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~Just a transsexual ball of lesbian yearning~ -she/her- I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

I already have zero tolerance for the full-throated transmisogynists, but I somehow have even less tolerance for the UwU smol bean birthday boy transmisogynists. Like, its a negative tolerance for them.

You don't get to play the sensative victim while you're actively being a transmisogynist. Say that shit with your whole chest and just call me a fucking slur. The only thing worse than a bigot is a cowardly bigot.

[selenethevampirequeen]

You say, while saying a slur.

Let me make this clear, WE DO NOT MAKE FUN OF TRANSMASC PEOPLE IN THIS COMMUNITY.

Zero tolerance for it, none.

[kayla-denker]

"Birthday Boy" is not a slur, lmao.

Fuck off, transmisogynist scum.

[newholecity]

if dave grohl tell us straight up kurt was a woman ill forgive the foo fighters

[kayla-denker]

I still won't forgive them for the aids denial but he should do it anyway

[kayla-denker]

I wanna see something.

Here, have some gorgeous pictures of the stunningly beautiful Nyakim Gatwech

If nothing happens, then you just got so see a pretty lady and we all get to be happy.

[morganitism]

@staff @humans @photomatt why are you racist

[morganitism]

Still in content label review but you can murk trannies within 24 hours of them making a blog @staff @humans @photomatt

[morganitism]

Mature label is still on this but @staff is still nuking transfems and Black people while making excuses for it. But yeah you "moderate behavior, not identity" and that's why Black people and transfems get flagged just for existing. Enjoy your lawsuit because that statement sure as hell ain't helping you

[morganitism]

So not only has this been in content label review for nearly three months when they can nuke transfems 10 times in a day, not only did they or their systems see Black people and hit a mature label, not only have they ghosted every single harassment report me or one of my friends or sisters have made, not only do they allow literal Nazis run around on their site without any consequences, but they specifically flagged my reblog of this post because we can't have a Black tranny enjoying things in peace. Transfems being happy is clearly sexually explicit content after all.

@staff Would you like to acknowledge this or are you too busy stalking and terming disabled mutual aid dependent trannies?

[girl-poss]

[insaneassylum]

People who say jax isnt trans, or jax is trans FTM have such AUDACITY!! Imagine you make a self insert character of your trauma with being a trans woman. And your fandom is still debating over jax's trauma. Even though you came out and said she is a trans woman.

Yes the writting is shit, yes I also thought jax was FTM. But choosing to make her trans FTM in your head and jumping over peoples logic just to fit your narrative is pushing that toxic mindset.. that trans woman are easily pushed to the side, easily stepped over.. but isnt it crazy that if jax was ftm, she would be way more acknowledge.. because the world is so fucking male centered.

Yes the writting was so bad. Genuinely. I thought truly thought she was FTM because how she was explained seemed so similar to my experience... But after gooseworx heavily pointed at jax being one of the dolls, I feel like its very rude to ignore representation. Oh and not to mention, ofc your not gonna understand the MTF representation if you yourself arent MTF.. GASP, crazy. I am genderfluid. Trans masc. So ofc I read jax as being FTM because his experience was very similar to mine. But that shouldnt take away the representation of the dolls. And when u learn it was just bad writting, and you call yourself and activist. You should humble yourself and walk away from said hill, dont die on it. Your head cannon will never uprank cannon.

And if you say the writing wasnt bad.. I just dont understand the representation. Normally I would agree! However I seen good trans women representation.. I didnt even KNOW she was trans or even hinted at it during the fucking show!! Like whaaaat??? We should have seen more trans representation on jax's side. If an author is trying to make representation, it should be easier to pick up

But again, that's just my opinion ✨️ You have yours, I will have mine. And we can smoke a joint or share a beer over it. Its not that deep 🤷‍♂️

[kayla-denker]

Its not "bad writing" because you misinterpreted the foreshadowing while thousands of trans women correctly read it years ago, especially since Gooseworx based Jax's behavior on her own when she was in the closet. It can't be bad writing when its based on actual real life, it just means that it wasn't written for you.

Being written for an audience that isn't you =/= bad writing.

[insaneassylum]

I just wanna start off by saying EEEEE thank u for replying I love having discussions so much haha.. but uhhh to start the rant off lol I completely understand it wasnt for me. However in general people all the time say tadc should have been written in a deeper more thoughtful way. At times it just felt like the show itself was throwing out different things towards the audiance and didnt let anything truly stick. I would love to have a conversation about it with you, however sadly your comments arent activated. We should have seen more of jax's dysphoria, more of her homelife. We should have seen more representation from her. Thats where I believe the writing was off. I believe representation is such a helpful thing. That communities that aren't gay or trans should be able to pick it up. I believe thats how we move forward as a society. By giving the experiences of minority people to people that are not apart of those communities, if a cis straight man sees his favorite character is actually trans. It can help him realize and empathize with other minority communities. Thats where im coming from. But I totally get your pov, I just enjoy talking, yapping, and spreading my opinions on a site for no reason, lol. Thank you for giving me your opinion, it helps further my mindset and world view 💖

[kayla-denker]

Gooseworx was literally the only writer for the show. That's an unbelievable amount of work for a single person. Most shows like this are written by a team, which is how we're able to get more in-depth perspectives like that, because that takes a ton of work.

But I also think Gooseworx wanted it to go exactly how it did: obvious for trans women, while everyone else is left going "there were no signs!" Because this show was written by a trans woman for trans women; that is something all of us have to endure hearing when we come out. For us, and for other trans women, the signs were always obvious. But those same signs sail right over the heads of everyone else, because trans women are always an afterthought when we aren't outright dismissed as a possibility.

[insaneassylum]

People who say jax isnt trans, or jax is trans FTM have such AUDACITY!! Imagine you make a self insert character of your trauma with being a trans woman. And your fandom is still debating over jax's trauma. Even though you came out and said she is a trans woman.

Yes the writting is shit, yes I also thought jax was FTM. But choosing to make her trans FTM in your head and jumping over peoples logic just to fit your narrative is pushing that toxic mindset.. that trans woman are easily pushed to the side, easily stepped over.. but isnt it crazy that if jax was ftm, she would be way more acknowledge.. because the world is so fucking male centered.

Yes the writting was so bad. Genuinely. I thought truly thought she was FTM because how she was explained seemed so similar to my experience... But after gooseworx heavily pointed at jax being one of the dolls, I feel like its very rude to ignore representation. Oh and not to mention, ofc your not gonna understand the MTF representation if you yourself arent MTF.. GASP, crazy. I am genderfluid. Trans masc. So ofc I read jax as being FTM because his experience was very similar to mine. But that shouldnt take away the representation of the dolls. And when u learn it was just bad writting, and you call yourself and activist. You should humble yourself and walk away from said hill, dont die on it. Your head cannon will never uprank cannon.

And if you say the writing wasnt bad.. I just dont understand the representation. Normally I would agree! However I seen good trans women representation.. I didnt even KNOW she was trans or even hinted at it during the fucking show!! Like whaaaat??? We should have seen more trans representation on jax's side. If an author is trying to make representation, it should be easier to pick up

But again, that's just my opinion ✨️ You have yours, I will have mine. And we can smoke a joint or share a beer over it. Its not that deep 🤷‍♂️

[kayla-denker]

Its not "bad writing" because you misinterpreted the foreshadowing while thousands of trans women correctly read it years ago, especially since Gooseworx based Jax's behavior on her own when she was in the closet. It can't be bad writing when its based on actual real life, it just means that it wasn't written for you.

Being written for an audience that isn't you =/= bad writing.

[calamity-corner]

"hiding behind your identity as a shield" ah yes trans women, classically the group of people most often treated fairly and given the most benefit of the doubt. nobody has any preconceived notions about trans women, society says nothing negative about them, The Ultimate Criticism Magnet is clearly the best shield someone could use to deflect criticism

[calamity-corner]

what kind of alternate reality do you live in where being a trans woman shields you from literally any criticism, genuinely. we don't have to get into all the widespread legal and social ways trans women specifically are easy and frequent targets, we don't even have to look further than queer tumblr specifically. if the trans woman has dozens of accounts entirely dedicated to criticizing her then i don't think her identity as a trans woman is really "shielding" her from anything, now is it?

[calamity-corner]

people love to say "we hate you because you're a trans woman and we hate trans women" and then when you say "hey this person hates me for being a trans woman" they go "why are you making this about identity politics"

[389]

[estroghoul]

"grab life by the balls" "life's a bitch" okay yeah, clearly life is TMA and we must cling to her

[ghostlyharrow]

we aren’t even allowed to be experts on our own experiences. we have to be spoken down to like children, and be spoken over with gross misrepresentations by people who claim to be our allies and kin. university panels on transfeminity by a bunch of tmes. trans lesbians being called pervert crossdressers by supposedly well-respected scholars of queer and gender studies. We have been abandoned holy shit we have been completely abandoned

[sin0fempathy]

abt the last post i reblogged: i have made SO MANY of the same points trans women have been making time and time again on this blog. i’ve advocated against punitive “justice” and the psychiatric system, and advocated for youth liberation and the fact that trans women are functionally and societally women in every way that matters.

have i gotten banned for it? no. have i gotten reblogged and harassed a billion times by kiwifarmers and TWERF stalker blogs? no. none of this has happened, because i am not transfem, and these exile campaigns are primarily targeted at those who are.

hell, if i wanted to i could probably start engaging in a lot of the same kinks they use to justify banning some of these blogs twice a day, and i can almost guarantee nothing would happen to me. they don’t care anywhere near as much about the fact that there are nazis on this site, school shooter glorifiers, sections of this website i have seen where people are actually, literally soliciting sex from minors- but those blogs don’t get stalkers or callout posts. staff and the stalkers care way more about a transfem having kinks, or talking about how even people you don’t like or who make you uncomfortable should still have access to basic needs and human rights.

i cannot stress this enough: WE ARE NOT THE PRIMARY TARGETS OF TRANSMISOGYNY. if you are tme and care at all about the way this site has grown increasingly hostile towards transfems, SPEAK UP. GET LOUD ABOUT THE BANNINGS. GET LOUD ABOUT THE STALKERS. GET LOUD ABOUT EVERY SINGLE INSTANCE OF A TRANSFEM BEING DOGPILED, HARASSED, OR HAVING THEIR LIVELIHOOD RUINED BY TRANSMISOGYNIST MOBS.

learn the signs. pay attention, and fucking listen to your sisters. listen to them while they still have a voice. that is the least you can do.

[autisticiris]

Hey! Stop doing material analysis of societal biases! That’s oppression olympics!

Anyway, here’s a five paragraph essay on why men are actually oppressed, if you take this away from me you’re basically hitler.

[tboy-trash]

[seeing a cis woman upset after a cis man called her a hysterical bitch] omg why are cis people always infighting?? gender norms oppress all of them, they should be fighting together :3 cis women need to stop making such a fuss and be kind to their brothers

[kayla-denker]

"Why are they fighting when they could be kissing instead!"

[tboy-trash]

[seeing a cis woman upset after a cis man called her a hysterical bitch] omg why are cis people always infighting?? gender norms oppress all of them, they should be fighting together :3 cis women need to stop making such a fuss and be kind to their brothers

[kayla-denker]

Birthday boy discovers "sealioning", a tactic that MRA chuds have been using for decades. Thinks he's invented something new and effective. Sees people correctly interpreting this for sealioning, being annoyed, and probably immediately blocking him, and makes the classic chud mistake of thinking this means he's "won."

There isn't an original thought in the heads of these tMRA dorks.