jude cohen

the beatles, bisexual and books <- the holy trinity

[judecoho]

frankievs:

“None taken, you could have said ‘overpriced yuppie restaurant’ and you still would have been right" she replied breezily, pulling out the keys to her little Chevy Spark and motioning for the other to follow. “You’re my snack savior, I wasn’t gonna let you pay for anything anyway. I just need help with the bags and grocery shopping is more fun with a partner.”

She nodded lightly in agreement, it sounded pretty accurate to her. “Snack savior? I only gave you a handful,” she said while softly laughing. She put her bag of chips away and started following the other girl. “I could definitely help you out with that,” she guaranteed. 

[judecoho]

frankievs:

 “The more the merrier, right? That goes for food and feeding.” It also helped that living in Vegas was supplying her with steady work– even if it was less movie scenes and more dancers’ makeup these days. Her eyebrows shot up at the other woman’s question. “You’ve never had avocado fries? It’s like, a mini-texture adventure for the tongue and with chipotle-lime ranch dipping sauce?” An exaggerated sigh. “Delicious. You know what? If there’s time and if the store has what I need, let’s go big. Barbecue pork tacos too, so it’s like surf and turf.” She polished off the last of the chips she;d been given and clapped off any clinging crumbs before hitting the other woman with her puppy dog eyes again. “You’ll come grocery shopping with me, won’t you?”

Her description of avocado fries made Jude a little more eager to try them. “No,” she responded. “That sounds like a Pinterest project, or something from an expensive restaurant from LA; no offense.” She gave a shrug, “As long as you’re paying for everything, I’ll go.”

[judecoho]

frankievs:

 Frankie squealed, not even caring that the other wasn’t going to be helping her in the kitchen– her pride wouldn’t let anyone else do anything to help her in the kitchen besides maybe opening cans or jars anyway. “Okay because I love making big lunches, but there’s never anyone around to eat with and that really sucks?” She ate a few more chips and chewed in contemplative silence for a moment before brightening back up. “Anyway, I’m thinking seafood: grilled seafood salad, avocado fries and maybe white wine spritzers? Please tell me you like wine.”

Jude jumped at her sudden squeal, not expecting such a excited reaction. “Well, I suppose it’s a good thing you moved here. You can make lunches for the whole house. Then again, that’s a lot of food you’re cooking.” Her eyes widen at the ideas for lunch, she was too used to the $1 $2 $3 dollar menu at McDonald’s to be familiar to actual food. “Avocado fries? How is that a thing?” She wasn’t opposed to the side, but it was unheard of till now. She nodded, “Yeah, wine is fine with me.”

[judecoho]

frankievs:

“Testing my pre-lunch willpower,” Frankie chirped, happily popping one of the chips into her mouth. It was the truth and surely it said good things about her growing self-control that she hadn’t snuck a chip and apologized later. “Godddd these are so good, thank you!” She savored the flavor for a moment before talking again, “’m totally being real about making lunch later though, wanna join me?”

It sounded like an excuse to Jude, but she decided to drop it to come off more friendly. “You’re welcome,” she said before popping in another handful of chips into her mouth. “Join you making lunch? Nah, I’d burn the building. Join you eating lunch? Sure.”

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“Okay, I know what this looks like, but I wasn’t going to eat it!” Frankie insisted, springing back from the snack she’d been scoping out as soon as the person she assumed was it’s rightful owner reappeared. “Buuut…” she trailed off, utilizing her big eyes for her signature puppy dog look. “If you want to be a friend and let me have a bite, I wouldn’t say no.” 

[judecoho]

“What were you going to do, then?” Jude asked, coming off as accusingly with her tone and crossed arms. She quickly took her bag of barbecue chips and dug in. She looked into the stranger’s puppy dog eyes, instantly feeling guilt for a rude introduction. “Here,” she said while dropping some into her hands.

[judecoho]

128. Is there anything about the LGBT community that you wish you knew before coming out?

I wish I knew that some LGBT members, not all, don’t believe in bisexuality.

[tvandfilm]

[thecaffeinatedkansasbabe-blog]

Random Questions For Queer Ladies #WLWask

Below are some questions pertaining to women who like other women, conveniently categorized. Have others send you random numbers (there’s 130 of them), or simply answer them yourself. Please reblog!

SEXUALITY & COMING OUT: 1. How do you define your sexuality? 2. What pronouns do you use to identify yourself? 3. At what age did you first suspect that you are sexually attracted to other girls? 4. At what age did you come to terms with your sexuality? 5. Did you have an “aha I like girls” moment or was it more of a gradual realization? 6. How did your sexuality make you feel before you came out? 7. How did you become comfortable with your sexuality? 8. At what age did you first come out? 9. Who was the first person you came out to? How did they take it? 10. Do your parents know about your sexuality? 11. How out are you? 12. Do you now identify as something different than when you first came out? 13. Was anyone surprised when you came out or did people seem to already know? 14. Has coming out lost you any friends? 15. How soon after meeting someone do you usually tell them about your sexuality? 16. How difficult do you find it to sympathize with straight women? 17. Have you ever wished you were completely straight? 18. Agree or disagree: Everyone is at least a little bit gay. 19. If you are not a lesbian, about what percentage of the time do you find yourself attracted to other girls? 20. Do you think it is possible to be a true 50/50 bisexual, or is the percentage always skewed towards one gender? 21. How often do you find yourself trying to sneak a peek or stare at a cute girl? 22. How accurate is your gaydar?

RELATIONSHIPS & DATING: 23. What is your current relationship status? 24. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in? Are you still with that person? 25. Do you remember anything about the first time you kissed another girl? 26. Are you a virgin? If not, what gender did you lose your virginity to? 27. What is your ideal first date? 28. What personality trait are you most attracted to? 29. How flirty are you? 30. Would you ever want to get married, if not already? 31 Do you want have children someday? 32. Would you ever want to give birth? 33. How often are you asked if you have a boyfriend? 34. Have you ever liked or dated a girl with the same name as you? 35. Have you ever been on your period the same time as a girlfriend? 36. Have you and a girlfriend ever been mistaken for sisters? 37. Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? 38. Have you ever dated a guy? 39. Has a girl ever dumped you for a guy? Have you? 40. Has another girl ever hit on you? 41. Have you ever had a crush on a straight girl? 42. Have you ever had a crush on a woman who’s significantly older than you? 43. Would you ever date a trans woman? 44. Have you ever had a profile on a LGBT dating website or app? 45. Where do you think is the best place to meet a potential lover? 46. Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE: 47. Have you ever cut your hair super short? If not, would you ever want to? 48. Is your nose pierced? 49. What is your opinion on septum/bull nose piercings? 50. Do you have any tattoos? If so, of what and where? 51. How muscular are you? 52. Are you or have you ever been a tomboy? 53. Have you ever been told that you don’t look gay, or that you’re too pretty to be gay? 54. Have you ever been mistaken as a dude?

FASHION STYLE: 55. Do you wear skirts and dresses? If so, how often? 56. Do you wear high heels? If so, how often? 57. How much jewelry do you typically wear? 58. How much makeup do you typically wear? 59. How often do you wear a bra? 60. How often do you wear flannel? 61. Have you ever worn a suit? 62. Do you wear any shoes such as combat boots, Doc Martins or Timberlands? 63. Do you carry a purse? 64. Do you wear any hats such as snapbacks or beanies? 65. Have you ever worn any men’s clothing? 66. Have you ever dressed in complete drag? 67. Have you ever shared clothes with a girlfriend? 68. If you want to get married, do you think you will wear a dress?

ENTERTAINMENT: 69. Who is your favorite LGBT celebrity? 70. Have you ever watched The L Word? 71. Have you ever watched Will & Grace? 72. Have you ever watched RuPaul’s Drag Race? 73. How well do you feel LGBT women are portrayed on television? 74. Do you listen to any LGBT musicians (i.e. Tegan & Sara, Melissa Etheridge, Chely Wright, Elton John, Sam smith, George Michael, Adam Lambert)? 75. Do you watch any LGBT YouTubers? 76. Do you have a favorite LGBT themed movie? 77. Do you have a favorite LGBT themed blog or website? 78. Do you read any LGBT magazines? 79. Have you read any LGBT themed literature? If so, do you have any recommendations? 80. Is there such a thing as “good” lesbian porn?

THIS OR THAT: 81. Boobs or butts? 82. Beer or wine? 83. Ellen or Portia?

BEING (SOMEWHAT) RANDOM: 84. How much do you like cats? 85. Have you ever been to a gay bar or a gay club? 86. How many LGBT friends do you have? 87. Do you have any LGBT relatives? 88. Have you ever used any words (or variations of) such as lesbian, queer, gay, or homosexual as a password? 89. How outdoorsy are you? 90. Have you ever driven an SUV, Jeep, or pickup truck? 91. How many rainbow items do you own? 92. Have you ever celebrated National Coming Out Day (Oct. 11)? 93. Have you ever participated in the National Day of Silence? 94. Have you ever attended a GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) type of club? 95. Have you ever attended a PFLAG (Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays) meeting? 96. Have you ever attended a gay or lesbian wedding? 97. Have you ever been part of a softball team? 98. Do you skateboard or longboard at all? 99. Do you play any video games?

FROM 1-10, HOW ATTRACTIVE ARE: 100. Muscular women? 101. Women who wear glasses? 102. Women who are covered with tattoos? 103. Women who are covered with piercings? 104. Curvy/plus-sized women? 105. Women with short hair? 106. Highly intelligent women? 107. Tall women (i.e. around 1.83 meters/6 feet or taller)? 108. Masculine/butch women?

GETTING SERIOUS: 109. What does equality mean to you?
 110. Do you consider yourself a feminist? 111. Do you eat meat at all? 112. Are you religious at all? 113. How do you feel about the terms “woman crush” and “girl crush”? 114. How do you feel when platonic female friends refer to each other as girlfriends? 115. How do you feel when people use the word gay to mean things such as stupid, dumb, boring, or idiotic? 116. Are you comfortable with terms such as lezzie, lesbo, dyke, homo, or tranny? 117. What are your views on gender identity and bathroom use? 118. Do you have any opinions on LGBT people in the military? 119. Have you ever been called a gay slur? 120. Have you ever been queer bashed? 121. Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality or gender identity? If so, please explain. 122. Does it really get better? 123. Americans: How did you feel on June 26, 2015? 124. How accepting of LGBT people is the city/community you live in? 125. Have you ever tried to “pray the gay away”? 126. How annoyed are you with how heteronormative society is? 127. What LGBT stereotype do you most disagree with? 128. Is there anything about the LGBT community that you wish you knew before coming out? 129. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to figure out her sexuality? 130. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to come out?

[zoekravitzdaily]

[judecoho]

loganmontgomery-babe:

“Anything boys can do, girl’s can do better. Pulling off names included.” Logan cemented, arching an eyebrow at Jude’s scoff. “Yeah? Well don’t come crying to me when they try to execute you for this blatant disrespect.” 

“Ain’t that the truth?” She agreed, slightly smirking for a second. “If they do try to execute me, you wouldn’t be the person I’d go to for consolation or a plan to get out of my beheading.”

[judecoho]

boho-highjinx:

“You might not be able to view things the same, but you can learn how other people see things and gain perspective and understanding.” Jinx countered calmly, unwilling to make this a fight even if it did seem like it could easily turn that way. 

“Maybe some people can but most people choose not to, so it’s pretty hopeless.”

[giovanna-gama]

[judecoho]

loganmontgomery-babe:

“I like to think we pull them off better than any boy could,” Logan commented. It seemed that boy names were given to girls more often these days, which was a blessing, really; in a few generations, people like her and Jude would blend in perfectly with their names. “That’s fine - I prefer ‘Your Highness’ over ‘Miss Montgomery’ anyway.” 

“It seems to fit us better than any other boy.” She gave out a scoff. “I will never address you royally unless you’re the princess of something and I doubt you are.” Logan was probably giving a cute joke but Jude couldn’t take one, however, she wasn’t deadly serious.

[judecoho]

loganmontgomery-babe:

“Logan. Logan Montgomery,” she echoed back in the same manner, giving into the temptation this time. 

“Seems like we both have boy names,” she noted.  “Now I won’t forget your first name, I might forget your last name, though.”

[judecoho]

boho-highjinx:

“Just because I’m an optimist and you’re a pessimist doesn’t mean we can’t meet in the middle with a bit of realism.” The blonde disagreed lightly. If anything, she could appreciate different views and glimpses into other peoples perspectives. Plus, she was never one to dismiss people easily. 

“Yes, it does,” she opposed. “How are you going to put two people who view life differently and make them view it the same?”

[judecoho]

boho-highjinx:

“Nope, merely an observation.” Jinx countered, a slight hum in her tone. Insulting wasn’t really her style, but the other girl should learn that in time - hopefully. “Aww, don’t be like that, I’m sure we’ll agree on more things. I have faith in us.” 

The blonde denied claims to insulting her two times yet Jude couldn’t help but feel like something was sketchy, when it really wasn’t. “You’re optimistic, I’m pessimistic. I don’t think we’ll meet ways on most subjects.”

[judecoho]

boho-highjinx:

“That sounds very American.” The blonde quipped, a small smile on her face, “I’m glad we can agree on something.” 

“Well, I am American. Was that suppose to be an insult?” She asked, assuming the worst like always. “It’s quite possibly the only time we’ll agree on something, full time hippie.”