You know what? The drama about who to ship Bee with because of her age and everyone else's doesn't matter. At All. None Of It.
There is always going to be a big fricking age gap one way or another between every character in this story unless some freak comes along and ships Cardamon with Bee then they'll be exiled for a good reason.
Other than that, there is literally no reason get morally iffy about it. Like, Bee dated Crispin, and apparently, she is way older than him and even babysat him a few times when he was a kid and people still ship them.
Bee babysat Deckard when he was a kid and people still ship them. Finally, in turn, Bee was babysat by fricking Puppycat when she was probably a human child before she might have died and was reborn as an android lady many years later (it's an ongoing theory with most of the fandom anyway) and some people still ship them.
And the people who get little worked up over shipping Bee x Space Outlaw, most likely ship her with Crispin, Deckard, and even Castaspella, who Bee is again, way older than. So, it just doesn't matter what happens. They're all adults anyway, excluding the actual children characters.
I just don't want there to be a social media war about it, so might as well call everyone out on their shipping choices at once because we're on the same (moral) ground.