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~Just a transsexual ball of lesbian yearning~ -she/her- I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

"Fascists are hijacking America's 250th anniversary!"

This country has always been fascist. It was fascist before Mussolini coined the word to describe fascism. The United States is the benchmark for fascism, the blueprint from which Hitler's Germany, Mussolini's Italy, and Franco's Spain all drew inspiration. The United States is the neck of the fascist hydra from which all heads spring.

Fascists can't "hijack" something they've been a part of since the beginning. July 4th is a fascist holiday.

Denying this, pretending that Trump and his followers are some new phenomenon, does absolutely nothing but serve the interests of those fascists and esure that nothing ever changes here.

Fuck the U.S. Empire.

[cholerascum]

i shaved my legs and showered and became the softest thing alive.

YOU CAN TOO!!!! TAKE ESTROGEN!!! BE A GIRL!!! BE SOFT!!!!!

[sauergirl]

I've found that more often than not, the call for "unity" among trans women and trans men is a call for return to the status quo, one where those bitchy trans women aren't so critical of hegemonic masculinity. We must strive for a more perfect unity by working together to undermine this status quo, lest the bodies of my sisters stack higher and higher by failing to acknowledge the forces at play here, the systemic transmisogyny that kills trans women again and again.

[crazygnomenclature]

Just need a look under the hood.

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[crazygnomenclature]

I see this sign so often

[creatureofthecornfield]

its insane to witness the bullshit tmras spread here entering other websites.

no, there isn't a forcefem agenda and anyone who says there is cant understand when people are joking.

no, transmascs arent invisible, trans women are hypervisible and targeted for it.

kill all tmra's

[crazygnomenclature]

Just need a look under the hood.

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[kayla-denker]

I wish people would stop derailing my post about trans women's periods to talk about trans men's periods. Yes, obviously you deserve to talk about yours too, but could you make your own goddamn post about it?

There is *zero* space reserved for trans women to talk about our periods. Most trans women keep quiet about our symptoms every month, opting to suffer in silence, because most people get very angry at us for even so much as mentioning that we get periods. Any time there is any kind of event to talk about trans people's periods and offer support for them, trans women are excluded.

So could you stop pushing us out of my own goddamned post about it!!

[fearlessfeministcat]

Periods are a fluctuation of 4 key hormones

Fsh oestrogen lh and progesterone

Hrt consists of typically one hormone taken on a regular basis such as the case of oestrogen based hrt for feminising effects

This means that people taking this hrt are not experiencing the fluctuations of hormones that cause the symptoms of periods.

This is not transphobia this is how periods work.

[kayla-denker]

uh huh, sure...

[rattanwhip]

What's in a name

[yxkipop]

Anyways- back into the depths I go 🚶‍♂️

[aesungaia]

Everyone's Friend

[pixeljade]

im fuckin sorry but if youre a trans man with authority and youre putting out talks on how "trans lesbians are just crossdressing men" you're just a fucking TERF and no your trans status does not fucking negate that. Unlearn bioessentialism or be hated alongside JKR, fuck you

[puppycat-boydyke]

i can’t stress this enough. to be a good ally/friend/partner to the TMAs in your life, it is imperative that you learn about transfeminism and how to spot and name transmisogyny.

this happens all the time. one of my friends or partners will be telling me about a weird interaction they had, worried that THEY had acted “weird.” and i’m like. i think that was transmisogyny and that the weird feeling might actually just be a very valid judgment of how you are regarded by this person/space. and it is because of transmisogyny. not because you “acted weird.”

and so often they’ll be like. oh my god you’re right. ATTN: DO NOT MANSPLAIN TRANSMISOGYNY TO HER. DO NOT go on a long rant about transmisogyny to prove how much you’ve learned about transfeminism. it’s not about you. simply point it out from an outside perspective, and then let her talk. this should he reserved for times when she seems to be blaming herself for things. look out for worry about seeming weird or coming off a certain way. if she’s feeling worried and anxious about her own behavior, she might not be seeing the outside forces.

DO NOT. interrupt her to ☝️that’s transmisogyny! her if she’s already venting about SOMEONE ELSE’S BEHAVIOR. she knows. if i’m not sure, i’ll just ask explicitly if they want my opinion or not. regardless, it is useful and necessary for allyship to be able to recognize and point out transmisogyny.

you know, that way you can also check yourself against the transmisogyny parameters, look for dog whistles from other TMEs, and build transfeminist allyship with other TMEs who will also help check you and themselves so we can all stop making transfems do it alone.

please and thank you.

[kayla-denker]

I'm not a Deltarune fan. Nothing wtong with the game, its just not the kind of game Im into. But I am queer and on tumblr, so I am very much aware of it and its developments.

I think the horribke reaction by most people to Jax from TADC being confirmed as transfem is only a small taste of how awful being are going to be when Ralsei is positively confirmed to be transfem. You're already seeing it ramp up with reactions to the strong hinting of it in the recent chapter.

With how popular this game is, I think its gonna make the awful reactions to Bridgit look quaint.

[pixeljade]

respectfully, if youre a trans man speaking over trans women on the topic of "the supreme court specifically passed a ruling allowing states to ban trans people from participating SPECIFICALLY in womens/girls sports" you gotta fucking shut the fuck up

If you can't recognize that this is targetting trans women at this point, you're as dangerous to transfems as any transphobe!!!!! the most you should be saying is "I stand in solidarity with my sisters, here's some links to transfem funds to help out", and if you have any itch to make it more about you *stomp it out like the misogynistic urge it is*

[kayla-denker]

Ok, so you don't like TMA/TME. You don't like that its a "harmful binary."

Good! You should hate it!

We do too. That's the whole point. You think we like being subjected to transmisogyny?

The problem is that you are regarding transfeminists, and trans women in general, as if we are the ones who created this situation instead of the transmisogynists who actually created it and are enforcing it. We're just describing it, giving it a name so that we can fight it. If you hate it so much, why are you attacking the women who are trying to end it?

[puppycat-boydyke]

WRONG. It is a descriptive way to say “transfem” and “not transfem” by focusing on the systems of oppression that uniquely target and denigrate transfems into the category of “third sex” placed below literally everybody who isn’t a trans woman.

This person is literally being transmisogynistic by focusing on “but we should use different words!” rather than engaging with the actual issue, which is to say, transmisogyny and the effect it has on trans women as a social class. Don’t fucking do this.

[bourtange]

republicans: homeless people should be ground into sausage and fed to schoolchildren

democrats: persons experiencing houselessness should be ground into sausage and fed to schoolchildren