Cis fem. She/Her. Queer. 28. Exploring aspects of my life and sexuality/sensuality. 21+ to interact. Minors, Racists, Homophobes, Misogynists, TERFS, and Conservatives DNI! Please read my pinned post
Hey there beautiful human, welcome to my little corner of this hellsite. Please give this a quick read before sending an ask or a dm
THE GROUND RULES:
-You must be this tall to ride: Be 21+ if you want to interact with this blog and please have your age clearly listed on your page or in your bio. I will block you if you don’t have your age listed or are under 21. Honestly thought about making this higher, but it’ll do for now
-We all know kink deals with some taboo subjects but: if I see you post or interact with anything dealing with pedo shit, legit dubious consent/non consent, harm to minors, bestiality, or any other truly heinous shit you’re done, one strike and you’re out. This includes those of you who are running nsfw/nsft blogs but still interact with minors on their page, it’s creepy and actively harmful, get help
-Just to make things clear: I am aggressively leftist in my politics and values and this extends to my relationship with kink and this blog. I’m more than happy to discuss this topic, but it is not up for debate. Conservatives are not welcome on my page and do not belong in this space, you are not entitled to interacting with me and I will block you
-Consent, as always, is key: I’m a fan of both the PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink) and FRIES (Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific) consent models and anything I post is made with that basis in mind. Some of the stuff I post or reblog may be triggering to some individuals and I will always do my best to tag accurately and extensively, but you still scroll through this page at your own risk. Be smart and cautious when engaging in kink, both on and offline
-The golden rule(s): Treat others (like me) how you want the person you care about most to be treated. Basically, just don’t be a complete jackass
With all that out of the way, here’s a little more about me
-You can call me Gorgon or R
-I’m a 28 year old graduate student in South Florida currently, but I’ve lived all over
-I’m cisgender, pronouns she/her. I’m a submissive, loosely queer identified (probably pansexual if I felt the need to be more specific) bottom
-I’m single (pretty much monogamous and vaguely looking, though I don’t think this is the place for it)
-For safety and privacy’s sake, I will never post full pics on here, whatever I do share is at my own discretion
-Asks and DMs are open for the moment, but please refer to the rules above before you drop in, and don’t go sending unsolicited pics or getting super sexual right off the bat, or you will be blocked. Emoji anons are fine for now but that may change in the future, again the age limit and everything else apply
The following lists are subject to change (except for hard boundaries, unless I add something to it)
Kinks(in no particular order though some of my particular faves are in bold): Praise, light degradation, masochism, bondage, consensual non-consent (cnc), teasing, orgasm control (overstim specifically), impact play, pain play, general sensation play, light breathplay/choking, oral fixations, biting, hair pulling/holding, primal play, struggle fucking/playfighting, breeding, consensual surveillance/stalking, size, soft domination, casual domination, free use, masks, manhandling, monsterfucking
Soft Boundaries(just don’t tag anything of mine with these): any age play ddlg mdlb tags, cheating/infidelity kink, foot stuff, piss/pee play (nothing against you feet and piss lovers, just not my thing)
Hard Boundaries(one way ticket to the block list):
ANY AI GENERATED CONTENT
Anything that could be used to actually doxx me (again, it’s a safety and privacy thing)
Serious violence kinks and/or paraphilias(if you have to ask you know it counts), any bigotry based kinks (again, if you have to ask…)actual cheating/infidelity, bestiality, ED (eating disorder) fetishization, abdl, incest
All that being said, thank you for stopping by lovely, drop me a message anytime (I will try my best to respond
Hide and seek should always end with unrestrained primal fucking, so that her heart races as she hides, hoping desperately against hope that you can’t find her, and so that you can see the true, cold fear in her eyes when you do finally find her hiding place and she realizes she can’t get away.
Tying you up, your hands restrained and your legs spread open and tied to the bed frame by your ankles. I work you up, making you wet by using my fingers to rub you, I degrade you calling you a stupid slut for getting so fucking wet so quickly. “Yeah, you like that baby? Let’s see how much you like this.” You open your eyes to see your dildo in my hand.
I push it inside of you, laughing at you and mocking you for just how easily it slips into your desperate little hole. “Fuck, that was easy.” I say laughing at you, you try to cover your face from the embarrassment of being such a wet slut, but I speed up my pace and you can’t help but moan and make the most pathetic noises possible. “You sound so fucking stupid baby. I’m going to give you something to really moan about.”
I unbuckle my belt, pulling my cock out and filling your disgustingly wet pussy with my already throbbing cock. I start to just ruthlessly pound into your hole while my hand is wrapped around your throat, showing you what a real cock feels like inside of you, what a real cock feels like abusing your pathetic little pussy. I pound into you, forcing you to uncontrollably cum on my cock the faster I fuck you. You spend the entire night falling in and out of consciousness, waking up to only see bits and pieces of what I spend the night doing to your vulnerable little body.
Some people had a weird reaction to this one, so let me clarify some misconceptions and express my perspective a bit more.
When we talk about kink, a lot of the time people treat safe words as if they are exclusively an expression of an absolute limit. A firm proclamation that the scene is too rough, the pain too much, the situation too extreme, and that the entire thing needs to stop. Safeword use in such situations is obviously essential and mandatory in order to bring the scene or sensation to an end and ensure the safety of all participants. This is not, however, the only time a safeword should be used.
They can be used to express when someone is at their limit. They can mean the scene needs to end completely because the sub can't take it anymore at all. But they don't have to mean that. Safewords should be used to pause or stop the scene and break character for any reason. You can also use your safeword to pause and discuss a limit, communicate that something is or isn't working for you, ensure that everything is going to plan, take a water break, go get a toy from the other room, check with your partner about something, pause to change your laundry, or do absolutely anything else out of character related to your scene.
This is why a lot of people use green/yellow/red.
Green - continue
Yellow - pause and make a change (this can be anything from "slow down a little bit" to "I need something different but want to keep going")
Red - I need this situation to be over and for us to get right into aftercare.
What a lot of people seem to miss is that in this framework yellow is also a safeword.
All of this is ignoring the additional dimension that Dominants also need to safeword!! It's completely normal and if you're doing a lot of BDSM it should happen in your daily kink life often. Real life is not a romance novel.
Using your safeword is essential and you should use it all the time, whenever you want. Breaking character during kink is normal, healthy, sexy, and fundamentally essential. Do it more often.
