I am not a caregiver myself, these are just things that as a little I see valuable in one.
1. Same with Littles, learn communities and their rules.
I personally am still learning them all, but I try my very hardest to be respectful.
2. When looking for a Little, look in the community that you are a part of, and be respectful.
I can’t tell you how many times people send me inappropriate stuff. I’m completely a non sexual little, and it really upsets me when people treat me otherwise.
3. If your little would like them, create rules and/or chores.
Sticker charts are especially motivating to get things done. Rules are a good way to add structure to your Little’s life, just be careful about too many rules, because it can be hard to remember them all.
Teachers have teacher voices, parents have parent voices, caregivers have caregiver voices! It’s your special stern voice that let’s us know you’re in charge.
5. Be smart about punishments.
Some caregivers like to have punishments for when their little misbehaves. You have to be careful about what is and isn’t an appropriate punishments. Taking away a comfort item if it helps them with anxiety is not. Time out, no dessert, having to write an apology, etc. usually are.
6. Learn their headspace, as well as your own.
CAREGIVERS HAVE A BIG HEAD SPACE JUST LIKE WE HAVE A LITTLE ONE. Learn what helps your little feel little, as well as what helps you feel big.
7. Of course, enjoy yourself.
Being a caregiver is a big job, whether or not you have a little. Just remember you’re doing great! Take a deep breath and enjoy it.
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