#lesboy discourse

[graveyardtransmed]

“lesboy”

just say you’re lesbophobic and transphobic and get over yourself

[kaizramblez]

“You think trans men can be lesbians..?, that mean cis men can be lesbians too??” You’re not gonna like my answer. At the end of the day, I genuinely couldn’t give half of a fuck on what someone else is identifying as because I personally have bigger things to worry about than what a random person I don’t know identifies as. All of you sound like TERFS and that isn’t a flex or cute

[chaos-in-one]

"People who label as lesboys are fine as long as they don't ACTUALLY identify as men" do you even hear yourself

[emojiblrisuneducated]

everytime trans individuals finally get together the CIA plants some bs into our brains like lesboy discourse

[scrilladge]

GOD THE FUCKING LESBOYS DEBATE IS ON TIKTOK GUYS ITS SO ANNOYING

DIDNT WE SETTLE THIS SEVERAL YEARS AGO ON TUMBLR

Why are children on tiktok so obsessed with arguing with people and trying to police identities why is it only a problem now 😭

also none of them want to learn queer history and have such a rigid veiw of gender and queerness

btw guys it may not be obvious but my identity is: Non-binary any pronouns butch autistic lesbian

it feels like tiktok kids only veiw nonbianry people as ‘women I guess’ in the context of lesbianism

sorry to complain about tiktok on tumblr I just am so annoyed and I find tumblr compared to tiktok allows for more nuanced discussion of these topics

These terfs (trans exclusionary feminists) are acting as though these identités aren’t just labeles for really complex brain chemistry.

Also for some reason they keep comparing lesboys to ‘transracial’ people 😭 like WTF

Why is there so much drama from lesbians

also all the comments on any video that is like ‘lesboys exsist stop hating peolle’ ALL the comments are hateful towards transmasc lesbians

I DONT EVEN INTERACT WOTH ANY OF THESE POSTS BUT FOR SOME REASON TIKTOK KEEPS SHOWING THEM TO ME EVEN THIUGH ALL I GO TO TIKTOK FOR IS HETALIA MEMES AND FURRY DANCING VIDEOS

[luckiestboy]

Saw a post today that the RBS of were reading the url of someone (sapphic-boy) and just... Calling him straight?

what happened to people.... Not imposing a label onto other's or denying their own way of self-describing?

Also hot take the only group you should be trying to bar from labeling as sapphic or lesbian is cishet men because cishet men who do try to call themselves male lesbians are usually creeps.

The inverse goes with cishet women and labeling as gay/achillean through that's less common to see ig.

And I'm talking cishet specifically.

No, I don't care if some binary trans men label themselves as lesbian or sapphic while being men, the way someone's genderqueerness interacts with their sexuality is complex, our language can only do so much to convey that. Either way it's not like you're forced to be into the local lesboy or whatever. There's this funny thing called "you don't have to be attracted to every other lesbian or sapphic that's alive, just don't be an asshole to them."

[uvradical]

it's wild to see all the anti he/him lesbian discourse on tiktok, cause on tumblr calling men lesbians is a time honored tradition.

[exclusinclusandinbetween]

Is it weird that I always found the exclusionists community more comforting and close than the general LGBTQ community? It's weird. Maybe I still have leftover transmed in me. Like, not everyone was a full exclusionist on every subject. There were pan truscum, ace battle-axe-bi people, there were non-binary aroace-exclusionists... (Battle-axe bi people and truscums were more common.) There were posts that were full of people excluding other exclusionists. And even then, it was mostly just. Kindness, ironically. To be fair, the community I was in, exclusionist lgballt, was kinder on the scale. And also it typically didn't speak of the more recent things, which may effect the intensity.

But now, it seems like the "non-exclusionist" community has more aggressive exclusionists. More than people invading other discourse sides, it has way more divides. There is MOGAI discourse, AEMOGAI vs MOGAI, m-spec lesbian and gay discourse, lesboy and turigirl discourse, discourse there, discourse everywhere.

I am extremely varied on the sides of discourse myself. I'd be considered transmedicalist, but still pro-mogai, ace inclusionist, m-spec identities supporter, etc.

Am I bad for thinking this? For wanting that old simplicity and tight community back? Is there something wrong with me?