree is that it was mostly green yesterday. I love fall!! #autumn #autumnleaves #autumncolors
Coffee and bagels make me a happy camper in the morning.
I love nature documentaries. It's something about being able to see things in their full glory. Tonight's film: moving art: oceans on #Netflix #documentaries #nature #oceans
"We all, at some point, grow old and acquire other qualities, and these can always be turned to good advantage." - Paulo Coelho I was completely unaware of @chipotlemexicangrill cultivating thought - author series but my bag had this cool story by one of my favorite authors. It reminded me that even as I continue growing things that are tough for me can be used for my good after all. #chipotle #paulocoelho #cultivatingthought #foodwasawesometoo
Sometimes a great R&B album is needed. #tyrese #blackrose
The I'm just not feeling it today face but planning this budget calls. #thestormwontlastforever
