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Can Divorce Make You Sick? Sadly Yes. Let’s Talk About It. I can tell you from personal experience: divorce can absolutely make you sick. When I discovered that my husband of 37 years had filed for legal separation, the shock hit me like a physical blow. I had no idea this was coming. There was […]

Did you know that divorce can actually make you physically sick? The insomnia, the loss of appetite, the anxiety, the depression... these are not just emotional responses. They are real, documented physical symptoms that many of us going through divorce experience but rarely talk about. In my latest blog post I share my own experience, what the experts are saying, and practical steps that can help you begin to heal. If you are in the middle of this journey or know someone who is, this post is worth a read. You are not alone, and healing is possible. Click the link. 💛

Inspirational Quote by Eleanor Roosevelt. You Must Do the Things You Think You Cannot Do “You must do the things you think you cannot do.”Eleanor Roosevelt There is something about that quote that stops me every single time I read it. It is so simple. So short. And yet it has a way of looking […]

Eleanor Roosevelt said it best: "You must do the things you think you cannot do." I love this quote because it is a reminder that the things worth doing are rarely the easy ones. In my latest blog post I share how this quote has inspired me to push through the hard parts of my own journey and keep going after my goals. If you have something on your heart that keeps calling you forward, this one is for you. Click the link and let's cheer each other on. 💛

Telling Your Story Through Journal Prompts: What Celebrity Would You Take to Lunch? Welcome back to our monthly journal prompt series, Telling Your Story Through Journal Prompts. This series exists because your story matters. Once we are gone, there is no one left to tell it, and while the people who love us are busy […]

It is time for our monthly journal prompt, and this one is a fun one! If you could go to lunch with any celebrity, who would it be and why? I share my answer in this post, and let me just say, I already know who is picking up the check. 😄 This is part of my Telling Your Story Through Journal Prompts series, because your story matters and it deserves to be told. Once we are gone, there is no one left to tell it for us. So grab your journal, answer the prompt, and drop your answer in the comments. I would love to know who you would choose! Click the link to read the full post. 📖✨

Beware the Narcissist: Flying Monkeys Part of the ongoing series: Beware the Narcissist I research narcissism because divorce touches millions of lives every year, and far too many people going through that process have encountered it without ever having a name for what they experienced. In fact, one notable analysis of 3,200 divorce records found […]

Have you ever felt like people around you suddenly knew too much, took sides too quickly, or turned against you for reasons you could not explain? If you have been through a difficult divorce or relationship with a narcissist, there is a name for what you experienced. They are called flying monkeys, and they are one of the most painful tools in the narcissist's playbook. In my latest Beware the Narcissist post, I break down exactly what flying monkeys are, why good people sometimes become them without even knowing it, and most importantly, how to protect yourself. If this resonates with you, read it. And if you know someone who needs it, share it. You never know who is quietly trying to make sense of the very same thing.

Let’s continue on with our series on stress relief and self-care. As I’ve mentioned throughout this series, not every method is going to be the right fit for everyone, and that’s completely okay. The goal is to explore different options and find what works for you. Today I want to talk about yoga. Now, I’ll […]

Have you ever tried yoga as a stress relief tool? I decided to step outside my comfort zone and give it a try as a beginner, and I have to say, it has some real potential! In my latest blog post, I am sharing what yoga actually does for your stress levels, a few beginner-friendly poses to get you started, and my honest take coming from a cardio girl who loves Zumba and Body Combat. Whether yoga becomes your new go-to or just a tool you pull out on a tough day, it is worth exploring. Check it out and let me know what you think! #yoga #stressrelief #selfcare #beginners #kathieysworld, kathieyvwriter,

Navigating Healthcare After Divorce: What I Wish I Had Known After nearly 40 years of marriage, my ex left without warning. And in the middle of everything that followed, the grief, the logistics, the complete restructuring of my entire life, I had to figure out something I had never had to think about before. Healthcare. […]

Brooches are having a major moment in 2026 - and honestly, it feels personal. My mom wore them long before they were trending, and seeing this revival sweep Pinterest has brought back some beautiful memories. Come along as I share why this accessory is everywhere right now, and how it inspired my newest printable wall art designs over in my Etsy shop.

Did you know Pinterest is reporting a 500% surge in brooch searches right now? Brooches are making a major comeback and I have to say, this one feels personal to me. I am sharing the story of my mom's little cameo brooch, why this trend is so much more than fashion, and how it inspired a brand new collection in my Etsy shop. Come read the full post and see what I created. I think you are going to love it! 🌸✨

Embracing Your New Identity After Divorce Divorce does not just end a marriage. It quietly dismantles the person you thought you were. I recently came across an article on Hello Divorce called Embracing Your New Identity After Divorce, and I found myself nodding along to parts of it, pushing back on others, and filling in the […]

Divorce does not just end a marriage. It can quietly take away your sense of self, your direction, and sometimes even your joy. I know that feeling firsthand. I recently came across an article on Hello Divorce about embracing your new identity after divorce, and I had a lot of thoughts. Some I agreed with, some I did not, and all of it took me back to my own journey through one of the hardest seasons of my life. If you are navigating life after divorce, or still carrying the weight of one that ended years ago, this post is for you. You are not alone, and there is beauty waiting on the other side. Click the link to read the full post. 💛

Need Stress Relief? Try Taking a Bath. Life has a way of piling things on. Work, relationships, responsibilities, the nonstop mental chatter that follows you from room to room. We all need a release valve, and most of us are looking for one that does not require a gym membership or an hour we do […]

Stress has a way of sneaking up on you, and sometimes the best thing you can do is simply slow down and take care of yourself. I am not typically a bath person, but I decided to try something different, an intentional stress relief bath, and honestly? It surprised me. From the candles to the aromatherapy to just sitting still for a few minutes, it made a real difference. I am sharing exactly what I did, what worked, what did not, and why I plan to keep doing it. If you have been feeling the weight of stress lately, this one is for you. Click the link to read the full post! 🛁✨

Navigating healthcare costs on your own can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to something as important as your vision. The good news is that quality eye care does not have to break the bank. From affordable vision insurance plans and online glasses retailers to free community programs and simple preventive habits, there are more options available than most people realize. Let's take a look at some practical ways to protect your eyes and your wallet at the same time.

Taking care of your eyes should not mean emptying your wallet! 👀✨ My latest blog post breaks down some really practical ways to save on eye exams, glasses, and contact lenses, including affordable vision insurance options, online retailers you may not have heard of, and even some free community programs that could make a real difference. I also share some simple everyday habits that can protect your vision and help you avoid costly problems down the road. If you or someone you love is navigating healthcare costs on your own, this one is for you. Head over to the blog and let me know if any of these tips help! 💛 #EyeCare #SavingMoney #VisionHealth #SelfCare #HealthAfterDivorce #KathieysWorld

Dating again after many years can feel exciting, awkward, and a little overwhelming all at once. In this post, we’re talking about what to realistically expect on a first date — from nerves and conversation to safety, chemistry, and learning to enjoy the experience again. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, or simply stepping back into the dating world, this guide offers supportive, real-life advice to help you feel more confident putting yourself back out there.

Dating again after being married for many years can feel exciting, awkward, scary, and hopeful all at the same time. If you’ve recently stepped back into the dating world, you are definitely not alone. In my newest post, I’m sharing what to realistically expect on a first date — from the nerves and awkward pauses to safety tips, conversation, and learning how to actually enjoy the experience again. Because sometimes getting back out there starts with one simple coffee date and a little courage. 💕

Monthly MotivationHe Directs Our Path During my grandson Caleb’s spring break, we decided to visit a different museum each day for three days. At the first museum, there was a special exhibit featuring challenging mazes and puzzles. I’ll admit, I’m not great at navigating mazes, but we were eager to give it a try. The […]

Navigating healthcare after a divorce presents many challenges, and dental care costs can add to the burden. Dental procedures often come with hefty price tags, and managing these expenses on your own can feel overwhelming. While I can’t guarantee significant savings, this post offers practical tips and useful insights that may help you better manage […]

Divorce can bring many changes, including the challenge of managing your own dental care. If you’re navigating health insurance and dental expenses post-divorce, my latest post offers helpful insights and options to help you take control of your dental health. Whether you’re looking for affordable solutions or just want to understand your choices better, this post is worth a read.

Life can get stressful, and sometimes we all need to hit the pause button and find a little fun or peace—even if only for a moment. I like to call this a mindful, positive distraction. That’s why I set aside Fridays to share something enjoyable, whether it’s a fun activity, a cherished memory, or just […]

It’s Fun Friday, and I’m whipping up something inspired by the Chopped show! This week, I’m diving into the delicious world of Enoki mushrooms paired with a unique Asian sauce that I recreated. If you love trying new flavors and cooking adventures, this is a post you don’t want to miss. Ready to get inspired in the kitchen? Check out my latest post!

Medical procedures can be costly, and managing these expenses alone after a divorce adds an extra layer of challenge. While I can’t promise you drastic savings, this post shares practical tips and insights that might help make your medical bills more manageable. I hope it provides clarity on your options and helps lighten the financial […]

Divorce brings many changes, and managing your health care is one of the most important—and sometimes most stressful—challenges. In this latest post from my Navigating Health Care After Divorce series, we focus on medical procedures and explore practical insights to help you understand and manage the costs involved. If you’re facing new health care decisions post-divorce, this post is here to offer clarity and support.

Divorce and Stress. Divorce is often ranked as one of the most stressful life events—second only to the death of a spouse. Personally, I see an unwanted divorce as being like a form of death with intent, making it deeply painful. Stress from such experiences can significantly impact both your health and well-being. With this […]

I love to travel. I enjoy exploring my home state of North Carolina and crossing the state line to explore other parts of the country and beyond. Now that I am divorced, I travel alone. I figure if I wait for someone to go with me, I may never go, so I gladly accept the […]

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