why would you ever think as someone who isnât a lesbian you can comment on lesbian stuff..???????? ho you donât go here???
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why would you ever think as someone who isnât a lesbian you can comment on lesbian stuff..???????? ho you donât go here???
Animal packers arenât zoophilia in the same way that normal packers arenât sexual.. theyâre both for dysphoria, just because YOU donât feel that kind of dysphoria doesnât mean it doesnât exist ok? Ok
Ngl, if you ask someone who says "men can't be lesbians" (or y'know when the conversation is mostly about trans men lesbians) about their opinions on lesbians who are both a man and woman, both of their answers are pretty bad because it's either, 1. Saying they can't be lesbians because they're a man, even though they're a woman, so basically implying they don't see them as a real woman or 2. Say that those multigender people can be lesbians, even though they just said men can't be lesbians and kinda contradict themselves as they continue to say "men can be lesbians" ....like you just said "oh yeah a man who's also a woman can be a lesbian" so....some men can be lesbians? What are you doing right now dawg?
saying lesbians can only be nmlnm is inherently transphobic, as well as contradicting if you believe anyone that doesnât identify as a woman can be a lesbian, let me break it down.
The term ânon menâ is usually seen as no manhood or men, obviously right?, but you have to realize that saying that is ignoring the manhood of multigender, bigender, genderfluid people, AND trans women, as all have a connection to manhood or identify as a man to a degree. Saying no lesbian can be a man is quite literally kicking out those people out of the community THEY HELPED BUILD. Many lesbians have a connection to not only womanhood but also manhood, this can include butches, trans masc, and others under the nonbinary umbrella.
You basically are saying that on the days a genderfluid person is a man they HAVE to be straight, but at the same time you guys bash straight lesbians. Point is, lesbian is whatever the fuck you want it to be, and EVERYONE is welcome into this community whether they contradict the label or not because labels are not strict rules, that would go against the entire meaning of queer.
Manhood isnât inherently a bad thing, nor is it evil. Saying âthis is a no man labelâ while saying multigender and trans women can also be lesbians is just plain stupid and Iâm tired of seeing it
I love you trans women lesbians
I love you trans man lesbians
I love you non-binary lesbians
I love you agender lesbians
I love you trans fem lesbians
I love you trans masc lesbians
I love you bi-gender lesbians
I love you gender non conforming lesbians
I love you femme lesbians
I love you butch lesbians
I love you stud lesbians
I love you masc lesbians
I love you lesbians that only use âdykeâ to refer to your lesbianism
I love you lesbians that only use âwlwâ to refer to your lesbianism
I love you lesbians that only use ânmlnmâ to refer to your lesbianism
I love you lesbians that any use âas long as youâre not a cishet manâ to refer to your lesbianism
I love you lesbians that donât date women
I love you lesbians that only date women
I love you lesbians that are t4t
I love you lesbians that are in the closet
I love you lesbians that are loud and proud to be queer
I love you lesbians that are bisexual
I love you lesbians that are pansexual
I love you lesbians that are gay for men
I love you lesbians that are omnisexual
I love you lesbians that are stone tops
I love you lesbians that are pillow princesses
I love you lesbians that are tops
I love you lesbians that are bottoms
I love you lesbians that switch between top and bottom
I love you lesbians who donât participate in sex
I love you lesbians that bend the âmeaningâ of what a lesbian is
I love you lesbians that describe your gender as lesbian
I love you lesbians that only use lesbian sometimes
I love you lesbians that love men
I LOVE YOU LESBIANS DONT LET ANYONE CHANGE YOU
Iâm going to be so honest realizing you havenât been a good person to the people you love most is genuinely one of the worst feelings on planet earth
And taking accountability for that is just as hard, you wonât change overnight and you have to realize and accept that.
Iâm going to be so honest realizing you havenât been a good person to the people you love most is genuinely one of the worst feelings on planet earth
SO SORRY IF THIS IS AN UNCOMFORTABLE QUESTION. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ANSWER..
..But I'm curious why you can yourself a lesian/lesboy? (since lesbianism is fairly related to femininity in my head, and you don't seem to be comfortable with fem terms?) I'm mainly wondering if it's just a "label that just fits right" situation or if there's something deeper
I'm asking this on anon bc I think some of my friends would stare at me sideways for interacting..
I FREL I SHOULD CLARIFY. ily lesboys idc if you tell me or not you DO NOT NEED to "prove" your usage of lesboy to me as something "acceptable," I'm just asking for like. Personal noting/education because I don't see a lot of y'all.
PEACE AND LOVE ON PLANET EARTH I have better things to worry about in my country. Idc if a boy is a lesbian right now, the liberals share minority government with the conservatives, and I'm scared đ°
HIHI!! This is a wonderful ask anon!!, and I donât mind answering at all!! So basically, I have identified as a lesbian since I was around 8 years old, and Iâve been attracted to women since before that.(obviously)
I have always been a lesbian and to me my gender will never change that because whether Iâm a man, woman, or anything in between my love for women (and non men) is still sapphic!! Also lesbian has always included trans masculine (and masculine people in general) lesbianism was build and held up by mainly butch lesbians and trans lesbians!!, they (among fems) were the main group fighting for our rights and still do to this day. Lesbianism is not inherently a feminine sexuality and has all different sorts of gendered human beings in it!! While yes, it does include femininity and is for unique relationships to womanhood a lot of lesbians arenât feminine at all!!
I am a firm believer in if the boot fits wear it for labels, even if itâs contradictory because at the end of the day it doesnât hurt anyone. I also believe that labels can have any description you want as long as youâre still believing other peopleâs definitions are also valid!! For me personally lesbian has always just been, well, me! My definition for lesbian is âI will date anyone who isnât a cis man as long as theyâre also lesbian and transâ and thatâs what lesbian means to me!, some lesbians are just âwomen loving womenâ or even ânon men loving non menâ and their definition is also valid to me!!
TDLR; I have always felt sapphic love towards people and my gender doesnât change that!!, lesbianism isnât inherently a feminine label, every definition of a sexuality is okay and valid, be who you are for your pride.
Thank you so much for asking and being genuinely interested to hear my answer I hope that you learned something and can better understand my and others label! :3
You saying that trans men canât be lesbians but trans masculine people can be makes 0 sense. All trans men are trans masculine by definition. not all trans masculine people are trans men but all trans men are trans masculine. So by saying trans masculine people can be lesbians youâre saying trans men can be lesbians but then youâre turning around and saying the opposite make it make sense.
Had to explain the trans man lesbian thing again lmfao
When will Gen Z stop feeling threatened by ftms for identifying with the lesbian community, calling themselves lesbians, calling themselves male lesbians, ftm lesbians, lesboys, etc. Go to a lesbian bar please.
Gender and sexuality is weird. Telling ftm lesbians to "identify as nonbinary" is weird. Some people just aren't nonbinary, they're ftm and lesbians. Who are you to tell someone how they experience their gender and sexuality?
Lots of people make the argument that "identifying as contradictory labels invalidates everyone." Other people's identities are not invalidating your own. Your validation doesn't depend on how other people who don't know you exist. There is no wrong way to identify or express your gender.
Im ftm and non-binary.
If i call myself a non-binary lesbian i have my manhood entirely erased, i have lesbians who are not attracted to men hit on me and then accuse me of lying to them for not admitting im a man.
If i call myself a lesboy/ftm lesbian/boy butch i get accused of invading womens spaces, of harassing gay women, of being a straight man.
I cannot water down my identity as a lesbian without being harassed so i just use it all collectively. The right people accept me and the wrong people stay very far away, just the way i like it.
I should not have to hide parts of myself to be accepted. I can be a man and woman at the same time
This.
âYou think trans men can be lesbians..?, that mean cis men can be lesbians too??â Youâre not gonna like my answer. At the end of the day, I genuinely couldnât give half of a fuck on what someone else is identifying as because I personally have bigger things to worry about than what a random person I donât know identifies as. All of you sound like TERFS and that isnât a flex or cute
âW..well.. if you identify as lesbian they wonât see us as real men..!â They already donât??
Just because someoneâs identity is more complex than you (i.e. trans man lesbians) does not mean theyâre invalid. It just means that their identity is more complex than yours. It is not hurting you in any shape or form and your identity should not be that closely tied to someone elseâs. No one is saying youâre a trans man lesbian theyâre saying they are. Theyâre saying that they are allowed to be here in this community and you saying they canât is so clearly showing that you are not only uneducated, but also not culturally queer, or know anyone in real life who is queer, ORR have ever been to a pride event.
â oh well theyâre just saying theyâre not a manâ Even if that was what theyâre saying why do you care itâs not affecting you in the slightest? These trans men lesbians are actually like 50 people. Yâall are making such a humongous deal out of like 50 people and itâs actually kind of crazy who gives a shit what people identify with because at the end of the day itâs night and you will be okay if someone chooses to identify with something that is contradictory. You guys make it so clear you only care about yourselves in this not how other people feel about their OWN identity. Let people identify however the fuck they want. Because they all want us dead anyways.
Biggest problem a trans person should have is binder getting sweaty or accidentally sitting on weewee during tuck.
Transphobia shouldnt exist.
âiâm not woke enough for thisâŠâ get?? woker??