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~Just a transsexual ball of lesbian yearning~ -she/her- I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kayla-denker]

I'm not interested in arguing with anyone on this hellsite. I am here to vent. If you try to argue with me I'm just gonna block you.

[kaijufluffs]

She's being so big and brave.

[ellllllliote]

saw a TikTok talking about how fucked up it is that people are abandoning trans people politically.

opened the comments to see somebody (transmasculine) commenting about how transfems get all the attention and how they wish more people would talk about transmasculine people

I reply to explain that trans women are (and should be) centered in conversations about transphobia because they are treated worse and have worse sociopolitical outcomes. as politely as I am able while still conveying the relevant information

within the span of an hour this person and a separate transmasculine person reply to this comment to argue this. the creator of the video, who is also transmasculine btw, likes the comment I was disagreeing with and deletes mine.

so anyways, it’s fucked up how people are abandoning trans people politically. and when I say trans people I mean WOMEN!!!!!!!!! And FEMS!!!!!!! ESPECIALLY BLACK TRANSFEMS!!!!!!!

[tankie-transfeminist]

This is transfeminism!

[alpineprincess]

If black trans women aren't centered in the struggle for trans liberation, true trans liberation will never occur.

[kayla-denker]

It's not even hard to acknowledge the privelege you have over other more marginalized people within your demographic, and it does nothing to erase the struggles you still face.

Watch, I'll do it right now:

I, a white trans woman, have privelege over all racialized trans women. All the transmisogyny I face is amplified a thousandfold for them because that transmisogyny intersects with the racism they also face. And I will never be able to truly understand that as they do.

Did the transmisogyny I am subjected to dissapear? Lol, no.

Do I feel a need to invent some bullshit term like "transmisogynblanc" because they have the term "transmisogynior" to describe the specific form of oppression they face at the crossroads of transphobia, misogyny, and racism? Lol, no. I'm not at those crossroads. I'm just at the intersection of misogyny and transphobia. There isn't even an "anti white racism" road to intersect with those other two, it doesn't exist.

In case you're too dense: this post is criticizing "transmisandry/transandrophobia" ideology and it's belief that transmascs don't benefit from patriarchy.

[maidslime]

"do you think pre-transition trans men have male privilege?!" Is such a telling thing from transandrodorks, because it clarifies that they do not understand privilege/power/oppression dynamics, but worst of all it shows they define transhood by hrt. Yes, some trans men pre hrt absolutely have male privilege, because hrt isn't the moment you suddenly become trans, hrt is not when you suddenly become a man or a woman. You can come out and not do anything to medically alter your body. Do you think trans women are spared harassment just because they're not on hrt? Do you think pre hrt trans women are privileged? This is another chapter in the 'transandrodorks are actually bioessentialist' because they refuse to recognize pre hrt trans people as their genders as victims of their respective bigotries. A state banned trans girls from joining women's teams to affect one specific trans girl. In an entire state. Did that trans girl have male privilege? Dumbasses.

[kayla-denker]

I'm sorry, OP, I wanna take this opportunity to build off of your point with a bit of a long addition:

Trans men have male privilege even when they "don't pass," even when they are in the closet.

Because they are men living in a world that is built specifically to cater to the needs and desires of men.

Do they face oppression? Obviously, because they are trans. Thats why theres a closet for them to be in and come out of in the first place. Its literally the same thing with cis gay men. They also have male privilege while still being oppressed for being gay. Like, do you think that cis gay men and cis gay women have it exactly the same? That they face the exact same amount of oppression and marginalization? Get the fuck out of here.

The women of every single demographic always have it worse than the men of that demographic. Patriarchy gives the men of that demographic privelege over the women of that demographic.

This is intersectional feminism 101!

And this is always perfectly displayed by the wage gap. Straight white men make more than straight white women. Black men make more than black women while still making less than all white people. Gay cis men make more than gay cis women while still making less than all straight cis people. And trans men make more than trans women while still making less than all cis people.

There is no caveat about "only when they pass", because this isn't about how you're percieved by the immediate people around you. Its about the systems we live in and who they're designed to benefit.

[dogstrogen]

"tme/tma is a binary!!" yes that's how oppression descriptors fucking work dipshit. you're either the intended target for discrimination or you're not. you don't fucking transcend oppression just because you're nonbinary or intersex

[lilith-hazel-mathematics]

Checked some guys blog to see if he was normal about transfems, and he's got a post just point blank saying "trans radfems" are pedophiles. Like okay I guess we're just going full mask off lol.

"Transfems are sexual predators" is the primary TERF viewpoint. Like that's their entire thesis statement. The "radfem" call is coming from inside the house, dipshit. You believe in their beliefs.

[kayla-denker]

Yeah, you go ahead and give that victorian child a sprite. You're gonna be dissapointed when you learn that they'dbe unimpressed (they had carbonated drinks back then and they thought cocaine was good for you, lol)

I'm gonna give a victorian woman a hitatchi wand so she can have an orgasm for the first time in her life.

[kayla-denker]

Why in the actual fuck would "Evil Jax" be transmasc? Are you fucking kidding me? None of the other "evil" characters were gender swapped. Will y'all ficking let it go and stop trying to make any version of Jax transmasc? She's canonically transfem! Fucking go play with all the actual transmasc characters out there.

[missstrogen]

It's wierd how there's always "accountability" for trans women but never for transmisogynists.

Did we see any of these people argue for a process of holding britt-galaxys-brain for her whole "using kiwifarms" deal? or has it only be the people she targets? Really wierd huh. I wonder why

[cdigoddess]

[transfemininomenon]

dark souls 3 is ten years old ????

[transfemininomenon]

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[kayla-denker]

I'm gonna say this one single time to get it out of my system cause ita driving me crazy and then I'll go back to just defending the show and Gooseworx cause I do not want to contribute to any hate campaign against her and the hatr that the show and Gooseworx is getting is based purely on transmisogyny not any real valid criticisms or else these people would be bothered by this as well:

Jax isn't bad representation because of anything to do with her character or the story. Jax is bad representation because she's played by a cis man instead of a trans woman. Even the "macroverse" version of Jax, "Leeroy", is played by a cis man as far as I can tell.

That is the only valid criticism of the show and Gooseworx, imo. And it is a bad one. But not worthy of attacking her like she's the worst person in the world who should be unemployed and destitute.

[jesterdisorder]

actually yeah the way certain fans treat the character with deep rooted mental illness and interpersonal issues most likely caused by parental abuse and being in denial about his (her) trans identity makes me sick actually. The fact so many think Jax didn't deserve a chance to grow and heal just reinforces the fact that people only support Good Victims/Mentally ill people. Jax is very clearly a rotten egg/so far up her own ass in denial and trying to push away anybody due to the fear of being seen and understood. People just hate trans women or anybody that isn't clearly performing femininity or queerness "correctly"

[bishounenic]

TMEs: Jax is bad trans rep because he's meannnnnnnnnnnnnnn :((

Trans women: Actually, I relate to her because—

TMEs: YOU ARE EVIL AND WORSE THAN AN ABUSER. Jax is soooooooooo bad for the transfem community like sooooooo bad :((

[recoveredcombatsister]

anyways calling yourself "transfemmasc" betrays a fundamental misunderstanding of how literally any part of transition works and you should be embarrassed to try and join conversations as if you know enough to have any kind of authority