Kayla's Page

~Just a transsexual ball of lesbian yearning~ -she/her- I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

Penis aint nothin but an outie vagina

[kayla-denker]

Quick, imagine a guy. Just any dude.

Did you imagine a woman? No one does. Tell me again how these terms are "gender neutral."

[creechie]

o-oh.

O H .

F U C K .

[kayla-denker]

"folks", "y'all", and hell even "people" are all right there....

[deadinsalem]

I’m sorry but I simply cannot move past this this was too funny for me

[monster-of-the-margins]

Folks, fuckos, creatures, flesh puppets, and everypony are also gender neutral if you were wondering

[kayla-denker]

If you call me "fucko" I'm going to assume you're being hostile and respond accordingly. If you call me "creature" or "flesh puppet" I'm strait up going to hurt you.

[monster-of-the-margins]

Sorry, i had a poor media literacy moment since those are all things i willingly call myself… i will not call strangers the middle three. I stand by folks and everypony though and also raise yins as an option

[kayla-denker]

"Folks," "yins," and even "everypony" are all extremely fine (though "everypony" will absolutely out you as a tumblrite, lol). I'm an avid "folks" user myself

[parkchanwoohoo]

[kayla-denker]

Quick, imagine a guy. Just any dude.

Did you imagine a woman? No one does. Tell me again how these terms are "gender neutral."

[creechie]

o-oh.

O H .

F U C K .

[airconditionedgirl]

Why not just call us girls? Women? Why does it need to be anything else?

[creechie]

I dunno! I just- I want my writing to feel casual, joyful, and comical! But with how many words in the common language are just slurs or hatred in disguise its getting me killer anxiety about how I can get a similar taste but without offending too many people. :< There's no cute, chill nicknames for women. Maybe 'ladies' but that feels more like cat-calling then something like 'dude'. Duddette? Dudelings? I- I just don't know!!

[kayla-denker]

"I gotta walk on eggshells around all you overly sensative trannies" -ass comment.

Im not surprised though, given that you're an "misandry/androphobia" truther.

[kayla-denker]

I love you

[kayla-denker]

The "I just don't think it was set up well / it came out if nowhere / etc"- type comments about Jax being confirmed to be a trans woman aggrivate me so much because these people say literally the same things about actual real-life trans women when we come out. They said the same things about me when I came out.

It's literally just "there were no signs" bullshit.

[benreyfaggot]

Trans characters are allowed to be bad, or sudden. Im sorry you were tricked into liking a trans woman. Go read harry potter again or something.

[robo-walkingto]

Happy pride month to that white tank top thing Kira wears sometimes. Literally stunning

[gooseworx]

why did jax abstract off screen??????

Because I wanted it to feel as abrupt and upsetting as it feels in real life.

[kayla-denker]

This shits too goddamn much. I can't take it much longer, I'm gonna die.

(Real life shit not tumblr bullshit)

[lakemojave]

Corporations precisely on june 1st:

[godofforgetfulness]

It's July now.

[kayla-denker]

"Androphobia" means literally the exact same thing as "misandry"! Replacing the "misandry" in "transmisandry" with "androphobia" changed literally nothing about the term!

There is no systemic or cultural oppression of men for being men! Misandry/androphobia is not real!

It is all bullshit made up by antifeminist men in the late 2000s who called themselves "Men's Rights Activists" (MRAs). It's literally bullshit that antifeminist conservative assholes have been peddling for years! Yes, that includes all your horseshit arguments about "well, what about blsck men! What about gay men!" These are all talking points that I personally have watched antifeminst MRAs throw around on social media for DECADES!

You are spreading conservative antifeminist propeganda!

[luvkthepsychic]

i thought transandrophobia was not "transphobia x androphobia" but "transandro + phobia" as in the specific oppression faced by transmascs? where "transandro" refers to transmasc people and "phobia" refers to the discrimination

[kayla-denker]

That's bullshit, and you should be able to recognize that.

MRAs coined "misandry" to subvert and counter feminist criticisms of misogyny. And the MRAs peddling "transandrophobia" coined that term for the exact same reason; to counter and subvert transfeminist criticisms of transmisogyny. Why do you think they originally used the term "transmisandry?" Or do you think "transmisandry" is "transmis + andry?!"

Transmisogyny is a term that was coined by Julia Serano in 2007 because of her understanding of how intersectional oppression works. Transmisogyny exists because both transphobia and misogymy exist, and they intersect to create a unique form of oplression that transfeminine people are subjected to. "Transmisandry/Transandrophobia" does not exist because there is no "misandry/androphobia" for transphobia to intersect with.

If you absolutely need a soecial term to describe a unique form of discrimination that transmascs face, transemasculation would be the only apt one. Because transphobia does intersect with emasculation to create a new and unique kind of discrimination that transmascs have to deal with. But, of course, MRAs refuse to use that one because they can't use it to trojan horse the idea that "misandry is real" into the mainstream.

[ashenmind]

“what? don’t like it when your ‘manic pixie dream girl’ is experiencing mania?”

[kayla-denker]

"Androphobia" means literally the exact same thing as "misandry"! Replacing the "misandry" in "transmisandry" with "androphobia" changed literally nothing about the term!

There is no systemic or cultural oppression of men for being men! Misandry/androphobia is not real!

It is all bullshit made up by antifeminist men in the late 2000s who called themselves "Men's Rights Activists" (MRAs). It's literally bullshit that antifeminist conservative assholes have been peddling for years! Yes, that includes all your horseshit arguments about "well, what about blsck men! What about gay men!" These are all talking points that I personally have watched antifeminst MRAs throw around on social media for DECADES!

You are spreading conservative antifeminist propeganda!

[aphrodite-is-tma]

"oh well if you go talk to queer people in real life these problems don't exist"

I have been in 1 (one) queer space in my life with an *almost* proportionate number of transfems, and that's because it made an active effort to include transfems. these problems "don't exist" irl because transfems are excluded irl.

[kayla-denker]

Quick, imagine a guy. Just any dude.

Did you imagine a woman? No one does. Tell me again how these terms are "gender neutral."

[creechie]

o-oh.

O H .

F U C K .

[airconditionedgirl]

Why not just call us girls? Women? Why does it need to be anything else?

[creechie]

I dunno! I just- I want my writing to feel casual, joyful, and comical! But with how many words in the common language are just slurs or hatred in disguise its getting me killer anxiety about how I can get a similar taste but without offending too many people. :< There's no cute, chill nicknames for women. Maybe 'ladies' but that feels more like cat-calling then something like 'dude'. Duddette? Dudelings? I- I just don't know!!

[kayla-denker]

"I gotta walk on eggshells around all you overly sensative trannies" -ass comment.

Im not surprised though, given that you're an "misandry/androphobia" truther.

[recoveredcombatsister]

what the fuck is it with tmes and their obsession with drawing transfems with stubble