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~Just a transsexual ball of lesbian yearning~ -she/her- I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[transfemininomenon]

dark souls 3 is ten years old ????

[transfemininomenon]

this isn't the gif i thought it would be .

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[kayla-denker]

I'm gonna say this one single time to get it out of my system cause ita driving me crazy and then I'll go back to just defending the show and Gooseworx cause I do not want to contribute to any hate campaign against her and the hatr that the show and Gooseworx is getting is based purely on transmisogyny not any real valid criticisms or else these people would be bothered by this as well:

Jax isn't bad representation because of anything to do with her character or the story. Jax is bad representation because she's played by a cis man instead of a trans woman. Even the "macroverse" version of Jax, "Leeroy", is played by a cis man as far as I can tell.

That is the only valid criticism of the show and Gooseworx, imo. And it is a bad one. But not worthy of attacking her like she's the worst person in the world who should be unemployed and destitute.

[jesterdisorder]

actually yeah the way certain fans treat the character with deep rooted mental illness and interpersonal issues most likely caused by parental abuse and being in denial about his (her) trans identity makes me sick actually. The fact so many think Jax didn't deserve a chance to grow and heal just reinforces the fact that people only support Good Victims/Mentally ill people. Jax is very clearly a rotten egg/so far up her own ass in denial and trying to push away anybody due to the fear of being seen and understood. People just hate trans women or anybody that isn't clearly performing femininity or queerness "correctly"

[bishounenic]

TMEs: Jax is bad trans rep because he's meannnnnnnnnnnnnnn :((

Trans women: Actually, I relate to her because—

TMEs: YOU ARE EVIL AND WORSE THAN AN ABUSER. Jax is soooooooooo bad for the transfem community like sooooooo bad :((

[recoveredcombatsister]

anyways calling yourself "transfemmasc" betrays a fundamental misunderstanding of how literally any part of transition works and you should be embarrassed to try and join conversations as if you know enough to have any kind of authority

[tangerinezest]

i was grazed by a bullet intended for the woman nearby so i’m a murder victim. yeah the bullet hit her in the chest and i’m only grazed but are you telling me that means i’m not a victim of the bullet, just because it wasn’t intended for me? why are you telling me to move out of the way so you can give her life-saving aid i’m literally bleeding from this superficial wound in my arm. i think we need to pay equal attention to ALL victims of this bullet.

[thejollywriter]

just came across a blog doing a ton of gen ai slop as """"""""art""""""" but hold on, it gets worse.

the """art"""" is of nude trans women. None of it was flagged as "mature."

So lemme get this straight. Actual trans women, clothed or not, get flagged and harassed relentlessly as "mature content," censored and blocked and demolished on this site, but someone can just fill a blog with generated nude women as slop and none of it gets flagged?

cool cool cool cool cool cool what the FUCK are we DOING here.

anyway block and report lolly-pop-art.

[thejollywriter]

Trans women are harassed to literal death on this fucking website but y'all are out here making slop of our nude bodies.

A lot of trans women do porn, too, but you can't support that either.

You want the fetishized image of our bodies but no voices, no authorship of how and when we're viewed.

[fertilefloors]

i don't remember so i'm not sure this is a thing but how were you taught about the 3/5ths Compromise? that clause of the US constitution that says slaves will be counted as 3/5ths of a person? was it like, oh that's bad because it is dehumanizing to be considered less than a full person?

like that isn't the problem there. these people were already enslaved. everything about how society and the economy and whatever was structured was premised on them not being human. The Problem is for what propose they were being counted as 3/5ths of a person. it was for apportioning representatives and taxes. the south had millions of people enslaved. 3/5ths of those millions were considered for how many representatives the states had in congress. the more slaves, the more political power. and this had repercussions that echo down through to today. and this is reflected today in prison populations being counted for political representation but incarcerated people being disenfranchised. and in gerrymandering and in gutting the voting rights act. in the continued denial of political power to black people.

literally like everything this country does is a badge of slavery. everything is reproducing slavery while trying to forget it.

oh and the other side of the compromises: the taxes. the south could continue to benefit from slavery and accumulated political power as long as it meant the north and the federal govt could accumulate wealth and capital in tandem.

maybe everyone knows this shit already but like the good guys were always benefitting from slavery from the absolute earliest days of this country's founding. they just didn't want the south to keep all the wealth generated from it. everything that happens today is designed to reproduce this.

[tpwrtrmnky]

Ok but when you say "restorative justice" do you mean "hegemonic power structures need to provide ways for people who've done bad things to reintegrate into society" or do you mean "you, personally, someone with no hegemonic power whatsoever, need to keep forgiving people who've hurt you forever" because those are like. Pretty different.

[tpwrtrmnky]

Do you mean community as in "broad coalition of people united by some shared material interests" or do you mean "Discord server"

[revelware]

If I see one more person who is into butchfemme call tma/tme a regressive binary I'm going to start welding your carabiners shut

[revelware]

treating 20th century american lesbian bar culture as a universal queer experience and pillar of our culture while simultaneously discounting contemporary theory of gender dynamics is just straight up conservative... you are just trying to conserve a different culture than the usual breed.

[revelware]

I am unimpressed by drag. I am unimpressed by butchfemme. I am unimpressed by so many of the hallmarks of the queer queer culture of the previous century being used as a bludgeon against a fledgling mode of material analysis.

I am unimpressed with transgression being the yardstick by which we measure the value of our culture, rather than the material liberation of our people.

[kayla-denker]

I wish people would stop derailing my post about trans women's periods to talk about trans men's periods. Yes, obviously you deserve to talk about yours too, but could you make your own goddamn post about it?

There is *zero* space reserved for trans women to talk about our periods. Most trans women keep quiet about our symptoms every month, opting to suffer in silence, because most people get very angry at us for even so much as mentioning that we get periods. Any time there is any kind of event to talk about trans people's periods and offer support for them, trans women are excluded.

So could you stop pushing us out of my own goddamned post about it!!

[flymultiply]

Honestly for a long time I didn't think trans women got periods, so I was confused. So I looked it up

Obviously trans women don't have periods the way we think of most periods, no uterine line shedding, no blood, and no cycle. But taking estrogen can lead to pms symptoms, and from the brief description I read reminds me of being a teen when my cycle was setting in. The worst part about that for me was how irregular my cycle was and how dismissive drs and even women around me were.

There's not enough research on cis periods, and there's not enough research into trans health, so most women will be told their symptoms are nothing.

I'm a trans guy and thankfully don't get my period anymore, but I remember how bad they got and the treatment from others. Can't imagine knowing what the experience is like and not listening to trans women just because there's no blood

[kayla-denker]

You're not listening to a trans woman right now. Saying we "don't have periods the way we think of most periods...no cycle."

Literally the only symptom we don't get is menstruation. We have a 28-day cycle, we get cramps, body aches, migraines, depression, period shits, breast pain, all the other symptoms. Because the period is caused by the endocrine system, not the uterus. The uterus is affected by the period, not the cause of it. This is why cis women who've had hystorectomies also get a period identical to this.

[skronklpus]

It’s them !

[superdaisypowerhour]

"if i had a time machine i would go back in time and kill hitler"

I would put sea mines around medieval britain. i would give hannibal barca ww2 era heavy artillery and tell him not to stop till he starts seeing gauls. i would give boudica a fucking abrams. i would appear before jesus like an angel and tell him "you gotta stop. not cause theyll kill you, youre fine with that, surprisingly, but because your fanclub is gonna spend about 1500 years making everything worse for everyone, everywhere." I would take a glock back in time and shoot romulus, shoot remus, and shoot that damn dog too just to be safe. i would be on the side of christopher columbus' ship in a scuba suit planting c4 on that bitch like rainbow six siege. i would be waging a one woman campaign of terror across andalusia to prevent the reconquista. i would be getting way out in front of that shit is what im saying,

[dairypropaganda]

You have to acknowledge trans women's bodies as female in order to ally with and protect them. It isn't optional. Hrt changes a person's sex. Trans women on hrt are female and experience being female hormonally. They have periods, which are a hormonal occurrence. Its not even true that all trans women don't have uteruses or vaginas. Trans women are female and sex is a series of characteristics, including hormones, organs, and physical features. You don't actually know your chromosomes. Doctors do not know your chromosomes, except in rare cases. Most people don't even know what internal organs they have for a large chunk of their lives. State assigned gender is a guess.

(EDIT: since this apparently wasn't clear. This is about the current medical classification of "biologically female." Sex as a societal concept isnt real.)

[birchbeer]

npr ran a story this morning on air about the recent supreme court ruling in favor of trans youth sports bans, a ruling that specifies trans girls in particular and allows even public schools in red states to do whatever kind of exclusionary policy they want. and for this story they interviewed two people: a teenage trans boy in massachusetts who participates in tons of school sports, and an activist trans man in nyc who runs a nonprofit for trans youth. I'm not saying that either of these people have absolutely nothing pertinent to say about trans youth issues, but the teenager from MA mostly spoke about how lucky *he* is to participate in sports and the activist from NYC spent the entire interview plugging the book he wrote while barely answering a single question. The activist guy mentioned that he actually has spoken to the west virginian trans girl who was part of the case, but only to say how proud/sad he is to watch her become an activist "just like him".

not to be a critic, but its crazy to me that they could not speak either TO or ABOUT the people affected by this ruling (trans girls in conservative areas) at all. a combination of transmisogyny and shitty reporting means that the takeaway from that segment seemed to be "well, it sucks, but at least blue states are still allowed to be accepting of trans youth" rather than the very real attempts to eradicate trans people from public life or the very real possibility of violent retaliation against trans girls in these states.

during the activist's interview, the radio host asked him if he could quickly dispel some of the myths around trans youth in sports somehow being unfair to cis youth, and his response was to awkwardly shrug off the question and say that the answer is simply too "complicated and nuanced" to give a short soundbite on air about. are you fucking kidding me? live on WNYC with about 1 million weekly listeners, and you can't just say with your whole chest that trans girls belong in girls sports because they are girls too? come on