On Friday a friend called me, she was going to a wedding up north of Lyon, her sister was supposed to be her plus one but she flaked last minute, did I want to go? Leaving in a couple of hours? I said yes, and so we went. The drive was about six hours, to a tiny village that we almost couldn't find. The ceremony on Saturday was beautiful. I didn't know a single person beside the friend I came with, but everyone was friendly. The town hall service (only weddings performed by a city official are legally recognized) was held in the tiny mairie, with the trophies won by the village handball team on the old wooden shelves, and the official poster of the president off to the side. Like all French weddings, it was quite bureaucratique, with the mayor reading the names and addresses of the couple and their witnesses and their parents, and reciting the relevant articles of the Code Civile, concluding with 'the administrative formalities have been completed, you may congratulate the happy couple.' Unlike the wedding I went to two years ago, the attendants gave little speeches (yes, the best man did start with 'the dictionary defines celebrate as...') and the bride and groom said their own vows (the groom read his off his phone) and they were both tearing up, and even though I hadn't even known these people existed 24 hours previously, I was getting misty eyed too. The reception and dinner was at the couple's home, in their backyard, a whole three minute walk from the mairie. The yard bordered a pond on one side and fields on the other. They had a little tent and hung lanterns all around. The local butcher had been hired to provide dinner, and he'd set up that morning, and was turning the pigs on the roast by hand. Even for a fairly low key affair, French people don't joke with wine. We had a '96 Chateau Margaux at our table, there was a '96 St Emilion that I wanted to try, but I thought better of trying to steal it from the groom's grandmother. It's been raining nonstop in most of the country, but the clouds held off for most of the day, until right about dinner time, when there was torrential downpour. It didn't last long, but the yard was basically a mud puddle after that. The bride's dress was filthy, but she switched to her rain boots, and all was well. We ended the night quite late drinking Jura (I'm not even sure what it is but at that point all I could register was Oh! Strong! Tingle in tummy!). Yesterday we rolled out of our hotel beds and headed back to Toulouse. There was more traffic, and I didn't get back home until five minutes before I had to leave again to go to a planning meeting for an association I volunteer for. I didn't actually get to take off my shoes and pants until nearly 9 pm. That was the first time I checked the news, and read about Orlando.