Drama Queen

Just kill that part of yourself.

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

And I don't wanna feel how my heart is rippin'

In fact, I don't wanna feel, so I stick to sippin'

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

wait Tumblr is still a thing?

me

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

So Close

Okay, so I have a story for the world. and since the only way that anyone will know whose these people really are is:

A) knowing me personally

B) the people involved realise this is about them and make note of it.

So, I have a long distance relationship. Like any relationship we have our issues. So on my last trip to see my s/o I figured we could spend your last moments trying to figure out how to fix our issues.  AND GET THIS! WE DID IT! We worked on it up until 3:30AM but we figured it out! Damn, we are freaking great for that! I was so happy!

But then, as we are celebrating our success, a girl messages my BOYFREND (Please remember this is at 3AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING) on snap chat. I confess I have trust issues and I am a jealous person. But I think that no matter what the only reason anyone is messaging another person at this time of NIGHT is because they are wanting some booty call…

Please let me know if I’m wrong. But if you match with someone on tinder it’s not to become BBFs… and if you are trying to create a “friendship” because “you are just friends” THERE SHOULD BE NO CONTACTING EACH OTHER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT!!!

Now, again, this is my opinion but there are like socially created “making friends” time frames in a day. (i.e during the day time when the sun is out. and clubbing hours so nothing after 2AM… BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE SLEEPING!!) BUT GET THIS, when I got mad about this situation (because I’m investing my time in my relationship and took time off to spend with my s/o and he rather just ignore me of put me second in line for attention when she messages him)  HE SAYS I’M OVERREACTING!!!!

I SAY I KNOW MOST FEMALES. If I match with you on tinder its because you have potential of being my next fuck. and if I know you have a girlfriend and she is spending time with you IF I WAS A DECENT FUCKING HUMAN BEING I WOULD FUCKING LEAVE YOU BOTH TO ENJOY YOUR TIME TOGETHER!!!!!

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

LOL, I’m over that. I found me something stable.

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

Pills and Poison

Medicate; get better.

Side effects make me

Worse. Medicate more,

To get rid of the side effects.

Overdose.

[naturalhairqueens]

Shout out to all the women who have large behinds or large breasts, and are tired of always being over sexualized, when in reality they’re just trying to live their life, and they can’t help the fact that their shape draws attention.

[rapeculturerealities]

White Women Less Likely to Help Sexual Assault Victim If She's Black

Bystander intervention is seen as one of the most powerful tools in preventing on-campus sexual assaults—but a new study shows that white students feel "less personal responsibility" to help their black peers.

You’re at a house party off-campus—perhaps you’re coming out of the bathroom after finally breaking the seal or you’re walking out of the kitchen, drink in hand—and you notice a black woman who looks much more wasted than you do, being led into a bedroom by a relatively sober guy. Being the good feminist you are, you register that the situation looks suspect. What do you do?

According to a new study, white women aren’t likely to intervene and help. The study, published in The Psychology Of Women Quarterly, posed a similar scenario to 160 white female undergraduates. The students were randomly assigned whether the intoxicated woman in the story had a “distinctively black name"—LaToya—or an ambiguous name—Laura, as a control.

When asked to report on their intent to intervene and how they viewed the situation and the potential victim, the white undergrads said they would be less likely to help when they perceived the woman who was at risk of being sexually assaulted was black, because they felt “less personal responsibility.” Secondarily, they also “perceived that [the black victim] experienced more pleasure in the pre-assault situation” at a slightly higher rate than the control group. (The control group given the scenario with the non-racialized name uniformly perceived the victim to be white.)

“We found that although white students correctly perceived that black women were at risk in a pre-assault situation, they tended not to feel as personally involved in the situation,” the researchers at SUNY Geneseo, Jennifer Katz and Christine Merrilees, said in an interview with PsyPost. In other words, “despite their shared status as women, white female bystanders in the current study may have felt that a Black woman’s plight was not as personally relevant because race has a more powerful effect than gender on intent to intervene and feelings of responsibility to intervene,” they write in the study.

Previous research has found that white people, in general, are less likely to help black victims. A 2008 study on racial bias in helping behavior troublingly found that “as [a situation’s] level of emergency increased, the speed and quality of help white participants offered to black victims relative to white victims decreased.” When the victim was black, the white participants also viewed the situation as less severe.

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[flyandfamousblackgirls]

[naturalhairqueens]

Dear Dark Girls,

Don’t let anyone tell you that you should be happy just to be there

DON’T EVER FEEL SATISFIED JUST BEING INCLUDED:

-You deserve to be the center of attention just as much as anybody else 

-You deserve to be the superstar just as much as anybody else  

-You deserve to be the main attraction just as much as anybody else 

-You deserve to be the leader just as much as anybody else 

-You deserve to be in the middle, all eyes on you, just as much as anybody else

-You were not born to be in someone else’s shadow

*****IT IS NOT THE STANDARD FOR YOU TO BE STEPPED ON, SO THAT OTHERS CAN SHINE. IT IS NOT THE STANDARD FOR YOU TO BE USED AS A PROP SO THAT OTHERS WHO FIT SOCIETY’S “STANDARD OF BEAUTY” CAN APPEAR TO BE MORE WORTHY BY PLACING THEMSELVES IN THE MIDDLE OF A SEA OF DARKNESS, OR IN FRONT OF YOU. DO-NOT-WALK-BEHIND. DO-NOT-ALLOW-YOURSELF-TO-BE-USED-AS-PROPS*****

Beware of how you are being depicted in the media. Don’t be happy just to be included, that you accept whatever is handed to you. You are a STAR. Don’t allow yourself to follow for the sake of following. Don’t allow others to use your darkness to emphasize society’s standards of beauty. Wake up.  Always ask yourself, why am I the background dancer? Why am I not the leading role? Why am I off to the side? Why am I walking behind? Why am I in the corner? Why am I not the one sitting on the throne? Yes you. Dark skinned girl. You are worthy of sitting on the THRONE. You are a QUEEN. Don’t let anyone perpetuate colorism or racism, in order to use you as a prop, so that they can look royal and you can look basic. That is NOT your truth. That is not the standard. You deserve to LEAD. If someone really wants you to shine, they will stand WITH you. Not in front of you. Not centered in the presence of darkness so that they can be the main attraction. Think LONG and hard about who you idolize. Do they surround themselves in a sea of darkness, to appear “special” so that you can look basic? Even when they are saying that they want you to win, do they make sure that they walk in FRONT of you, while a trail of darkness walks behind? Do they make sure that darkness is never on the throne? YOU deserve to be on that throne. It may be hard to tell yourself that, it may even feel WRONG, because your whole life you’ve been told that you are not worthy. Well your whole life, you have been lied to. Colorism is a poison, and some who benefit from it, never want you to find out your true worth. Because if you found out your true worth, you would no longer walk behind them. You would no longer let yourself be used as a prop, so that they can look royal. You would know that you are EQUAL. Don’t be afraid. Tell yourself you are equal. It’s true. If someone is FOR you, they will stand with you.  EQUALLY. They will relinquish their crown of privileges.  Not everyone who says they are for you, is for you. If someone is for you, they will stand with you EQUALLY.  They will give up the privileges that they reap from colorism and racism, so that things can be fair and equal. They will not push you to the back. They will not sit on a throne while you are left without a title. They will acknowledge that you are EQUAL. It’s a matter of power. If someone is FOR you, they will stand WITH you. REMEMBER that. Not in front of you. YOU ARE A STAR. Don’t let anyone push you to the back. STEP to the FRONT.

[xplodingunicorn]

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

Too much effort

[defineyourgrind]

[whoreforhim]

Yes 💋

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

You be the change you want to see

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

So Close

Okay, so I have a story for the world. and since the only way that anyone will know whose these people really are is:

A) knowing me personally

B) the people involved realise this is about them and make note of it.

So, I have a long distance relationship. Like any relationship we have our issues. So on my last trip to see my s/o I figured we could spend your last moments trying to figure out how to fix our issues.  AND GET THIS! WE DID IT! We worked on it up until 3:30AM but we figured it out! Damn, we are freaking great for that! I was so happy!

But then, as we are celebrating our success, a girl messages my BOYFREND (Please remember this is at 3AM IN THE FUCKING MORNING) on snap chat. I confess I have trust issues and I am a jealous person. But I think that no matter what the only reason anyone is messaging another person at this time of NIGHT is because they are wanting some booty call...

Please let me know if I’m wrong. But if you match with someone on tinder it’s not to become BBFs... and if you are trying to create a “friendship” because “you are just friends” THERE SHOULD BE NO CONTACTING EACH OTHER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT!!!

Now, again, this is my opinion but there are like socially created “making friends” time frames in a day. (i.e during the day time when the sun is out. and clubbing hours so nothing after 2AM... BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE SLEEPING!!) BUT GET THIS, when I got mad about this situation (because I’m investing my time in my relationship and took time off to spend with my s/o and he rather just ignore me of put me second in line for attention when she messages him)  HE SAYS I’M OVERREACTING!!!!

I SAY I KNOW MOST FEMALES. If I match with you on tinder its because you have potential of being my next fuck. and if I know you have a girlfriend and she is spending time with you IF I WAS A DECENT FUCKING HUMAN BEING I WOULD FUCKING LEAVE YOU BOTH TO ENJOY YOUR TIME TOGETHER!!!!!

[approvers]

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

LDR:

You called me. You said you wanted me. I wasn't horny but I still tried to help you. I could hear clicking on the back.

I am not okay. I'm hurting inside.

[413key-deactivated20190214]

I am the jealous type so, what's mine is mine. Don't fuck with it.

[naturalhairqueens]

Shout out to all the women who have large behinds or large breasts, and are tired of always being over sexualized, when in reality they’re just trying to live their life, and they can’t help the fact that their shape draws attention.

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

Everyone I come across this I realize that I'm still posses about this situation

[cemeterey]

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

All the time

[youngfueg0]

[softcoreish-deactivated20240717]

Charlie Puth - Attention

[juniorrootbeer-blog]

LOTS OF IT.

IT'S MOMENTS LUKE THIS THAT MY INNER STRIPER NEEDS OUT

[softcoreish-deactivated20240717]

Chris Brown - Grass Ain’t Greener